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what do you do when you give a blowjob? like do you suck or lick or both?

Hmm, well it depends on if your blowing a dog or a camel.
Becuase all animals have different feelings :]

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u never answered my qustion. whats the deal?

ok. so i have a boyfriend. and i like him a lot. im in middle school so i see him between every period. which is roughly every hour. i have a best friend. who is a guy, and my boyfriend thinks i flirt with im whenever i talk to him, and i dont. my personality is flirting. i've already tried talking to my boyfriend. and hes always just like 'yeah whatever' and he always gets mad at me for it. i hate it. what should i do??? please help.

Hmm, I understand your situation.
Well, He needs to lighten up a little bit and give you some space.
He needs to have respect for your friends, and he should trust you.
You gotta tell him that, LAY DOWN THE LAW!
Or give him a taste of his own medicine, if hes doing something that you dont like, tell him and bother him about it.
He should get the hint and not only that but tell
him you dont mean to flirt, it comes naturally but you mean nothing by it
If he trusts you, he will understand.
Just confront him!
Sorry that we didnt answer sooner, sometimes we dont get time and we want to answer every question throughly.

Good luck!


--Kendra

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i recently asked u about the whole STD thing, i havent had sex in like a month. but ive given blow jobs, got eaten out, butt sex, the whole 9 yards. anywyaas

take this seriosuly becasue this is my life. and i really need advicce.
i finger myself and masturbate everynight. sometimes i do it when i wake up. and in school ill go to the bathroom and do it. is this normal. im addicted to it. i used to even watch porn to get motivated.?
is it normal to do all this?

no its not normal go get help

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14/f

hey guys. so im 14 and ive been having sex since i was 13. i have had sex with like probably 12-14 guys, and its fun. i have had sex with no condom, but thats becasue i get the day-after pill(my friends sister drives me to get it) and i use that the next day. i have a lot of fun having sex and the only thing is that im scared ill get a disease and i dont know how to get tested. like, where do i go without my parents knwing.
and i do weed and alcohol, if they check me for STDs will they knwo i do that?

um maybe you shouldnt have sex if your only 14.
and having sex with no condom doesnt seem that smart either.I'm not really sure about any of this but talk to your doctor if you wanna know if you have an std but it will come out that your doing drugs or whatever

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I really need some advice. There is a popular crowd at my school and I really wanna be in it. They are really outgoing and everyone is friend's with them. What should i do? Start a coversation with them??

yeah deffinetly
just dont make them think your weird.

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ok i hav a friend and shes a retard! lets call her... idn angie*! ok angie is a retard! she acts lik she likes me but she really HATES me.And her friend idn lets call her... erica* i guess....well i thot erica was by best friend and erica said she didnt like angie that much either, but lately shes only been hanging out with angie! and like abandoning me! and erica tends to lie so i never no wen she's telling the truth! wat do i do?

um i/m alexthepilotx

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Ok, everyone at my school is saying bipolar and i have no clue what it is! Can some one tell me? Cuz lyk is it a problem or something? Tell me plz. Thankz!

it means when your like happy one minute
and then like angry the next

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I resently gained like 20 pounds, i am 13/f 5 foot and 130 pound, i know thats fat.All my sisters make fun of me and call me fatty-mic-fat-fat beacuse they are all vary skinny and beautiful even my parents and friends make fun of me.So i started to eat less and run on the tredmeal every day for a hour but after a wile i desided i would way myself and see how much have lost but i only gained a pound,No matter what do i can't seem to lose weight and now the people at my shcool are tonting me.I don't think i am old anoff to buy eny dieting pills thoughs (how old do you have to be to do that?).What should i do i really whan to ose weight but no matter what i try i can't.

Ah ! I know how you feel.
Im 13 and about 5'7 and i weigh about that too.
I dont like the cruel comments and stuff
and you think people would respect that you TRY and loose weight, people are just cruel.
And one day your gonna be better than them and they are gonna regret being mean, but for your other questions
you dont have to be a certain age to buy diet pills, they are sold at drugstores.
They dont work though, well they didnt work for me.
What works for me , is regulating what I eat.
Like some fruits, some proteins and veggies.
Dont just eat things that say FAT FREE [like chips]
those can be loaded with salt and carbohydrates.
Yes, things that say fat free and low fat and stuff like that are better for you for sure.
But dont live off of them, make sure you have variety.
Good luck!

--kendra

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Okay so i met this kid like 2 weeks ago becuase he lives in my best friends neighboorhood and hes really nice and he treats girls really good i hear. But at school one day we were talkin about him and my friend likes hima nd then this girl (no one really likes her cause shes REALLY stuck up and hates everyone exept herself) she said that was her boyfriend so then ym friend that likes the boy said she talked to him and he told her that he wasn't going out with him and she asked him wht she told him and it was ALL lies and he got madddd. i'm not sure if he doesnt like the mean girl but my friend likes him A LOT! and today the girl goes "oh its a different kid" even tho shes on his top 8 and has a pic of the kid on her myspace. My friend really likes him and i want her to get him cause shes really nice to guys but idk what to do. i talk to him and he doesnt wanna talk to her because he feels bad that he likes her alot one day and then forgets about her because of some lying bitch (sorry for my language lol) so please help me. she talks about this guy 24/7 and cant stop thinkin about him. it makes me misrable.
thanks alott

tell her how you feel,tell him how you feel.

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I need some things that I can bring up with my boyfriend when we talk online. Like so that our conversations can me more intimate. Thanks!!

Ah ! I know your situation.
What I think you should do , is talk about something that happened at school or lately just to bring conversation or ask questions and he might bring more conversation just by the question.
Also make him want to be intrested, say one part of the story but leave him hanging, just to see if he wants to know the rest.
It will all work out!


--Kendra

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you know the episode when spencer's brother(his name just blanked out) and maddison go into the bathroom stahl and we about to have sex. and then maddison walked out on him .. what happened??? i really did not follow.

I lovvee south of nowwhere!
They went to go in the bathroom to have sex,but he couldnt like get hardd because of the medication he was on so she kidda just like walked outt.

- Alex


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wat does LMAO stand for?

laughing my ass off.

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well wat does lmao stand for?? and wat does c/b or cb mean?

comment back

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15/m andi was wondering wat the average penis size is. mines lik 10 in.

like 7,idk

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how do you get pics and icons and stuff to fade out and stuff wen you put your mouse on them?

i hate how it does that
but it automatically does it on photobucket

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on alex's myspace it says canada in ur general. y do u lik canada so much?

why dont you just leave me a comment

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wat kind of make up do u use? especially wat kind of mascara cuz you hav long lashes in that pic! i hav naturally red cheeks. i mean lik really red, how do i cover it up so it doesnt look so...red i guess?


Alex.

well okay my lashes are naturally like that,i use mascara to make them darker.I usally where cliqic but i also have revlon.Don't use cover up either youll have tonns of blackheads.Use any kind of powder.

Is your face red,because you have pimples or had pimples why is it red for.?



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ok do pets go to heaven? if they dont i'll like cry!!!!! and wat do u think?

i dontt knowww
its sadd,i hope so

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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated.

mm maybe a gift card to somewhere
or something thats hes really interested in.

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wat kind of make up do u use? especially wat kind of mascara cuz you hav long lashes in that pic! i hav naturally red cheeks. i mean lik really red, how do i cover it up so it doesnt look so...red i guess?

um welll theres two of us
alex or kendra?

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