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There's this girl I hang out with a lot. We've known each other since we were little kids. We grew up together and we're both 15 now. For 4 years now I've fallen for her hard. I daydream of her all of the time. I dream of her at night. I can't get her out of my head. I love everything about her from the way she smiles to the smell of her hair when I'm close to her. I always seem to find myself making excuses to see her more often. I feel like I'm obsessed because my feelings for her are so strong I can't have a proper girlfriend (I always end up being distant to them, not really wanting to date them, and dumping them early on because of my lack of interest).

I've kept these feelings a secret but sometimes I think I should tell her. I'm afraid she won't feel the same though, and I'll end up ruining the friendship. I know I sound like such a wuss here but the emotions are so intense and I've kept them in so long.

What's the best thing to do in this particular situation? Should I tell her and risk everything? Should I keep this stuff bottled in?

Oh boy. I think you should tell her but still remain good friends. Although she might feel like she might need her space away from you if she doesn't feel the same way. You never know till you tell her. But don't ask her to be a couple with you because you don't want to rush into a relationship with someone who is your best friend. You should be patient about her. Don't come on to strong. Just tell her that you have feelings for her and you don't feel the same way about anyone else expect her. I'm sure she will like to hear that. I know I would. :) Never bottle your emotions it's extremely bad for you. Good luck and remember tell her at a good time when you two are alone.

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