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I hang around guys all the time. I don't have any close close girlfriends. I do but they really aren't close because they are all two-faced. If I tell them something, they tell another "two-faced" ""friend"" and then they tell their Friends. Behind my back or to my face it don't matter.. they will call me a slut because whenever I am around them at a party or in school I am usually with a bunch of guys. I am close friends with these guys and I love to be around them because they are so fun and there isn't as much drama. They think that I do things with the guys and I don't. But the bad side of this is that all the guys just want me to "flash" them or do crap with them. I don't because A. I am a classy person. and B. I have a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have people thinking that I do things. Like the other night I wrestled a guy and took him down (it was fun too) but then he pinched me in the chest and it hurt! All the girls were like "oh you liked it. Gah your such a slut" and all that I was like WTH! Then I stayed outside the rest of the night because I was soo mad. And there I was outside with 3 guys and me the only girl. One of the guys was sitting in his pickup and told me to get in cuz it was warmer. I was like no "I don't want people thinking I am a bigger slut than I supposedly am" He was like "F them. Don't worry about them. They are just prude B's that are jealous." (one of them were this guy's Ex.) I don't know how to get through to them that I am not a slut,whore,tramp,or any other name they can think of. I have never done anything not even with my boyfriend if that tells you anything. Please help me find a way to tell them.. Jst so you know I am a shy person so I don't particually like "chewing" them out.

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Ignore those assholes! Who cares? Obviously they are just jealous! You are probably a wonderful, decent person!


ok here is the truth. I'm in basketball and I'm not played a lot. I like playing the sport and I'm good at it, but my coach thinks that the starters should play all the time. I know playing time doesn't matter and it's the whole team as one, but I WANT to play. I'll finish out this year, but what should I do about next year.(it'll be my senoir year so I feel like one more year won't kill me)BUT, I DONT want to be in a sport that makes me feel sad. HELP! (link)
If the coach wants to be like that tell him/her how you feel and then if they still do not let you play drop them like a hot $2 pistal!


i have just downloaded limewire 4.9 to get music for my ipod would someone please help me figure out how to use it? thank you (link)
Simple! Just download a song, go to the iTunes page, click "Add File to Library" go to the limewire file, double click the song you want to add to iTunes and enjoy! I love iPods! What color is yours? Mines is a mini and its gold!




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