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Q: ? like in an everyday situation like school or over the phone or on aim
i agree with cheercandi (i think that was her name) flirt with her. this might sound strange but when talking to her you dont even have to say something that makes since, i mean something that doesnt have to do with anything going on. being random is ohkay. talk to her about anything you have been wondering about her. if you do she will might get the vibe that you like her. acting funny might also do the trick as long as its you. i dont think any girl wants to like a guy that is "acting" so that she will like him.

Q: hey what are some cute songs i can put on my myspace? or itunes?

they dont have to be brand new songs?

like having it to deal with

*breaking up and totally over it
*liking someone new
*starting over
*friends
*life
*confused about love
*liking someone new and hopin they love you??

thankkkssss
Tynisha Keli~i wished you loved me
J-shin~if i fall in love
Katherin McPhee~ over it
Avril Lavigne~ keep holdin on
augustana~ Boston?
Mariah Carey~ Dont forget about us
Regina Spektor~ Fidelity
Relient K~ must of done something right
Trina feat.Kelly rowland- here we go again
Common~ i have a dream
Avant~ i wanna be
Omarion~ icebox
Memphis Bleek~infatuated


I really didnt know what type of music you listen to so theres kind of a mixture, also they arent all in the category you asked them to be, some i think are just good songs. Sorry if you've heard these and and i didnt help

Q: Ok..So this girl who went to my school last year, I met through one of my best friends. At first, she thought I was one of those weird guys, that was really immature and what not....But then she started to like me a little more and we became friends. Near the end of the school year last year, we were talking on AIM, and she had to go and she said "luv ya babe!" and I was like ok, since when does she "luv" me..? And then about two months ago, she started calling me "her little punk" and then just recently she started calling me "my love" and saying she "loves me" instead of "luv ya"....

But my question is, what's with all the sudden phrase/nickname changes..You think she's starting to like me more than a friend? PLEASE HELP.
well if i do that, its sometimes flirting but i know girls who do it ALL the time and have boyfriends and it doesnt mean ne thing. I think she is flirting with you. She might not like you but she might.. i would find out before you say ne thing back, because it could be her flirting with you not actually liking you. But with the whole name thing like little punk and my love i would say she likes you

Q: Please help me out!! My parents got me an ipod but they said they werent paying for the songs. So i had to get them off limewire...But i have no clue on how to get them on the ipod can any one help me at all?
once there done downloading,open up itunes and then go back to limewire and selct the song and drag it to itunes. also if you dont want to use itunes theres musichunter.net

Q: hi. well, i'm not really here for me, i'm here for one of my guy friends.
he told me that he had sex with this girl the other night (that he's only been dating for a couple days). he said that he had it unprotected but he did it fast so he was pretty sure she couldn't get pregnant or anything.
apparently, they had sex right after the girl got off her period. and i heard, that if that happens, there's a higher chance of pregnancy? is that true?
what should i tell him if this girl does end up being pregnant? and how can you tell if they are pregnant in the first place?
please, any advice would be appreciated.

P.S. i'm not "this girl".
i dont know about the higher pregnancy thing.. im younger but in sex ed they always said that at anytime you dont have unprotected sex there is the same percentage of chance. the guy should know if the girl is pregnant.. normal signs of a girl being pregnant is her getting sick in the morning and actually it can be anytime of the day, if there is no reason she is just throwing up thats a symtom.. you can tell there pregnant at with a pregnacy test youc an buy at any drug sore if it does say she is pregnant i would go to the doctors to make sure, they will give you another one which is going to to be more accurate.hope i helped

Q: i have scars from my zits and i really want to get rid of them but how can i ? plez help mee!

-marissa
Coco butter... it wont work over night, but put it on your face when you go to bed, and if you keep doing it, it should work... it will work better if the scar hasnt been there for while (like if its new)if thats the case you should see results(sp?) in a week also you cna but them on acne and it takes it away.

Q: where can i listen to whole songs for free i no yahoo.com and aol.music.com but what others
youtube.com has like any thing, but theres also imeem.com and if you have a yahoo or aol screen name they both have "radios" where you can pick the type of music you want to listen to.. but it picks it out of random.. i think yahoo's is better only because you can rate them, and you can also decided what people you like to listen to. hope i helped

Q: hii [= is there anyway to upload music on an ipod without using limewire or buying them from iTunes? my friend told me that theres a site and you can save the files and just upload them there but i dont remember. and google didnt help. thanks
There is a website, its musichunter.com i dont know if you know how to figure it out but all you have o do is search the song, and then this box thing will show up and there will be a link that says here RIGHT click on it and select save file to.. and it should work hope i helped

Q: 14/m

So there's the girl I like. I always liked her and it feels like I always will.

