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okay well i have been dating this guy for a couple months and things are going really good..but..i always see his ex girlfriend trying to flirt with him he doesnt really flirt back but it still bugs me..soo today i was walking with all my friends down the hall and i saw his ex come up to him and flirt with him alotby his locker he didnt flirt back but when i walked by her hand was like on his arm and sooo i was a little mad so i just walked past him..then he came up to me and was like why did you walk right past me and i was like uhm i dont kno and hes like was it cause i was talking to *** and i was like uhm i dont know and changed the subject..shud i bring it up to him?? should i worry about it?? thanks soo much

honestly is the key to a stable relationship, tell him how you feel and if he truly cares about yuor feelings, he's listen.

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ok this teacher is crushing me, before this.. no teacher had ever made me cry.. ever, im not that sensitive.. but this teacher has made me cry a total of 4 times - and i've only had her once a week since september!!

i used to have such a great confidence when it came to oral assignments.. and speech in general.. now.. i cant give a speech without crying before, and i always end up messing up. I used to get all sorts of awards for being a great public speaker - now im failing all oral assignments i've been giving. SHE HAS COMPLETELY ERASED MY CONFIDENCE.. and it all started with har calling my speech boring, telling me i spoke to quickly, i stuttered too much..she just had sooo much to complain about.. yet to the rest of the class.. she was sweet and gave them all (almost) great grades. now the semester is over, finally, and i was given the lowest grade in the class. i cry about it all the time.. and i have a fear of public speaking.. something i used to be AWESOME at..

what do i do?? get a privte tutor to help me get my confidence back? talk to a counselor?? or just forget about it??

one thing for sure, u cant just forget about it. i think your teacher is pushing you to reach your upmost potential. she's probably testing you on how great you really are and that you should prove it to her. anyways, i havent been in a situation like yours so i don't think i have the best advice, but i do wish you the best of luck and i'm sure you'll get your confidence back but to tell you the truth, i think it's in there somewhere hiding.

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ive been talking to this guy and well i like him when im talking to him but than when im not he really doesnt intrest me you know and sometimes when i talk to him hes always talking about sex and everything and how hes gonna be the one to take my virginty but honestly i dont want him to sometimes im attratcted to him and others im not its like i only think about him when im talking to him and even then i dont know my feelings for him i get different vibes in a way you know and its driving me crazy i dont kno weather i like him or not

well to me, it sort of sounds like you're not interested in him but i guess u can like keep talking to him until something happens but since you dont have feelings for him all the time, i guess you my end up just being friends. hope it works out for you!!

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do girls like classical or rock musicians?

and i'm confused,cause i hear girls say that they love musicians,but

1)is it based on skill.exp:the better the guitaring is.the more the girl likes the guy?
does skill affect?or do girls just don't care if he is a sucky guitarist or a pro,they will still like the guitarist as long as he plays guitar??

2)is it also based on looks,?or do girls love great drummers and vocals even through they don't look good? so which one would a girl choose? a kickass drummer with average looks or a sucky drummer with model looks?

thanks for answering,anyways,if you girls like any other type of guys besides musicians....like bikers,car racers or skaters...just feel free to say what talent you would love in a guy.although i hear that most girls are not really into guys that race,but more to guys that are musically or sports inclined,it that true???

i love rockers, i'm a sucker for anything acoustic

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Okay this boy just asked me out and I said yes. I'm 13 and I'm in 7th grade and he's 17 and he's in 9th grade. That's a 4 years age difference so I'm not sure if I should keep going out with him what do you think? I know he loves me he said he said he will respect me and he doesn't care how old I am. He doesnt want you know what, and he's really sweet. I'm sure he really likes me. What do you think of this?

ok well let me ask you this .. do you really know a lot about him? do you always feel safe around him? anyways even tho you're really happy with him you can't trust him .. you know how the world is now these days so just be friends with him. who knows what he could do to you .. because you never know..

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Okay, so my friend just hooked up me and this guy. & I like him, and I'm pretty excited.

But the chances are my parents arn't going to let me date. He want me to go to the movies with him, and personally I don't like going to the movies of first dates. Excpecially when you just turned 13 and have overprotective parents.

I offerered to go to the pool club with him, I don't think he's too crazy about that idea. And he really does like me, alot. I made up the excuse not to go to the movies. I feel bad. What should I do?

i was in the same situation with you although for me i told him that my parents were overprotected .. my parents ended up knowing about me and him and i got into BIG BIG BBIIGGG trouble so my advice is just tell him that you're not allowed to date and if he cares about you he'll stay if he doesn't stay well it could be that he doesn't want you to get into trouble or that he only wanted to go out with you for the wrong reason. good luck hunn!

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(I'm sorry if this isn't in the right category. I didn't really know what to put it in)

Ive had my period for a little more than a year now, and I got it on sunday, and have had it for about 4 days, and yesterday it stopped. But the thing is, I got it again this morning. Do you think maybe it just wasnt finished yesterday or something? I don't think it will be more than 2 days from now that it will stop, but I'm still kind of scared that something might be wrong. thanks a ton :]

don't worry about it becuase since you just started your period a little over a year ago it's not in its normal cycle yet

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i havent had my period in a about a month is a half or so? so and im 13 and im a virgin. i was wondering if thats just normal.. like i could we getting it really late or maybe its a skip month? could someone help me!

completely normal, dont worry about it .. same thing happend to me a couple months ago

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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap

any suggestions on what i should do?

da best way is to talk to ya mom about it. but to tell you da truth i'm in the same situation. cause me and dis boy like each other but da problem is my parents, my friends, and my school. its killing me cause i really wanna be with him. good luck hunn, hopefully it will turn out good for you.

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