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Not much to say about me...But here is a site for those of you that need some advice :) It is anonymous so don't be shy, if you have a problem, tell me about it! If you want to know more about me or who i am, check my xanga site!My friend is rather cool fyi, heck, but he's definitely not as cool as me.
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what would you consider as a slut?? me and my friends act like complete sluts but then they get really pissed off at anyone who calls any of us a slut. ive stopped taking it as an insult when people call me a slut. i don't know what to think! plz help.
Well...people tend to call people what they are. People call me a drama dork. And thats what i am. If you dont ant to be called a slut than dont be a slut. Plain and simple. Also, the definition of a slut would be someone who gets around a lot, if ya know what i mean. Also someone who just puts them self out there like they are the next britney spears (dresses like they are saying "screw me") sorry if that is hard to take, but its the honest truth :/
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
Ok, I am definatly NOT the type of person who gets jelous over the dumbest things. But right now I am. My best friend found love. Yes, she is actually kinda young,but she (I can tell) is in love. She talks about him the way a fiance would talk about her future husband. It makes me feel like no one acutually likes me. likes or loves me. How can I tell if someone loves me? Boys at my school won't go and admit it. So are there signs? Plus my friend is spending ALL her time with him. Or if shes not with him...she TALKING ABOUT him. I HAVE told her that it would be nice not to talk about him (in a nice way) and she said she wouldn't do it as much but she is! help
I know what you mean. And the thing is you can't just go for the first guy you see that likes you. Yes, you may be very jealous of your friend but you need to wait for the perfect guy to come along and make you happy. So don't just go for a guy who randomly admits he loves you. If you wait it will be all the better in the end. About your friend, she's probably just in a phase. She will still love him but she wont talk about him to much as time goes on. And if she does just change the topic or try to. And if that doesnt work then just try talking to her again. Hope I helped and good luck!!!:)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do?
Don't do it. 1. there are so many problems that follow sex and 14 is not a good age to be able to handle them. 2. If he doesnt want to een date you then all he will probably do is do it with you then never call you. Dont take the chance. Hope i helped., and leave a message in my inbox for more advice.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
okay...well thier is this guy i that i really like. alot of people like him too! should i go for it or just forget about it?
Go for it. Why should they have him instead of you? Unless its like you best friend that likes him, go for it. Hope i helped ;)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha
What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?
HAHAHAHA! That's so fricken awesome!!! Dreadful? Psh, i'd definetly say you're high on something hun. Hahaha...gay bunnies making out with the pillow...niiiiiiiiiice!
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
Hey does anyone know any good songs I can download?I can't think of any!Thanks!!
Walkie Talkie Man (cant remember artist, but it comes up if you just put the name) or Vertigo by U2. They're awesome!!!
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
I like this guy from a different church.. i see him once a month and i really like him. what should i do?
please help me
The next time you see him ask for his sn or his number. And if you dont want to make it seem like you like him just make it seem like a casual friend thing. Or ask him to hang out sometime with some people at the churches. Hope I helped and good luck:)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!
I'm in theatre also and i have that problem a lot. Just get your friends or family to help you with. Give them a copy of the script and just run through the lines with them while you still have the script, then get rid of your script and have them read the other parts. Thats just one way of going about the problem. Hope i helped and leave me a message in my inbox if you have anymore questions! :) Break a leg :P
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!!
Totally go to the movies with him. even if he doesnt LOVE you he is definetly interested ;) So give it a shot and see what happens! Hope i helped and have fun :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
This is the same person as b4...I just can't figure out computers...k...new question: I am definately not ready to go up to him and bluntly say it...what kind of things should I say to hint to him that I like him? Thanks!!
As I said, just flirt a lot and see how he reacts. If he flirts back a lot then yea he probably likes ya ;) or you can just ask who he likes and say "yea i like someone but i dunno if they like me." asking someone who they like is a big factor. So he'll probably start picking up the vibe that ya like him. Hope I helped and once again, leave a message if you need anymore advice :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
What do you do if you like a guy and think he MAY like you back...but you don't know? I really want to tell him, but we are REALLY REALLY good friends...
Definetly ell him. Go up to him and say "hey (fill in name here). I just wanted to let you know that i really like you. And i have been kind of getting the impression that you might like me too. If you don't then i don't want this to ruin our friendship at all." And yes i know what you're thinking, easier said than done. So if you arent ready for that yet just throw some hints or something like that. Flirt a lot and see how he reacts. Hope i helped and leave a message in my inbox for more advice :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
yea well i know its all late and everything but what do you do if you forgot you username and password i mean i tried to make a new one but it kinda wont let me...
it wont let you because you cant use the sam email address. so just use a different email address or something and it will work. Hope I helped :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
How would I get a guy to notice me besides the usual body/body kind of thing?
Guys like confidence. If a girl is confident then she can be anything she wants. If she thinks she is pretty, then the guy thinks she is. Hope I helped and leave a message in my inbox if you need anymore advice :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
Why do people try to ruin other people's lives just because they are jellous of them? Its so mean!
Well...because they are jealous...that's exactly why. They are just envious of what you have. Some people just aren't as fortunate so just be careful what you say around others...
(um...that was a tough question...hope i helped somewhat...sorry if my advice sucked :P)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
Why do girl go behing other girls back so much just to hurt them?
Everyone has their flaws, and everyone can be a b****. But if there is someone that is bothering you by talking about you then confront them about it. Trust me, it will all work out in the end. Hope i helped and if you need more advice let me know :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
this isnt rly a ? more than it is a comment..... i love you lauren!!!! u wrok my sox off!!!! member when we wtayed after skool that one day n discoverd all the camaras n flicked ******* off!!! that was to greatest!!!!! well, u dont hav to post this....i just wanted to tell ya that u r the greatest n u give great advise!!!! luvs ya!!! laterz!!
~*~guess who!!~*~
(hint: im not robert)
hehe, thanks! I yes i know who you are. Teehee...that was so funny when we flicked off ********. BUHAHAHAHA! To bad they had cameras...Oh well. Lol. Ill talk to ya later and thanks! :)
sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!
There are 2 different types of people who cut. Those who cut side to side and that is just to get attention and to say "hey someone notice me and that i need help." There is alaso serious cutting. Where it is beyond attention. They are actually trying to kill themselves. And you can kill yourself form lose of blood. And thats usually cutting in x's or up and down.
But what cutting is, is when people try to relieve stress or anger or their emotional pain. And it does work its just an awful way to go about it. As far as your friend goes you need to talk to her or tell someone that she needs help.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!
~*wants nothing to do with him*~
You don't have to make a huge scene. But in the next not or email just say "Hey, you are really nice and all but i dont like you as more than a friend or anything. Im sorry. But maybe we can just stay friends." Or something along those lines. Just tell him how you feel but just make sure its not a big scene. Hope i helped and good luck :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help!
Degree.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life?
Dreams definetly have a connection with your real life. Ever had Deja-voo? Right there, dream and real life. Let me know what your dream was and maybe i can help. Leave a message in my inbox. Hope I helped :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~