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Q: O.k. now I always give good boy advice but this has never happened to me or anyone else I know. Ok here's the situation:My boyfriend hasn't called me in 4 days! Thats not normal 4 him he usually calls almost everyday if its only a 4 minute talk or 4 hours. I mean there are plenty of situations to where he can't call like for some example's: His grandmother won't let him use his cell(their hous phone is disconnected),he's punished, or he's working with his uncle. but he doesn't work 24/7 so he could of called. What do ya'll think of this. Is he gonna break up with me or what? I mean its ok if he wants to break up with me but everyone knows (even his own mother and my mother!!) that he loves and adores me. The last time I talked to him he didn't act like anything was wrong everything was perfectly ok and I can tell when somethings wrong with him or anyone by attitude, tone of voice, and stuff like that. So anyone got any tips on what I should do and what he's trying to tell me, (if anything, cuz no matter what he usually tells me straight up no matter how bad), or why he's ignoring me!> Just anything please help me!! I'll rate high for good answers.
4 days is a long time. it's happened to me, and from my prior experience. it's usually because they're busy or on vacation. i would highly suggest that you call him a couple times and if he's not answering, then you know something's up. if he doesn't pick up his calls, there might be a chance that he's ignoring you, but if he didn't act like anything was wrong the last time you talked to him. it's probably not that big of a deal. but be prepared for anything, guys can be very unpredictable sometimes. take care!

Q: On Monday Im going to go to this guys house with my friend and his friend. He's really into my friend and when we all hang out, he has his arm around her and stuff..so my question is what are FUN things to do with 2 boys and 2 girls at someones house? I dont want it to be awkward/boring..Play Games? Anything is appreciated.
well, depending on all your interests. a movie is always safe. and if you want, you can always play a board game along with the movie too!

Q: i like this guy a lot, problem is i almost never see him and now that he doesn't have a girlfriend i feel like its my chance to tell him i like him. i don't know how to tell him or what to do! we are good friends but through family so i don't have his phone #, he has aim but never goes on, and the next time i'll see him is when school starts. i'm 15 and he's 16 if that helps anyone! Thanks!
i've been in this situation before. we met at this camp and we live an hour away. well, now that he doesn't have a girlfriend, you want to tell him. so ask yourself "how" first. in person or not? you might want to try to find a way to hang out with him before telling him, but if you start hanging with him, he'll probably already get the hint. you might want to see him before school starts because, well, its school. try to find more ways to communicate with him and get his contact numbers and such. email works fine too! i hope everything works out great!

Q: My school has a strict dresscode
-only collared shirts or sweaters
-only SOLLID color pants or skirts (No jean at all)

Does anyone have some good suggestions on what i can wear?
my middle school was a uniform school. abercrombie, hollister, and american eagle have great stylish polos. and with the pants, dickies are always good (: if you don't want anything too expensive, you can always try the department stores!

Q: how do you make a guy like you give me some pointers!!!


guys what makes u like a girl?
mm well, you can't make a guy like you. but hell, who says you can't try? always try to get the know the guy and see what they're like. (i.e.: their personality, interests, hobbies, etc.) try to hang out with him in groups because it's much more fun in groups and there most definitely will not be those long awkward silences. every now and then, try to hook up a conversation and see what interests him. (make sure you seem interested to, but don't fake it, unless ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY) don't act too "manly" and NEVER be too clingy or needy in any way. yknow, the old-fashioned "hard to get" is always still in the ballgame. but remember, don't get upset if the guy doesn't like you, i mean, if you think about it. there really IS plenty of fish in the sea. best of luck!

Q: hey.
ok . I have this guy friend and were close and we hang out alot. he brought one of his friends to the mall. and after the mall, me and his friend kinda liked each other. well he liked me alot and im like sorta. but then we started hanging out alot....so now we both like each other alot. and...he has a girlfriend. were kinda mutal friends. and everytime we went to the movies he would be like kiss me and id be like no you have a girlfriend and hes like im gonna break up with her. and im like i dont think thats a good idea. Ok well he just broke up with her and now hes I/M'ing me saying who do you like? and im like im not sure and hes like not me huh and im like idn. Okk. i really like him and i want to go out with him. Yes..theres another problem. someone told his ex that we were like flirting alot and stuff. and shes kinda my friend. so now if i go out with him shell imediatly believe the rumors are true. Most of the rumors are a little true but i didnt kiss him and everyone thinks i did.
so do you guys think i should just wait for a while untill there break up is completly over and shes dating someone else to go out with him. but what if he doesnt want to wait. should i tell him that i just want to wait to go out cause of his ex. hed probably understand.
ohh and hes kinda of a player...yeahh not good.
first of all, if you have rumors going around about the two of you - that's never good news. and second of all, if this guy broke up and immediately gets with another girl, it'll seem like the guy was using his ex-girlfriend. you first have to know what you want, the key point to any problem in life. do you want to get with him and lose a friend? and since you say that he'll probably understand if you told him that you want to wait. if a guy really likes you and really wants to be with you, he'll understand. hope the best of luck to you! :D

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