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Ok i read the response u had for a young lady struggling with weight and u basically said being skinny is not all it s cracked up to be and let someone fall in love with u for u
Ok i am a lesbian woman and so i met this woman on the chat line and we were really feeling each other s personalities and she was more infatuated with me than i was with her, to the point where she was like "u cld be talking to ur wife" so anyways i sent her my picture and she was like i m disappointed and we have not really spoke since.
I am an overweight woman and i sometimes feel that i am not attractive but i love the way i look it just seems that others dont. It seems to be very hard for me to meet women due to my lack of self confidence, how can someone lose interest just like that ? it seems impossible to have someone fall for u when it is always about what u look like physically! (link)
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Unfortunately we live in a world where appearances definitely matter and there's not much we can do about it. But one thing those people who are successful and popular have in common is not beauty but self confidence. As you've said, you're lacking in confidence. I think that's more of a problem than your appearance itself. Ask yourself why you're not confident and what you can do to change your outlook. Only action will make things better for you. Always be honest with yourself. I used to make myself believe that I was happy with the way I looked, but I wasn't really. I was somehow on the defensive, trying to protect myself rather than face the truth.
But remember, everyone (including beautiful people)gets old and wrinkly but what you are on the inside will stay with you forever. Besides you will find someone just right for you when the time is right.
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