We were never dating but we were close. But now she's moved on to another guy. I can't get her off my mind!! I'm always thinking about her..she just seems so..perfect.

And now and then I look at the old notes she wrote me. The ones saying she likes me and looking at those it..it hurts. I wanna just throw them out but is that really going to help? I want to get over her...right?

Really confused,
Greenlalablue
well i think its really sweet that you like this girl this much. this may not be what you want to hear but be fore when she wrote you those note didnt you like her? it just seems like if you did you made her wait for you and she didnt want to wait. it could be too late now but theres also a chance that its not. you could tell her how you feel and dont just say i like you cause i know when a guy says that it really doesnt mean that he cant stop thinking of me and if he told me that i would think twice about going out with him. any ways back to your situation. after telling her how you feel and IF she rejects you then tell her that will be waiting or how ever you want to put it after she gets over this other guy you will have your chance!!!! it mite take a little time but she should come around sooner or laterbut if you really like her you will wait!!!! hoped i helped!!!!

Q: 13/f this may sound stupid, but i really don't like braces, they gross me out and soon I have to get braces. I know theres pretty much no way i can get out of them, and i can't use invisiline or anything. the only thing that will work for me are real metal braces. Is there a color or something that will make it look less gross? And is there a way that I could make the whlole braces process go quicker. Any tips or just anything about braces would be greatly appreciated.
okay so heres what i would do get light colors liek pinks blues purples dont get green or black they make you teeth look bad (i think) some ppl no but justto b ont he safe side. also i would bring a tooth brush to school and after lunck brush them it might be embarrasing but believe me they keep hem clean. another thing you could do is always keep on your rubberbands idk if your going to need them but there these little ruber bands that go on your braces to make them go a sertain way. always keep those in! i promise you it'll pay of in the long run hoped i helped. :]

Q: Does anyone know what "numai tu dragoste voinic" means. It's romanian, and I can't figure it out. I've tried putting it into a translating site, but it didn't really work.
idk y but i got "but i love voinic"

Q: Homecoming is coming up soon and I would really appreciate some help with finding a cute hairstyle! My hair is naturally straight & shoulder-length. I would prefer to have a hairstyle with some hair down because I don't like how I look with all of my hair done up. Picture sugguestions would be the best =) Thanks sooo much!
http://www.beautyriot.com/stuff/images/articles/approve/2619_2975_Ashanti-01-100-lo.jpg

^^not the biggest picture^^

http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=3694&c_id=64

^^not an updo. a low bun^^

http://www.beautyriot.com/instant_makeover.php

^virtual makeover. put in a hair do and see how it looks^

http://lantanadesignwear.com/images/hairstyles/easyformalhairstyles/formalhairstyle15b.jpg

http://lantanadesignwear.com/images/hairstyles/easyformalhairstyles/formalhairstyle7a.jpg

well i hoped i helped. and please tell me if you liek these heair styles! i hope u liek them. good luck :]

Q: I really have given up.
There's no point in even trying anymore.

All my dad does is yell and scream at me and then tell me to get over it. I'm too scared of him to stand up for myself.
I don't smile anymore. There's not a reason to. So, my mom gets mad at me for not smiling, which is really stupid.
I have hardly any real friends.
I don't have a boyfriend.
I never get anything I want.
No one listens to me. They just ignore me.

I don't know what to do anymore. Nothing good has happened in a long time.

Please...does anyone know something out there that can possibly make me happy?
my friend has this same problem. she sometimes doesnt feel any need to be happy. small things can ruin her day. but i hate to see her like that. with you i dont know why your unhappy. but you could try to make things better. like do somehting you liek to do with a friend if you dont have a friend try to make one. they dont have to be close but for instance if you like o shop or skate maybe invite them over to do soemthing like that and you would "bond" or become closer. as for the guy problem you should try to maek a guy friend the same way you would a regular friend and you would meet his guy friends and there you go. umm not getting anything you want. yea i hate that but you could always get what you want by getting it for yourself. get money by babysitting dog walking things like that and put oyt fliers. if no one listens to you there has to be a reason. if you want something you got to have a strong voice look the person in the eyes. and for the dad problem...hmmm well lets see not when he is angry or yelling ask for a family meeting about how you feel make sure its planned out well (people will listen to you more if you know what you talking about) and if something happenes where your dad gets mad or you get in trouble pretend liek it doesnt bother you just take it in he will be surprise and maybe he'll see that he is over reacting. i reallyhope everything goes better and that my advice helped. if you need anything you know where to ask. :]

