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ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing?

it sounds like he has split personality lol..it seems he has mixed emotions..he likes you..but maybe not today..maybe tomorrow..or next week..ask him about this..tell him that you would like to be good friends, but you cant if you are not communicating the proper way! Good luck! x0Lallyp0p

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im so shy and quiet sometimes, how do i get myself to be more outgoing around other people, i can get really like that sometimes, but only around my really good friends and stuff. i cant just be hyper around people i dont know, but i want to.

talk about your intersts with others..doing this you may learn to find that you and a lot of other people share a lot in common! In yer question you said that you were shy and quiet sometimes..now let me ask you a question..are you shy and quiet? is that who you really are? ask your closest friends what they think of you..do they consider you loud? or quiet? go around meeting new poeple as yourself! x0Lallyp0p

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ok i have this friend lets call her cassy..shes like my bestfriend now..but when i met her i hated her cuz she always trien to steal my bestfriend at the time..and now that i hanged with her alot i think shes pretty cool..and we do alot together..well the other girl my old bestfriend (Hannah) always seems like to compete against me to get to her..and when ever me n cassy hang out she gets like jelous..i really just dont kno wut to do ne more..i mean i feel bad for cassy..wut do u guys and girls think i should do? thanks so much!

ever heard of the three muskateers? course you have! everyone has! Make room for one more! Noone said you needed to have only one best friend! Let yer new best friend and old best friend get accquainted to each other! Hope I helped! Have a g0od one! x0Lallyp0p

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i have a friend lauren and we got in a fight the other day and we made up that night. we discussed our issues and stuff but my main one was that i dont trust her and her i. and we said we would work on that but i cant shake the feeling that she is hiding something from me and that she secretly doesnt want to trust me or just cant should i confront her on this or should i just lay low and wait for time to pass?

talk to her definitely..you may make it worse by not tellin her how you really feel..dont b fake and trust her if you really do not..explain to her that you feel she is hiding something..hope i helped! x0Lallyp0p

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I have this big problem with friends. I can make them easily but I just can't stick with them. I don't even know if my current friends consider me their friends.

I thought in junior high I'd start over and make new friends.Well, it turns out I made a lot of friends. I don't know if they still think of me as their friends anymore though. I hang out with them and talk to them a lot the first few weeks. Then, after awhile they start talking about people from their old schools. I never know what to say so I just say a few words. After awhile, I stop saying stuff to them and just stop hanging out with them. Then I start hanging out with them again. They don't talk to me anymore. It's like I'm just a tag-a-long. There's this thing called lunch club. All the people with D's or F's go there at lunchtime Wednesday through Friday. This makes it so I can't hang out with any of my friends. Now I sort of wish I were in lunch club. Err. I had to have a change of schedule. Well, I had made some friends in those classes. Now I'm in classes where I hate everyone and they hate me too so I just act mean to them. I just started to hang out in the library at lunch so that nobody could hang out with me. It's not like anyone cares about me anyways. It sucks. That's why I hate school now.

Also, I had a problem like this in elementary when the kids started ignoring me. My old friends from elementary go to a different school and I haven't talked to them in a long time. I don't know if I should start talking to them or what. They'll probably be in my school in high school though....

Could someone help me?

making frenz is easy..keeping them is a whole nother story..it sounds like you are a pretty likable person..you make friends right away..so i don't think you are doing anything wrong.be yourself with people. people will like you for YOU, not what you are NOT! talk to your principal on this lunch thing.tell him/her that you are having problems with people at lunch and maybe he/she will work with you and put you with your currents friends.hope i helped! x0LAllyp0p

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okay well i havnt gotten my period yet.. and i have like no shape to my body... barely any boobs like no ass... when i get my period will my body start growing faster n stuff.... cuz i really hate how i look... im 13 im tall ( 5'3) I have really long legs... im really skinny... and i can never find pants and like i hate school shopping bcuz i can never find good tight pants that are long enough like if they are tight enough they are to long... so im really self concious.... idk what to do

honey you have nothing to worry about..your a late bloomer and thats okay..you will soon fit into those pants perfectly until then..go to the stores you mostly shop at and just try on pants o you know what size your looking for. make shure you do this before school shopping! so yer prepared and already know what size you are in that store! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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