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Q: My best friend is acting really different because she acts black and she's not. And I mean she really acts black. ONe time she said to me " I'm really supposed to be black and look it too (meaning her skin complection) but because I have french , english, italian, and other stuff in me I came out white". That was such a lie. How could she say that. She really wishes that she was black. I like her being herself not the fony that's the only reason I became her bff because before she used to act real and be herself. I met her in 3th grade now were going to 9th grade. Ever since 5th grade she started cussin and I started cuz I dont knop but it wasn't cuz she started. Well, I need to kno what I should tell my bff like should I say stop actin that way and explain it to her I'm not sure. Help me out. signed- confused grl
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It's a matter of changing really. Everyone goes through changes in their life. But if you don't change together...that is where you have the problem. Take into consideration that maybe this could be her now. (If you are sure it isn't, it would be a good thing to talk to her about how she is acting.) And here's another good thing: My best friend is black, and she's so white though. It's funny. But every once in awhile she has a "black moment" and I seriously can't be around her. If I don't have that option, I just ignore her. But I do tell her off, because I don't deserve to be treated that way, and neither do you. It is annoying. So unless you feel like getting on to her ALL the time, the best thing to do would be confront her about how you're feeling (Yes, I know this sounds bad, but it's true) Friendships only work if everyone knows what's going on. And if she still doesn't change, and you don't like the person she is anymore, maybe it's time to take a break from this friendship, and spend more time with people you can stand to be around, and that are more like you.
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Oh my god that was sich good advice thank u pleez anser my questions often after my question I'll put confusedgrl all the time bye wat will be ur nick name so I can answer ur questions?
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All you need to know.
1. I'm very good at giving advice.
2. Asking for advice is just reassurance for yourself.
3. Period.
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