about

I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.



Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.

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is it bad 2 shave there? i have been since i was 12 and now i let it grow back and its rele thick and uhh wut do i do ?????
do u shave below there

What the hell. Well anywhere you shave it's growing to grow back faster and thicker. Just like your legs.. I have no idea what to do I'm not a doctor and I probably still wouldn't answer that quesiton. & why do you need to know? [ ♥ ]

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you are a veryyyy pretty girl but im wondering how do you get your hair so stright ? what strighter do you use?

My hair is naturally that stright. I use nothing on my hair, But trying to crimp/make curls is very hard. I heard Chi's work the best. But no, I use nothing. [ ♥ ]

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im 13 . i have had the same boyfriend sinec i was 10 weird i know but am i re ady for sex?

Wow, Their isn't really a right age for sex. I mean it's whenever you think you're ready. I personaly think 13 is WAYYY to young. Aren't you still in like 7th/8th grade? Go slower then that. and It isn't really weird that you've had the same boyfriend since you were 10. Just have sex when you think you're ready.. [ ♥ ]

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this was under my recent history my sis jus got off the cmptr but uhh just wanted 2 let u no ur rele pretty and cute uhh yea imma get off a girl site now tho
chris

Uhhm, this is an advice column it's for guys and girls but please ask me something if you're going to come here, but Thank you Chris. [ ♥ ]

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13/f/CALI

I loveeeeeeeeee this new kid in my science class he is the best thing around. the only problem is he flirts with everyone and i mean everyone i wanna talk to him more but hes way to caught up in texting or hugging another girl i love him so much he always talks 2 me on aim but never so much in person
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Why don't you try asking him on aim? Theirs nothing wrong with him flirting with other girls, inless you're going out with him. Maybe he's shy around people in person but is fine hiding behind a computer. He doesn't really sound like the best boyfriend to have anyways. My best guess would try and ask him over aim, or face to face of why he ingores you in person but talks over aim. Their isn't anything you can do about himliking/talking/hugging other girls, Sorry.
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okay. uhh if uve been thru eveyrthing then help me out here i cut myself and only my best friend no's. she told me to go talk 2 my fav teacher and to work things out between our skool concular. im scared shitless and i cant just go up to a teacher and tell them i cut. 1 of my teachers ask me why i wear long sleves in the summer and i think he got the hint he just didnt say ne thing. WHAT DO I DO ?
//.DESPRATE.//

First off, Stop hurting yourself. That doesn't sound like much and I know it didn't help but just stop. I did this in 7th and 8th grade, it seriosuly got me NO WHERE. I found out how many people I let down [teachers,friends,family] & It just hurts you more. Cutting yourself doesn't make you feel better, find something else to do when you're upset or mad go run, go walk, talk on the phone to someone you love, find something you love to draw, WRITE ABOUT IT; scream in a pillow, taking bubble baths help people & even working out helps a few I know. If you trust that teacher, so be it. I hope you realize it is their job to report that to your family and it won't be good at first but please tell someone asap i don't care who it is. If the consular knows you, walk right up to him/her during lunch and tell him/her the story of why you do it. Cutting isn't good for you & the people around you. Please talk to someone at school, or even your family. [ ♥ ]

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i like 2 watch babies being born on utube i think its rele neat and fun. is something wrong wit me?

Lol, nothing is wrong with that. You probably want to be a nurse/doctor or pead. nurse, or even a midwife. So no, their isn't really anything wrong with that. [ ♥ ]

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.. my subject explains it. i havhe a 14 year old best friend who is due with a baby in july. i have no idea wut 2 do shes keeping it her mom kicked her out she lives with her dad who doesnt care about her. my mom doesnt want me hanging around her becuz shes preg and made a bad choice but ive also had sex 2 times and didnt get preg. she only did once and the condem broke. how do i help her ?

You shouldn't leave your best friend just because she made a mistake. Things happen. On the other hand, living with her dad who doesn't care about her isn't the best chice for someone who is going to have a baby. Is she able to take care of the baby until it's off to college? Having/taking care of a baby isn't cheap, or fun. Don't leave her just because she messed up, she needs friends right now more then anything I'm sure. Theirs nothing you can do to help her; I mean what do you want to do to help her? Just don't leave her, and ask her questions, make her excited to have someone new in her life. Do you know if she's putting it up for adopiton? Next time you see her, give her a big hug and tell her you care for her. It means a lot just to be hugged sometimes.
- Hope I helped!

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ive had the same bff since 6th grade we just started h.s and she met this other girl who goes 2 a diff highschool and she left me i dont wanna talk 2 her im so mad at her idk what to do i miss her inside but i hate her on the out help me plz

You know I had the same exact thing happen to me. And it kills you inside, I just told my friend that if she's keeping this up, mark me out of her friends. I was hurting inside but I also moved on, I don't know if we're best friends yet but I also made tons of other friends, I know you have more then one friend, try hanging out with them. But in the mean time, don't forget about her/him, they've been their to long to just walk away. Don't leave them yet, Just keep trying. [ ♥ ]

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