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okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice,
Wow, trust me a lot of girls would KILL for a guy to say that to them, including me. I say that if you like him, keep continuing the relationship and don't throw it all away just because he tells you he loves you because it seems to me, that he means it. Maybe if you give it a try, you might start to like him even more but if you really feel that you'll never feel the same way about him, then talk to him about it. Don't just dump him because talking to him wouldn't hurt him as much.
Best of luck!
i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help
Hey, this is something I think about all the time--when I have kids, what will I name them?
Some suggestions:
Laycie (my name of course = P)
Kiley
Keeton
Adoline (Addie for short)
Abby
Sophie or Sophia
Haley or Hallie
Audrey or Aubrey
Meghan
Paige
Kaylee
Aundrea
Bailey
Molly
Madeline (Maddie for short)
Riley
Ellie
Peyton or Payton
Dakota
If you need more suggestions just go to Google and type in 'baby names' you should get PLENTY of results. Once you figure out what you want to name her let me know!
Best of luck & congradulations = ]
I like this boy names Eric.I only see him on the bus and in school hall ways .We hang on the bus and have a fun time lauphing and stuff.ive liked alot of guys but there all the same well i never told eric i liked him till i found out i was staying back i went to market basket with a friend sam to get coco puffs and chocolate and other depression foods to make me feel beter.well eric was there and i tryed to avoid him and all cost because i was in my care bear pjs and i lose shirt with no bra on!!!!and my hair was a mess !im also 14well to make it worsethe friend i was with sam started yelling so katie u like eric really really loud iand i thought eric heard and im mean ofcoarsebut i didnt want him to know because every guy i like says the same thing well nothing cause they never talk to me again i have that problem im not pretty im fat and all the bad stuff and i always become friends with them and then start to grow feelings and bam he finds out and it okward talking to him....and schools started soon and i still like him but if he heard i dont want to put him in a okward spot but if he didnt hear and i dont talk or sit next to him then it might hurt his feelings and hes a really nice funny guy and i couldt bare to hurt him.and i told my frined abouth this and she told me that everytime i walked by him he stared at me and smilled.i dotn know if it was making fun of or he liked me.....but im pretty sure he heard cause he was in the next ile and she scrwamed it basicly....should i still talk to him and spare him or hurt his feeling by not talking to him..
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help
katie
Wow, this is basically my life. Every guy that I have ever started to like (or atleast most of them), have found out and then start acting awkward around me and I them. What you need to do I guess is act like it didn't happen. Talk to him, be his friend don't let what happened ruin the friendship because a lot of the guys who my friends have told I liked, end up being the best friends of all. Also, guys, for some reason, are easier to talk to than girls sometimes. So don't feel like you guys can't still be friends, sometimes it's better that he knows you like him because then if he really wants to, he can ask you out and be reassured that you like him and would say yes.
Best of luck = ]
Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what?
I say give the creep a reality check--not many girls like it when guys are all over them like that. Tell him to back off because what he's doing is basically considered harrassment, so just let him know that you don't like it and if he doesn't back off then tell someone who can help.
Best of luck = ]
what can i do to stop arguing w/ my mom. Talking w/ her about it isn't helping anymore.
-i'm a 16yr old male
I have a lot of experience with moms and arguing. My mom and I argue a lot but I still love her. The thing you need to realize is that moms basically try to protect you as best they can and prepare you for when you're grown up and out of the house. Put yourself in their position--if you had a kid who you thought was in trouble or just plain did something wrong, wouldn't you try to help or fix it? I would. I know that when your parents yell at you, you say to yourself, "i'll never yell at my kids like this" or, "i'll never do this to them" but the truth is a lot of people don't follow up on what they say they will and will not do as grown ups. So try looking at it from her point of view. She loves you and just wants whats best for you, I guess all you need to do is just keep pushing, keep trying to talk about it because the more you push, the more she's going to give in.
Best of luck = ]
Which one is better? I'd like a decent response, so no one word answers or just saying the name. Say why. Also, which one is less likely to give you a virus. Thanks :D...
