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i have a very close friend who is sometimes physically abused by her mother. i, outside her nuclear family, am the only person who knows. her mother scratches at her skin and hits her, only on fridays so the marks will be gone by monday. she also yells at her far more than normal in front of me even and criticizes everything she does anywhere. my friend also is severly subservient as a consequence and apologizes for trivial things very frequently, among other things. i think these are signs of mental abuse, from being so traumatized. i would do something about it as soon as i found out, except that i think, and i know my friend thinks, it would cause more problems for her in the long run. we'll be off to college in one moe year. she also has a younger brother who undergoes the same. what should i do, if anything?

I was being abused and my mother attempted to even kill me once or twice, and I had a friend who convinced me to call the police and it was the best thing that happened to me. She saved my life.
If you really care about her and you KNOW she's being abused; call. the. police. She does not deserve to be abused at all. Even if she's going to college, that's one more year of being abused she doesn't deserve.
Her sibling is being abused, too, and that should be the final line. He's younger, and he'll be just as traumatized as her. Their mother even has a game plan of WHEN to abuse and scream at her children. My dear, that is a very, very, very sick woman.
You could possibly save your friends life and her brothers by calling the police.

Also, if she's suffering from not only physical, but also mental abuse, then people could help her get therapy to straighten her out.

Talk to her about these things before you do anything drastic, though.
Please think what I have said through.

Hope I helped and good luck

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