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Theres this boy that im in love with
and he kinda started hating me becuase of something [long story]
then i wrote him a message saying sorry and etc
then he IMed me and said "hey" and stuff like that
then he hasnt Imed me sense then
and tommorow is the first time im gonna see him sense he said " hey" and read the message.
I want him to talk to me, do you think he'll talk to me?
and I cant talk to him, seriously hes not the type.
But i miss him so much!
any advice? (link)
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don't worrie i have the sme problem right now infact. yeah i just go up to him and say hey. and see what he does. if he say hey back and actually looks kinda happy then just talk to him...about whatever since i don't know him but if he looks irritated jut go i justwnated to say i REALLY sorry for what i did and walk off. that's what i did yesterday and he actually talked to me today. try it
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i dno what to do .. i like to girls one i have liked on and off and dated a couple times since elementry school, the other one i have liked one and off since gr 8 i like them both right now they both mean alot to me and i know that the one i have liked since gr 8 dosnt like me back and the one from elementry school might but im not sure.. what should i do i want to hint that i like her ( elementry one ) because the (gr 8 one ) knows i like her and dosnt like me back.. i dno i have to find a way to tell the (elementry one ) that i like her but i dont know how ... and som tips on how i can make her fall for me.. it would help lots..thanks
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well all i can say is just tell her the easyest way maybe through notes. and to make her like you just be ur saelf and be really sweet. trust em most guys love a guy who is really sweet
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k so im like talking to and well i like him and i think he likes me hes asked me to ahng otu like 5 times but ive either been busy or kinda forgott well when we do talk on aim he asks me if i like him i doo but i dont wanna tell him and if he doesnt like me look stupid should i tell himm ? i want to but i keep saying idk or ya mom as in a jokee lol (link)
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you should tell trust me i'm like an expert on those type of things...i've srewed up so many times by not just telling them and whe nthey found out they were like...well why didn't u tell me. i f he asked you if you like him he probably likes you back
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Okay, well theres this boy, tom and i am absolutely in love with him. he liked me last year but none of us ever didn anything about it. so here iam, in love. he doesnt know how he feels abotu me yet, nad i cant risk anything by telling him until he tells me how he feels first its just the waiting part thhats killing me. w hat can i do? (link)
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just give him tiny hints that u wanna know. or joke around about it and if he gets serious then you'll know. also you can just ask him in person if he likes you enough to be together. and then tell him how you feel. honestly i've learned that the best way to get a response is to tell him in person. TRUST ME notes do't work that
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everytime i see a cute guy i wanna introduce myself and everything but i get so shy and i cant get up the nerve to speak to him. my question is what should i do and how can i be less shy next time? my friend will say like come on lets go introduce ourselves then i say no lets not i really hate that im not confedent so what ca i do to be better at talking to boys that i like. i mean i have no problem talking to boys that i dont like or think are cute but when i like them or think they r cute i get all nervous and shy please help!!! (link)
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well ur not alone i have the same problem. It is easy though just start talking to some of his friends when he is around..u know kinda get to knowthem then when he is around them walk up and start a conversation with one of his friends and include him in itby saying hi or something to catch his atttention and in no time you and him should be off in another world....if you like the same things that is
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i got a tampon in for the first time about an hour ago. it was ok at first and i didnt feel it, but now its beginning to hurt, mainly if im siting down, it burns. is this normal since its my first time using one? ive tried pushing it in/pulling it out a little to see if its not in properly, and that helps for a few seconds but then its just back to the burning. whats goin on? (link)
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well for one you may be using the wrong type of tampon...my first tampon was tampax pear and it bothered me really bad...i had the same types of syptoms as you then i switched to kotex and i was fine so try switching brands...that may help
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Okay, so I'm a girl...
Anywhos, okay, I get really aroused when I think about the whole rape, sexual harrassment things and what not.
Is this weird? (link)
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no it normal it happens to the most of us it is just the fact of feeling dominated during the whole interaction. Espeacially if u have never had sex before
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k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do? (link)
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you have to get to know him first...remeber it's the personality that counts if he ask you out and later ou find out you don't like him jsut tell him you'd be better as friends.
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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.
I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.
What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
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to me this guy sounds like one of those two faced jerks that tries to keep you kinda under his control withiut you relizeing it...i'd break up with him he may get worse than that. trust me that has happened to me.
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so i really like this . shes really nice to me but i dont know if she likes me or not because shes nice to everyone. but my problem is it seems like alot of times im around her ill do something really embarassing or stupid but she'll just laugh like in a nice way. my question is for s: would you like it if a guy got embarassed (like little things tripping, backing up into something, etc.) but it made you laugh? and how can i get her to like me? (shes one of those really nice caring but really funny s) thankss! (link)
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If it made her laugh she probably thought it was cute and don't worrie about being embarassed...just keep on going and don't pay anymind to doing little things like that. If you want her to like you just talk to her and get to know her then see if she acts any different if she dones make ur move...just make sure you know her well enough first
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