I've done and lived through a lot, and have seen a lot more. I don't have a counseling degree, just an open mind and a caring heart.
Remember, I'm no Ms. Cleo. I don't have all the answers. I'm just SistaGirl, trying to kick some truth your way.
Gender: Female
Location: San Francisco
Member Since: October 11, 2007
Answers: 9
Last Update: October 12, 2007
Visitors: 1429
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thanks but i posted that about 3 months ago.
my testimony is long over. but thanks for the advice anyways :) i'll use it when i have a next testimony.
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Thank you so much, your advice really put things in perspective for me. I've heard from my dad that he didn't really know my mom at all until they got married (which was only a few months after they first met-- an old school, cultural thing). Anyway, thanks so much for your advice :)
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The best way to put this is your response is a remarkably clear and concise view of the situation for someone whos completely uninvolved.
Though, I will tell you, she fucked him. Alot. There were people in the next room who witnessed to me. But no, its not in her mind. Hes not trying to lead her on, hes just in a loveless marriage and couldnt pass up free pussy he actually had feelings for.
I do agree on the walking away part. I actually already talked to her mother. And while her mother has horrible judgement at times in her own life, shes intelligent enough to know that she cant do shit about it now. Its a waiting game, but now someone adult and close by knows about it and can do damage control.
You sound, I think Ill use "seasoned" as the adjective. Run into fucked up situations like this before?
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