I'm a laid-back person; easy to talk to; if you need advice, just ask away and I promise to get back to each and everyone of you...My name is Ellen; I go by Elle for short, and I love meeting new people :D
E-mail: lenachka22@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do? (link)
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hey, wow this is a toughy...girls happen to be like that sometime; does she know that you've had something for her..maybe enough to make a move on her, if she wasn't dating your friend? i'm guessing she doesnt, which is probably why she feels so comfortable around you- maybe she sees you as a very trustworthy person ...even more than her boyfriend, which can definitely happen...maybe she looks to you more for advice or maybe she even just feels like she can be completely herself around you and tell you very personal things and you won't judge her...i don't know exactly what's going on there...i think that there really is nothing you can do since you already said that getting in between the relationship isn't within your best interest...so i would suggest staying good friends, seeing where things go and if things clear up- but if nothing seems to make sense, the only logical thing other than this would be to approach her...ask her what's on her mind and how she feels about you and your friendship..those would be the best answers you could ever get- since they are coming directly from her... hope i helped [rate me please?] good luck! =]
love elle
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Rating: 5
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Thanks. good advice. a lot of what you said is prolly very true.
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