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Im 14 and next year I will be going to a new school next year, and I don't mean as in highschool. So pretty much everything will be super new to me. I really want to make good first impression so that I can meet a lot of new people. The thing is, im really shy, and its only around new people, not people like my friends who i can act crazy with. I'm extremely nervous, and I feel really pressured into giving first impressions and coming off as friendly because that what everyone is telling me to do. I know I should just be myself, but still, I have to get out of my comfert zone just a little bit, don't I? How do I do that? I really need some tips, and if you were ever a new person, please let me know how it is! Thank you so much
I would do your best to act like how you do when your with your friends. It may be hard, but if they never meet that side of you then they may never put in the effort to get to know you...then later you can act crazy for real. I'm not trying to say act unlike yourself, i just think if you seem quiet people might not get the chance to meet the realy you.
well i am aloud to read his messages. But there was one i found that said "...if we can be friends w/ benefits..." to his ex-girlfriend.
Well it sounds 1/2 like a joke and 1/2 not a joke. so should i still confront him about that??
I would bring it up casually, that definatly gives reason to belive hes cheating.
14/f
If my boyfriend cheated with a girl in another town but i didnt have proof for sure, just messages on myspace suggesting he would cheat while he is away from me would it be wrong to confront him?
If its not wrong how should i confront him?
thanx in advance
I think you should confront him. (unless he doesn't know you can see his messeges) But you have to take into consideration that he will probably lie when you ask him, so I would suggest going with your first instints. If your questioning him cheating on you, then it probly means you dont fully trust him, and honesty is the key to any relationship...its your decision.
i had a really bad day yesterday. and in addition to that, i got my report card back.. and most of my grades were C's. i cannot believe this. i got honor roll for the first 2 marking periods (im 13/f going to 8th grade next school year) but the next one slowly i got some C's and now like my whole thing has C's! my parents will never trust me again! all the years before 7th, i'd always get straight A's with a few B's. but my grades are slipping now...? my dad saw my grades and he was dissapointed and i havent shown my mom yet but i know she'll be even more dissapointed in me! and i feel horrible now because i think i've let my teachers and family down! because they saw potential in me.. but i got stupid C's! i even got a B in home ec! i guess my life was really crazy then.. and i had bad work habits. i'd start my homework late at night and would procastinate on the computer or watching TV before. then most of the time i'd fall asleep and plan to finish homework the next day, and then i'd have to save for doing my homework in school when i realize i didnt have enough time to finish my homework. but i cant do a good job at the hw usually at school, so then my homework would like always be late or incomplete. and i never studied at home, i always did it a few minutes before a test in school. i'd always know i had to get stuff signed and then i wouldnt get it signed for days due to procastination. and cause i'd do my hw in the morning, alot of times i missed my bus.. i had to stay home twice cause my mom was sick of driving me to school all the time. i would have had perfect attendance if i never missed my bus. i didnt get to play sports in the winter and spring cause my mom didnt think i could balance work and sports when i could the years before. i really wanna do sports next year.. so how can i get my parents trust back before school starts? what are ways to develop good work habits which i sometimes lack? like everyone says im really smart but i also take a long time to finish my homework. like i'd write a long essay and get 100% but its late, so like 10 points get taken off for everyday late. then i get a 90% when my paper is better than that. how can i write less for essays? how can i manage my time better and not get distracted? what are ways for me to get concentrated fast so i dont lose interest and go do something else other than homework? but basically.. i just wanna gain my trust back and stuff like that. :( thanks for answering it means the world to me!
First, you should talk to your parents about playing sports. It is a proven fact that participating in sports helps you focus more in school. ((you should use this as your argumental point when talking to your parents)) Then when you are trying to do your homework I would suggest turning the computer and t.v. off to help take away some of the distractions. Also find a calm and quiet space to do your homework. I also find it helpful to use the extra time in class and my studyhall productivly. If you ever have trouble forgeting you assigments till last minute you should get an assignment notebook and write down the things you need to do. As for quizzes and test you should make flash cards and study in advance. ((i know that sucks...i dont even do it, but it helps)) Another way is to get extra help with the teacher to learn about the material on the test, and the things you are still confused about. And as for essays your out of luck, essays are very hard to make a set amount of writting, but before writting an essay it helps to make an outline with some of your main points. And if your uninterested in what your learning sometimes it helps to talk to the teacher, sometimes they will find ways to make what your learning a bit more interesting. I hope this was helpful--I just wrote all of the things people have told me throughout the years, so i know exactly how you feel...good luck :)