Oi, well I used limewire and it gave me spyware so now my computer is all messed up and yea, it's just one big mess. I've also heard bearshare gives you viruses as well so, I say stick to buying songs on iTunes and on birthdays and holidays, ask for iTunes gift cards. But if you're up for the risk if anything, use limewire. It works really well the only down part is after a long time of use, you end up like me--spyware infection.
Best of luck.
I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do?
Ahh, I've had this before. I'm pretty sure it's gas--yes, gross, but it's happened to everyone. I had the biggest pain in my lower left side and it hurt so bad when I tried to sleep, walk, sit, stand, etc. Try sleeping on your left side and heat packs may help relieve the pain for a short while but it comes back. At first I thought I could have appendicitus but ur appendix is in the lower right side so, nothing to worry about. Mainly if it is gas, the spot should hurt when you press on it and it should feel somewhat like a cramp only worse. But if the pain doesn't go away in about 3-5 days, you might need to see a doctor but other than that, no worries.
I hope you feel better
Good luck = ]
i went out with this persn who lives in the same town as my cousin. I met him online though and thats how he asked me out. I never met him becuause i dumped him befor we got to meet. wen my mom found out about this she got really mad, and she told all my aunts and stuff, and she told me she never wants me to meet him. His best friend is my cousins bf though, so if i ever meet my cousins bf, then my ex will probly be there too, and we're still friends so i kinda do want to meet him. wat should i do? should i just avoid him?
I say meet him, but definately make sure other people are there first, just incase. I would be curious to meet him and see what he looks like so go for it, just try not to feel so awkward about the whole situation because that will probably happen.
Best of luck.
Hey guys. I'm pretty pissed off. This guy I like hung out with this other guy that lives next to me, and they both came to my house and dumped a bag of mulch on my porch, just for a joke I'm guessing. Anyways, I'm kind of mad he would do that because my family has aenough porblems without him messing around with our yard. I;m just asking..is it ok to be mad? Or should I just be like oh right haha good joke? Will he think that I get mad over the stupidest things? please help.
Maybe that's his way of saying he likes you? Anyway, pretty immature thing to do unless you think about it this way--before they did it they were talking about you and about pouring mulch on your porch but besides that he wouldn't think you get mad over the stupidest things--it's okay to be mad. Pshh I'd be completely pissed if they did that to my porch so yeah, be mad, don't get over it, get even.
Good luck.
ok, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about two months and weve been friends for about two years. yet when im with him or talking to him, i go from a straight a student, to a blubbering, tongue-tied idiot (well maybe not that bad) anyway, how can i change that?
I guess all you really need to do is relax. Don't be so nervous. The reason why you're getting so tongue-tied is the fact that you're thinking too much. Just allow yourself to be who you are around him and just think of him as one of your friends, someone you can talk to and relate to. If you like him as much as you seem to, I bet you'll have no problem.
Best of luck.
Okay, well Im 14 and Im a really talented singer and whenever I turn on the TV I see people around my age, like Cheyenne Kimball and Brooke Hogan who are getting record deals and I dont think its fair that there are so many people who are more talented than them that arent getting a chance. So, my question is how to I get famous like them?
Well from the sounds of it, you seem really talented. And talented people get noticed, like Cheyenne Kimball. All you really needa do is what a lot of famous singers today have done, get a manager, play some small shows (get noticed) and eventually you'll make a record deal. I guess patience, here, is a virtue. Just be patient and if you want this badly enough, you'll get it.
Best of luck,
laycie
I'm a bit worried. I found a small lump which I think is the color black under the skin of my vagina. It has been there for a while but I have just recently become concerned with it and I thought I should get an opinion before consulting with my mother or doctor. Could you please tell me if this is something I should be concerned about?
Hey, nothing to be worried about I'm sure. But just incase, ask your mom and your doctor. It could just be a pimple that has taken a while to come to the surface or a mole. No worries.
Good luck.