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(Rating: 4)
thank you. But several people before have told me "there's nothing wrong with you (in terms of anxiety), we all get nervous and we all experience similar problems..."... I have social anxiety and it is something that I've always been dealing with and has gotten worse within the last few years of my life. I screwed up 3 college semesters in a row because of such problems. A lottt of times I was "scared" to go to class. I'd miss lots of classes because I couldnt deal with the way I felt while in class. At times it affects how much I can concenrate, and therefore learn, because I cant even relax at all. I just want to get out of class. I feel like a loser. I don't have many friends. There are a few people that I see every now and then that I speak to that went to my highschool. And if I weren't "pretty" I wouldnt really have any friends; black guys are mostly the only ones that talk to me. Except for the previously listed, and this one nice foreign girl, no one really talks to me and i am not at all good at making friends. I don't talk to anyyone unless they talk to me, (or of course its someone I already talk to). I feel like I cant even bring myself to say any word to anybody. And during group activities when everyone is talking and laughing and I try to be a part of the conversation i feel ignored and I dont ever want to say anything again. I'm often sad and miserable, for reasons that branch from anxiety problems. Who else is scared to go to class? Who else goes entire days at school without talking to anybody unless its absolutely nessecary, as their typical routine? that's not normal =[
(Rating: 5)
you're one of my favorite coloumists (total spelling mistake)
thank you so much!
(Rating: 5)
wow, you give amazing advice. you're now my favorite person to ask questions too! :)
thank you so much! if i could give you more then a 5, i so would.
(Rating: 4)
I am an atheist and I made sure to indicate that in my question, as to ensure that the respondent would not tell me that God is the answer to my problems. As I am not here to attempt to convince you that God does not exist, you should not try to help me by offering me religion. Some of your other advice was encouraging but not very helpful, as "trying" to change and wanting to change hasn't helped so far. If I could cut back on smoking, I would. If I could eat less, I would. My emotional state is preventing me from making improvements in all of these areas. I think I need to find the root of the problem and not simply manipulate its symptoms. It was a tough question to answer, as you do not know me personally and are likely not a therapist but I do appreciate the time you spent answering my question. I will review your answer again and try to use what I can.
(Rating: 5)
I am a very honest person. The sad thing is that I could really like her, if she didn't hate me so much. I agree with you: she should be able to accept me without any trouble, but I'm not sure what, exactly, the trouble is. Thank you for your feedback.
(Rating: 5)
you're advice is amazing! thank you for your brilliant perspective!
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