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Q: hello there , i have this big problem! ok there is this boy and we have been "talking" If you no what i mean . and well he says he likes me and i really like him , but i jsut found out he goes out with this other girl and i dont no what to do! so i really what to know what i should do please help me ! thank you
Know if this boy is going out with another girl. You can't go out with him too! And if you really like him back just wait for their relastionsihp to end. I know this sounds harsh but(idk ur age so this may not work for you) most school relastionships don't last that long. But whatever you do don't break up his current relastionship!
Just try to stay friends with him and casually talk to him. Get his email address and IM him. Just don't get to flirty, his gf will get angry and you don't want that.
*hope i answered your question!*

Q: So, basically.. in my school, our group is thee 'mean group' you know, the plastics. Thats what everyone calls us! & well me & this other girl sarah, well last year, we decided to start hanging out with them , because they were always so nice to us. So, now like this is like, something how it would be, if I IMed them..
me:heyy
one of them: hey
me: whats happenin?
one of them: ehmagawd, first off.. i just found out that so&so she thinks she can be friends with us & that she is! hahahaha how funny is that? oh & do you wanna go up to the country club with me today? i didn't know you were a member! whatsherface told me! oh & guess who likes me .. oh & did you know, that nick got captain of the football team? oh yeahh.. how does it feel to be captain of the cheerleading team? i guess you two will be dating now, huh?

& thats what they alwayyss talk about. either what boy likes him, which girl is a loser, & how rich they are. & like, i wanted to get out of there group really bad, me & my other friend. & like one other girl. like, the only one they dont talk behind anyones back, is me. they think i'm there leader. & supposly, one of thee other schools,everyone knows who i am, & this one girl said, that like.. i rule there school? i dont even flippin go there. so before, when we were new to the click, we could get out easily.. but now i dont know how, without them completely destroying our lives.

what do we do ?!
kthnxs
This is rather easy one. I was just like you. Sucked in by the life i thought was so cool! you know everyone at your feet begging to be friends with you. cutting in line....yada yada yada. But you know what....It wasn't. You have to act this way and talk to certain people and leave your old friends begind and be mean to everyone! it is NOT worth it. TRUST ME!!!! Just start hanging around your old clique and slowly move away from them. By not IMing back and telling them straight up that what they are doing is really getting on your nerves. This is gonna be hard. Leaving that kind of group always is. Just be prepared for rumors and nasty comments! but it will be worth it! just stick to your guns and wipe off what they say. its just words!!!

Q: okay so this is my first year cheerleading and im in 8th grade. yeah i think i started late but thats not the point. i joined it because i've always wanted to do cheerleading and people that i know are on my squad. then as a few monthes pasted, one of my good friends was online and asked, "should i do cheer?" i said yes in a heartbeat. shes doing it now. but now idk what im gunna do bc now she has this big problem with me and ive said im sorry and everything. idk how im gunna do cheer with her "hating" me. how will i do this? it's my first year, im so worried. please help me!!!
Beilve it or not...This exact same thing happened to me. What i think you hae to do is try to ask your friend whats wrong. Why she has a problem with you. If that doesn't work get another one of your friends to ask. Otherwise maybe shes jelous? But what it comes down to:
(know this may not be the way to go for you)
Figure out witch is more important.
Now if she is angry at you beacause you told her to cheer and shes really bad at it. Then you have to tell her you didn't know and that you are sorry and if she still doesn't forgive you give it a little while and she'll come around. Trust me. Thats the way mine went down...

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