*samantha*

Q: idk if this goes under this category but oh well. anyways i was thinking of getting my belly botton periced. im 13. is it to young? if so how old do you have to be. and does it hurt a lot?
well im 13 too and ive wanted my belly button peirced so i asked and everyone i asked said it feels like a little pinch almost liek getting your ears peirced. hope i helped. :]

Q: does anyone know where i can get a khaki green color jacket that kinda looks like this
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Outerwear&product%5Fid=2029975353&Page=2

or

http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1400&size=&style=36252398&color=3&token=

or

http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Outerwear&product%5Fid=2031251679&Page=2

but maybe a little bit more too it like beads pearls or even something that just looks like this thats short sleeve and green id really appreciate it
ps no lines running on the jacket like in the pictures
okay so this is the one i found

http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?DeptID=597&CatID=31593&CatTyp=LFS&ItemTyp=G&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1004153&ProdSeq=1&ProdCount=17&Dep=women%27s&RefPage=SearchDepartment&ShowMenu=T&ShopBy=0&SearchString=blazers&S4DeptID=597&CmCatId=SearchResults

but i didnt know if you likes the long sleeves so i also found this one

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/sr=1-2/qid=1156395132/ref=sr_1_2/602-2230484-4831008?%5Fencoding=UTF8&asin=B000FMTT3W

srry its not green but heres another one


http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/602-2230484-4831008?asin=B000BHHMJ4&AFID=Yahoo&LNM=B000BHHMJ4|Juniors_Mossimo_Red_2_Button_Knit_Blazer__Brown&ref=tgt_adv_XPYD0100


im so sorry that there not green but i worked hard to find those hope i helped a little :]

Q: Does anyone know where i can get a nice peacoat that i can wear in the winter? I know old navy had em last year?

here are a few options

http://www.sears.com/sr/javasr/search.do?BV_UseBVCookie=Yes&vertical=CLTH&keyword=peacoat

http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/SearchDepartment.aspx?SearchString=peacoats&JSEnabled=true&mscssid=&cmResetCat=true

hope i helped :]

Q: could anyone explain to me how to create the smokey eyes look? thank you :)
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/secrets/topics/0,,691414,00.html

that has a few ways explained good luck :]

Q: I am 15/f. Every year my two best friends and I do themed group costumes, but they're always homemade and somewhat original ideas. For example, last year I was a washing machine, one friend was a dryer, and the other friend was a basket of dirty clothes. The year before that, I was dental floss, one friend was toothpaste, and another friend was mouthwash. And the year before that, I was a picnic table and one friend was a bag of groceries (the other friend was sick). Anyway, our costumes have always been really "out there." Do y'all have any funny themed costume ideas for three teenage girls? They need to be appropriate (nothing implying sex or anything). Thanks!
kinda geeky but here they are

desk laptop printer

christmas tree present ordament (sp?)

baby teddy bear a crib (idk how u would do that) or a diper somehting like that

a cd radio and tape like a (cassette) or cd player

a duster some type of cleaning thing like windex and a mop

pot pan stove

calculator pencil scissors

um thats all i can think of now hoped i helped :]






Q: hi. i have heaps of hangers like think 100 + and their all shop hangers and they looks so ugly in my wardrobe. any tips on how to do them up n make them pretty? i dont want to buy more because it would be expensive and dont have the money at the moment. im willing to concider anything. thanx
umm i think you could paint them. then maybe tie a ribbon at the top. its not much but i think it would look better. also to make ur closet look better u could organize your clothes like sirts and pants things liek that. hope i helped. :]

Q: what store can i buy a pair of bermuda shorts at? i want a pair for around $20 and they have to be available in small sizes because i'm a 00.

thanks guys!
here are a few pair of burmuda shorts.

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat380159&navroot=womens&productId=7332_3101

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=195400&CategoryID=17056

hope i helped. by the way macy's has alot more bermuda shorts but there not 2O$ good luck :]

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livelaughlove96
heyy my name is samantha. I like to help anyone who needs it. I don't have alot of experience in some of the categories, but if you drop a question in my inbox and I don't know the answer ill be sure to find it one way or another. And no question is dumb so don't not ask something cause you feel that way!!! =)

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