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My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married and I am fine with that. I actually can not wait. He is my world. The thing is that I want to get my mom's wedding band and engagement ring. My aunt has both of them because my mom passed away. I live to far from her to ask her in person. So I wrote her a letter asking her for the rings. She promised I would get them when I graduated and well, I graduated 2 years ago. I have let it be until now and i do not think she will give them to me. She knows how I feel about getting them and what not. Do you think that she will send them to me? (link)
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I would have to question why your aunt want's to keep your mother's rings and what motivates her to do this.
Instead of writing her I would try to contact her by phone and speak with her directly. Explain to her how much this means to you to have your mother's rings in your possession. I don't know the cicurmstances of how and why your aunt ended up with the rings, but you probably need to find out.
Did you have a good relationship with you mom before she passed? The reason I asked you this is because your aunt may feel that if there was any gripe between you and your mother that you don't deserve the rings. (Keep in mind that I am on assuming what happened).
If you truly beleive that you are entitled to the rings, I would take her to court to get the rings back.
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