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Hey my girlfriend broke up with me like 3 weeks ago but i still love her so much she came over my friends house last night with my friends X and we had like 30 ppl there and she knew all of them but she only talked to me i still love her with all my heart but i dont know what to do should i ask her back out??

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YES, you really should ask her out. Girls go out w/ guys to make other guys jealous. Also, she probably isn't over you yet... my frreind got dumped by her bf, and she was cryind a month after about him. if u had something going, than u really shouldask her out. -good luck


so u dont believe in religion? look around you can tell that there is a God and that the Bible is true..u must be stupid or something.. (link)
i am not stupid...the people who created stories about god are stupid...don't email me if u are gonna waste my time!


ur not much of an god beliver r u??? (link)
not really... my mom says im jewish but i don't go to hebrew school or anything. there must be something, but not god. why would god create us differently, and than send us to hell? (which in my opinion doesn't exsist)


ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while now but he hasnt told his parents at all so they dont know about us but i think they know something because all of a sudden me and him started hanging out a lot more and so the other day at our track meet his mom was spying on him and since it was cold outside we were sitting pretty close and he was holding me and his mom got all upset and was yelling at him i dont know what to do because i dont want him to keep gettin in trouble for being with me he says he doesnt care because all he wants is to be with me and his parents dont want him to date until he is 16 but he is already and has had girlfriends before me but none have been as serious as ours is now and i think he should tell his parents but i dont want his parents to make us break up because we really love eachother please help -- should he tell his parents about us-- sorry its so long!! x0o (link)
I think that when he is somewhere, you should introduce yourself to his parents. Bring a small gift and try and talk it out with them.


This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!! (link)
You are probably like me, a quiet girl who is unpopular, but not in any specific cliques. Start going out with other boys to get your mind off of him. Stand up to him, make it seem as if he is pathetic. That will be really hard, i know. To get you mind off of him, you may try diff. sports. Try to get closer to his freinds who are girls, and tell them how horrible he is. this will be harder if they are popular, but it is worth a try. He is a jerk a very big one at that. If you pull the sides of your eyes up, tilt your head back, and blink rapidly, you will stop crying faster. Try this, i know it will work from personal expiriance. Good luck with solving your problem about this jerk.


this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl. (link)
Try and steer your life away from religeon for a while. No offense, but i think that religeons are bogus:
*Jesus would die as soon as the nails went though his arms and he wouldn't have time to contact god.
*Moses could not have spread the ocean with waving his hands.
If god (if there is such a thing) made us all different, not identical, we should have diff interests and hobbies. Wiji Sciances (trying to contact ghosts) are common at sleepovers. If people do stuff like that they would have had supernatural powers. Because the satan would have wanted someone to do their job completely not just part of it. Hope it helps.


Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends? (link)
You should go out with him, and see how he acts. if he stops acting like a freind into acting like someone who makes you uncomfortable break up with him. It may take him a while to get over you, but eventually you will be regular freinds again.
- good luck




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