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I have a boyfriend that i've been going out with for almost 3 months now, and he is slowly making him way to making me feel comfortable with him "sexualy". I love my boyfriend, and i would hate to lose him, and I want to but I was taught to wait until you have sex. What should I do? (link)
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Three months isn't that long, when it comes right down to it. You're still basically getting to know each other.
Usually, people feel physically ready to have sex well before they're truly emotionally ready. Having sex will certainly change your relationship, and you want to be sure it's strong enough for that.
I'm a little concerned because you mentioned how you "would hate to lose" your boyfriend -- as though you think you have to have sex with him to keep him. Is that true? Because if he's made you feel that way, that's just not acceptable. He has to respect your feelings and your values -- if he truly loves you, he won't pressure you to have sex until you're ready.
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