Hey, I'm Cara. I'll do my best to give advice to jsut about anyone. Pretty good school and street smarts so I can help with a wide variety of problems. Feel free to ask me a question any time. I'm totally a people person and I love to give advice about anything! I am extremely open minded and I don't judge anybody. Hope to hear from you soon! :)
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well ok-i wanted to know-im a 32A and im 13-but i was flat chested in the beginning of the year-is this a good rate for growing? also--i got padded 32As,so if i go swimming in a bathing suit,would people notice the difference between my bra padded and just my swimsuit wich isnt?i never wore the padded bras in public yet,so should i wait till it gets to school time? much help is appreciated-thank you :) :) :) (link)
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The tight bathing suit will probably look the same as average clothes with a padded bra but you should be comfortable in your body. You will grow- this comes from an extremely flat chested girl as well. Love your body! You can wear all new styles without having to worry about bras! Its awesome!
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Ok i'm 15/f and i haven't done anything with a guy exept kiss and its like a peck not like making out or anything. i feel like a prude but i think i would be ready to have sex if the opportunity came up. I have gone to a catholic private school all my life and next year will be my first year at a public school. My question is will things be different will ibe pressured into things more so than at my old school? (link)
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The opprotunity for sex shouldn't come up if your only fifteen and even though you may feel ready, chances are, you're not. You might be pressured to do more things but you always have the power to say no ifyou don't want to do something. When you stop making your own decisions, you let other people take control of your life. So just keep your morals strong and set high goals for yourself. Good luck!
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In about one week, I'm going to North Carolina for Jr Beta Convention and my class is going to be going to a water park on about the third day of my period, given that it's on time. I don't really have a choice, so I HAVE to go to the water park, but my mom REALLY doesn't want me to use a tampon. She thinks I'm too young. I've looked it up and some sites say I can wear shorts over a red or a dark colored bathing suit. Mine is pink, I have black mesh shorts. They also say that when I get in the water, the flow should stop and the water should wash it away quick enough so no one will be able to tell. BUt what about when the class is walking around the water park? Is there anyway I can still have fun, not embarress myself, but not use tampons? (link)
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There is really no better thing to use than a tampon if you are going to be in the water. You shouldn't wear a pad in the water. And you could just wear a pantyliner or pad and chill out on all the water activites. But maybe you should talk to your mother about using tampons. You could ask her why she feels that you are too young and that you think you can handle it. Just make sure you read the instuctions on the box and never leave a tampon in for more than eight hours!
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okay, to start off, when i see a hot guy on the street, i automatically think "they're hot" and when i see a pretty girl on the street, that NEVER crosses my mind, i just say to myself, "i wish i looked like them, i wish i had their body" etc. but there was this myspace with "i'm horny, fuck me" as the name, and when i looked at her pictures i got horny. they were of a woman's body, lubed up and she was covering her breasts and her vagina. an di watched a video on youtube of a woman dancing and stripping, and it showed her butt. i'm fifteen and female, and i admit to masturbating, and when i masturbate to men i get turned on, but i tested myself and thought about women, and i just got grossed out. could dirty pictures of women just turn me on because i wish i LOOKED like that, or should i question my sexuality, taking everything else i've said in this question into consideration. help please, i rate high. (link)
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There's really no scientific way to tell. Just follow your heart. It is completely natural to be turned on by the anatomy of a man and a women. The determing factor, however, should be who you have lasting relationships with, not just who you are sexually attracted to.
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okay so theres this guy who i really like i mean for the first time im actually in love. i liked him since the begining of the year and we barely EVER talked but i knew he liked me a little so yeah. and about 2 weeks ago he asked me out over myspace and we've only went out for about 7 days then he dumped me to be with another chick. at first when he dumped me i didnt have any feelings but know i feel like dying so bad i mean i really love him ALOT. cuz everytime i talk to him i feel so diferent and its such a great feeling and now being dumped by the guy i really love just hurts so bad. half of me hates himand half of me loves him like crazy. how can i get ovr someone who i love alot and if you can try to give me a great advise ill rate you very high! thx
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The best thing to do is to talk to him to see where your at and what you are both feeling. What do you have to lose? You could talk about why you guys broke up and what kind of relationship you want now. Ignoring the problem wont help at all. When you talk to him don't intimidate him or corner him or make him feel like hes being interrogated, just have a normal conversation. I hope I held and good luck!
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