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Im 14.. i know .. a little young to be in love. Anyways.. My best friend (ex boyfriend) is movin back to tennessee then joining the army. he promised me he would be back for me .. but i'm goin to miss him so much! I cried my eyes out when i found out he was going. Hes been kind of a jerk, and he said its because he didn't want to break my heart when he told me. We've talked about it.. and ive done alot of crying.. im really depressed.. Im not suicidal depressed..but depressed..
how do i get him off my mind. he was my first love and i want him to stay here with me.
I dont want to hear that im too young for him or anything like that.. i just want to know how to make the crying stop! everytime i think of him.. i remember all the fun we had together and i start to cry again.
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At least you got a chance to be with your first love. Anyways...just don't think about him, throw yourselves into studies, activities, or watch tv and read a book! And it's not so bad to cry or be hurt by this. Hope ya feel better!
-Hope I helped!-
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well me and my best friend have been friends for 9 months. and i love him to death! i was thinken of asken him who he liked/loved or something today but then i found out he was talking be hind my back!!! calling me a slut and a bitch! he gets mad at me very easy. what should i do talked to him about it? i don't want him to get mad at me ! please help
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Politely confront him about it. Ask him what's up and why he was talking about you behind your back. If this continues or he gets mad, end this friendship.
"Dealing with backstabbers, there was one thing I learned. They're only powerful when you got your back turned." -Eminem
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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet. (link)
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You should not worry about what everyone else is saying. You are the one dating him, and you like him, so that is all that matters.
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Ok well, I've known this guy, let's say his names Bob. Well I hav known bob since like 1st grade im in 9th now. And he's like a good friend. And so, I am not at all attracted to him what so ever. But, now he has a crush on me, and I am a bit grossed out byt it. I go on his bus and I always sit next to him, Because me and him joke around a lot. But now he likes. Me and he's my bestfriedns best friend and she told me he liked me and now he's asking her how it went and when she told me that he liked me I think I was more grossed out than n e thing. And now I am actig weird around him and I feel uncomfortable near him. Because I don't want to lead him on. But I dont want to lose my friendship with him. I feel like crapola And plz! dont tell me to tell him how I feel cuz i can't. jus tell me how to fix this problem and make him get the hint that I dont like him on his own. Or some hint jus help me out plz!!! =[
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It would be cool to just tell him, but maybe you could write him a note and say that you still want to be friends or whatever. Or since you two are good friends, you could tell him that you like some other guy.
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really like this kid.. hes 17 and he has a girlfriend... i am ony 15 but it doesnt matter.. me and this kid went out 2 years ago and then didnt talk for awhile but when i started high school he started to talk to me aagain and wanted to go out with me and .. we didn EVEERYTHING ( had sex ) .. we saw eachother for 4 months and he had a girlfriend the whole time.. they have been going out for a year.. and me and him alwaays get in to fight and ppl say he is only using me which i dont wanna belvie and finally i am not talking to him because i wanna get over him but i dont know how too every night i cry... thinking of everything we went tho . and all the things we didn and he made me happy.. i dont kno what to do . ?? HELP ME (link)
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Honey, he is so not worth any of your time! You said it yourself- ya'll two did EVERYTHING, even while he had a girlfriend- how lame is that? This guy is totally pathetic. Just forget about this player. Put your mind on other things. Watch a movie, read a book, do homework, go somewhere with your friends, but whatever you do just forget about this dude, because he is a player. You're only 15, you have your whole life ahead of you to be worrying about guys.
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"When climbing the ladder of success, don't let the boys look up your dress. They will say you're cute and say you're fine but in 9 months they'll say its not mine."
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so im 13/f, 4'9, and 66 lbs. there are rumors (sorry if i spelled that wrong) about me being anorexic, but i am not. i try to ignore/stop them(rumors), but i cant! its getting worse and worse! and no matter WHAT i tell people, they think im a physco anorexic person. (link)
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Just ignore these people. If they don't believe you, or accept you for who you are, then forget them!
~QuOtEs~
*Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, define yourself.*
*If you don't like my words, don't listen. If you don't like my appearance, don't look. If you don't like my actions, turn your head. It's as simple as that.*
~Hope I helped sweetie!~
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