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Everytime im sad !!I cut myself !Everytime is stress I cut myself!!everytime I feel bad about something I do it! is that really bad?cause when I do it I feel much better!!like all my problems dissapear!but I have many marks and thats the only thing I dont like!And some of my friend find out and now they are always calling me things!!I been a cutter since 3 years now!my mom saw some of the marks and cuz im a little bit o f a tomboy I told her I got them playing soccer!and volleyball! (link)
You may not think its that bad, but when your friends/fmaily see it, it hurts them emotionally and mentally. Cutting isn't helping the "pain" of your everyday life. Its all in your head. You've convinced yourself that cutting makes you feel better. Its a psychological thing.

The best way to stop, is to take your feelings out on something else. I cut a few times when I was 12/13 and I started drawing, writing, and painting. Its a really good stress, anger, and pain reliever.

Hope I helped.


so this weekend my boyfriend stayed over lets call him dave. earlier on friday dave recieved a myspace message from this girl from his school saying i think we should talk in person or something like that he wrote back why .. then he got a little drunk and read her message why not and wrote we should hookup. he didnt tell me she wrote back or that he responded i found out when she wrote back to his (i sent her one saying because i have a gf) she wrote back saying does your gf have ur myspace password because i got 2 messages. he said he doesnt remember writing that to her but im not sure what to do .. its basically like he just told some girl he would cheat on me!! please help (link)
Your not gonna want to hear this; but, if hes gonna cheat on you, or even talk about it, he isnt worth the time of day. :[[ Let me know if you want anymore help on this.


how do you get your eyeliner to stay on all day or for a long period of time.
i mean right when i put mine on, ( i do the whole pull ur bottom lid down and line it with the eyeliner thing ) but what are some other ways cause when i do that it goes away in less than 30 minutes and smudges below and is really messy.

thanks so much.
and please don't say "you should ask ur beauty consultant about that" or "you should ask someone who works @ the make up counter about that" (link)
I put it along my lash line. Like I don't put mascara on the bottom. It makes your eyes squinty. So I put eyeliner along the bottom lash line. Makes it stay all day. :]] Hope I could help.


my friend and i both like the same guy. we arent really close or anything. I dont want to "fight over him" but how do I show him i like him without being tooooooooo flirty, before she does? should i talk to his best friend who is also my close friend? i think taht might be messy tho.. (link)
Mm. Your in a tough situation. You can A] Tell the guy you like how you feel. Or B] Get over it, and be a good friend, and let her have a shot at it. It just all depends on how much you value you your friendship with the girl.




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