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Q: ok if i tell u my age and then the age of my boyfriend you will think im a whore or sumthin gay like that.......please dont think that..........ok well im 14 and my boyfriend is 19.....i told my cousin about him and she said not to worry because she used to date older guys such as that too.....she is very trust worthy and thats y i told her......she went and told my sister(they have always been close so i dont blame her for sayin anything).....ok thats fine i really dont care....but then i found out my lil cuz knows ....(sorry if this getts confusin)...she told her mom who told my otha aunt who told my otha aunt...who then told my mom.....i have no right to be mad because im doing wrong in this....but i cant trust my family anymore .....this always happens to me....they always rat me out......and sometimes i wont even tell anybody and my friends will tell my family........who should i trust.....im mad at my family but i shouldnt be.......how can i trust my family?
Ok don't worry so much. I did the same thing when I was 14 and now I realize why it was scary for my family to find out- Most guys that old who date someone over 3 years older always seem to want one thing- I am definitly not saying that's the case here because I know it wasn't with me- But as a family, they are just worried about you and your desicion making- just make sure you keep things non- suspicious between you two and everything will go great! And whenever you feel as though you can't trust your family, remember to tell yourself that the last thing they want to do is hurt you or see you hurt. it sounds like they are just concerned which is what families do best. Have a wonderful day!

Q: I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's
Okay so, let's look at the facts. Ya'll kiss or more, hang out, and act like a couple. GO FOR IT! and if he turns you down, you shouldn't be after a guy that would play games with your emotions like that. So basically you don't have too much to lose. I say, if you don't find out you'll never know and definitly regret it later. SO DO IT! grow some balls, be assertive and tell him what's up because you never know until you try. good luck sweetie!

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I'm an 18 yr old female and I'm preparing to go to the University of North Texas next fall and I want to major in Fashion Marketing. I've had the same boyfriend since I was 16 so I can help with relationship/love/sex questions. I'm a drummer in an all girl band and I appreciate music so I can help you there also. I'm obsessed with fashion and unique styles so if you ever need a suggestion I'm there for ya. I've always been told that I'm pretty decent at giving advice and I'm curious as to what you need to know, so hit me up.

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