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Alright, I'm kind of torn on this issue. My mom and I are really close and we always have been.
There's just a little background info.
My boyfriend and I are planning on getting an apartment together when we graduate. I kind of want to tell my mom because he's away, earning money to put towards our apartment. She always says "If he loves you, then he shouldn't have gone." and I always want to say "Hey, he's doing this for us," and tell her about the whole apartment thing.
Thing is, she's never been crazy about the idea of two people not married living together. I hate to keep secrets from her, though. She's like a friend sometimes more than a mom.
Another issue is...
Yeah, I'm not a virgin. I haven't been since...april? and my mom keeps asking in this accusatory tone of voice "You haven't been having sex, have you?" (this is where she turns into my mom) and I've been saying "What? No. I told you, we're waiting..." or whatever
But I've seriously been considering telling her. She told me when she took me to get the pill that I could tell her if/when I had sex if I wanted to. She left the option open. I've been tempted to tell her recently.
Thing about THIS is, she hates liars. Like, a lot. If I were to tell her now, I'd have to admit that I've been lying since, like, april.
So what do you guys think? Should I tell her about both? One? The other? None?
I'm just looking for an opinion here, mostly out of curiosity. The final decision will obviously be mine. Thanks! (link)
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you and your mom are close riiiiite???
well it'll be better to let her kno now then to wait until u move in together
and think, if u wait till u move in together or even longer to let her know about the whole sex issue, she'll get even more mad that u lied that long, so i think u should let her know
but u r rite, the fnial option is up to u
i just hope u make the rite chioce
follow your heart and your conscience... u wouldn't have asked if u didn't feel guilty
Good Luck!!
(rate me PLEASE)
~*~*~*KrAzI KaT*~*~*~
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Rating: 3
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Mm yes, we are close. Thanks for your opinion, but you're very wrong about the guilty part. I feel no regrets or guilt about what I've done and will do.
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