hey everyone!
my name is sam and i'm 16 and i live in wisconsin. I'm a sophmore. I'm pretty good at advice, as i've had many problems of my own and helped many friends get through theirs. I hope to help out anyone who needs it!!
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okie heres the thing: see iva had this reallie close frend since i was in 6th grade. we got along tite and stuff thah people started to believe thah we were going out and stuff alredy even tho we were just friends. at the end of 6th grade i moved and dint get to talk to "person" and i dint want to. i wanted to forget about "person" coz eben tho i liked him i knew there was like NO POSSIBLE WAY rite?
well at the beginning of 8th grade wen i finally did get to push "person" to the FARTHEST places in my mind i got to talk to "person" agin through AIM (coz i havent gone on fer like a whole year and a half) and started to like "person" agin. then after a month "person" told me "person" liked me in the 6th grade and that "person" still liked me. i was totally happy rite?
then i intro-ed "person" to like three of my closest frends and one of them like totally changed "person". "person" was soo different and by february "person" didnt even want to talk to me anymore- "person" only wanted to talk to my frend. i knew my frend didnt want to take "person" away or anything even tho she didnt knoe anything baout how i used to crush on him and stuff like that.
wen i went back to see "person" in my hometown, i ran into a couple of my other frends who kept telling me that "person" was sooooo different than how "person" used to be before i left, and they kept bugging me about how "person"
DID like me and that wen i left "person" went through an entire trauma. wen "person" talked to me "person" sed that "person" just turned all wierd and began hating everything since 7th grade. i felt soooo bad!!
is all his changing my fault or was it just something that was coming around? i mean, "person" wasn't anything like how people described "person" wen i was there and they sed that that was the first time "persons" been like that for a long time. so is it a yes "person" likes me or a no? its been bugging and everytime i tried to talk to "person" about it i just get too shy and it ends up to be a talk about one of our common interests or something. (link)
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You couldn't help that you had to move..& it's impossible for it to be ur fault he changed. People change because they want to, if they don't want to change then they don't. Maybe he did go through a trama or something, but that's not ur fault either because you couldn't help that you had to move. If he liked you then that's fine, he could have still kept in touch with you through emails and letters and your visits back to ur hometown, he didnt have to become a different person because of it. And i don't think you should talk to him about it, only because, he might get offended by it. cuz ur saying his changed which he might think that he changed for the worst and he might go through another trama about that or something. (if you do it once, chances are you'll do it again) unless he brings up the topic, don't talk to him about it. *And always remember its NOT ur fault for him changing, he's the only one that can make himself change*
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thah is soo troo buh still i hab my doubts ya noe?? well thanks anyways..MUCH!
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