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my name is sam and i'm 16 and i live in wisconsin. I'm a sophmore. I'm pretty good at advice, as i've had many problems of my own and helped many friends get through theirs. I hope to help out anyone who needs it!!
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Alright well tonight I found out that my bestfriend had sex with my Ex boyfriend... he actually wasnt my boyfriend but i concider him one because we were "Together" But not offically! And I dont know what to do because the person that told me I swore to him i wouldnt tell! And this is the hardest thing that I have truely ever had to been threw! I dont know what to do! Please help me :-/ (link)
Maybe you could try to get it out of your friend without actually saying that you know, like casually bring it up. Or if there was a way you could keep this guy that told you name out of it so he wouldn't get into any trouble with anyone, then i suggest you do that. Talk to your friend if she confesses to having sex with your ex. But remember, technically he wasn't yours anymore, but she still should have been more respecful of you and your feelings. Keep in mind when your doing this, that you may be mad at your friend right now, but if she's a good friend and especially since she's your best friend, let her explain first and don't let your friendship be ruined over this. If you can try to calm down a little bit before you talk to her .. hope this helped at all


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thanks for the advice... I know hes isnt mine anymore but I'm still really in love with him, and like if you knew the reason why she did it (because she hasnt gotten any in a while) I think you'd be pretty upset as well! Me and her talk about it all the time about how I still have feelings for him and JUST last night she said she misses me and him being together! Thats So screwed up! THANKS again for your advice :-/




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