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17/f
Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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There must be a reason why he smokes and drinks alot and gets into fights. U said not many people like him. Maybe he's just not happy. So u don't HAVE to get rid of him because you can try to talk to him and see if there's something wrong that you can help him with. If you can get him to smoke less and drink less that might also help because drinking and smoking are ways people use to 'get away from life' and he can never face his problems if he runs away from them. It sounds like he needs to get his life together.
But if he doesn't seem to want any help maybe he just has to figure this out on his own and you might have you leave him.
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thanks! i guess i'll just see how things go but i really needed an opinion and yours was definatly good!
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