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I'm 16 and a bruised member of the Sun Valley guard. I like rock climbing, camping, white water rafting, pretty much anything to do with the outside. Most of the time I'm at school, the rest I'm at guard or with the friends. I have a little brother that's 13, we pretend like we don't like each other, but really we're pretty tight. I tend to be my friends soundboard, so if you want someone to listen or if you want advice, talk to me! Signing out, Em'lee
Gender: Female
Location: Matthews, North Carolina
Occupation: Bertucci's
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 21, 2004
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hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do? (link)
Honey, by what you said it sounds like he has made it clear that he doesn't want to be anything more then friends. If you push him he may just stop talking to you completely. My advice: be his friend, be there for him, and when he's ready he'll realize that you are an awesome person and he may just want to be more the friends. But until then, don't try anything serious- just flirt like mad!


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lol thanx hun!




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