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Is it healthy for a guy to want to have sex like 3/4 times a day? Is there a healthy average amount for a couple to do...both aged 37?
Just curious. He says I don't fulfill his needs. (link)
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Well, it's not exactly abnormal, but I'd think it would be difficult to sustain that kind of frequency for long!
There's no such thing as "average," really -- every couple is different, and every couple varies a lot over time as well. What feels right to *you*? Could you work out some sort of compromise? And how long have the two of you been together? The activity might settle down naturally to a more manageable level after a while.
(I think, incidentally, he would be hard pressed to find many other women who were willing to have sex 3-4x/day on a regular basis. I mean, people have other things to do with their time, you know? And at his age, he must realize that. So I wonder if his complaint about sex might not at least partly related to other issues -- do you have good chemistry in general? Is there a healthy level of general physical affection? Does he know how to be intimate in nonsexual ways? If not, he may be focusing on sex because it's the only way he knows how to be close to you. Just a thought.)
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Rating: 5
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for how long we have been together...please see additional info I added to question... :)
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