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Thank you, you don't know how relieved I felt when you said, "She sounds like a total and complete bitch!! " Thank god someone else knows! I fought back the other time, but I know that I'd fight her harder again if it happens, but then again I kno its not going to get me anywhere but grounded from my boyfiend.
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I respect your opinion, and I agree you're right that adultery is a part of the Ten Commandments, but read carefully that premarital sex is what I was addressing and IS NOT the same as adultery. Yes a lot can happen between the first time up to marriage, but if the couple has established the specified aspects (what I said about devotion, commitment, etc), then adultery is unlikely to happen. With your statement about pregnancy, that's why mankind invented birth control! I am not highly religious, but I am devoted to my Catholic faith. I'm not saying that sex before marriage should be encouraged, but under some circumstances it's better than saving sex until marriage. Like one of the columnists said, if adultery occurs after marriage, WHAT'S THE POINT OF GETTING MARRIED? Usually people just assume cheating between any couple to be adultery, but mainly adultery is targeted to those who have taken in the sacrament of matrimony. I respect your opinion entirely, but keep in mind the difference between premarital sex and adultery. My opinion is that the policy against premarital sex is outdated, but those who choose to save until marriage I highly respect. I just believe you have to thoroughly know a person and share everything with them in order to better understand them as a person and as a soulmate, even if it includes sex. This way, you know how they respond to sex, and if the lover ends up leaving, it was never meant to be and it saves us the hassle of getting married to a punk who we thought we knew. You get what I'm saying? Well anyways, I greatly value you're opinoin and I hope you will take my words into consideration. Just remember I'm not promoting any actions; if anything, I'm trying to encourage true love, not lust, passion, infatuation, or anything of the sort!
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