my hands are always really sweaty. i dont know what to do to make them stop being sweaty. what can i do to make them normal?
I looked it up for you and...it looks like you're either going to have to just be calm and stop being nervous (If that's what's causing your sweaty palms) or if you want it treated, you should go to the doctor.
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Health/451.html
http://www.sweaty-palms.com/sweaty_palms.html
OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset??
I hate it when this is happening to kids younger and younger every day. Have you talked to her about this? What about her parents...they're okay with this? Basically the only thing you can do is make her realize she doesn't need to be doing these things at her age...or maybe even EVER. If she still doesn't listen...you're just going to have to let her learn it the hard way herself. I know, doesn't sound too great, but you've done all you can. At least you tried to help her.
ok. im looking into starting a website. just like something for stuff about me, a place for people to leave comments, and all that kinda stuff. does anyone know where i can do that for free? thanks :)
If you're going to learn how to make a website, I definitely recommend for you to learn HTML. Maybe you know some HTML; maybe you don't, but there's lots to learn even if you do know some. There are a lot of free sites that teach HTML, so I suggest you do a google search on that.
I don't recommend geocities, mainly because they have that ugly advertisement.
I don't know any sites that have a "site builder" so if you need one, I can't really help you. But if you're willing to learn HTML and use FTP and all that, read on. Everything is on the internet, so if you ever need help on HTML or FTP or something, just search it on google. I promise you even though it might get complicated or frustrating, it will DEFINITELY pay off in the end, and you'll be glad you didn't stick with a "site builder".
If you want an EXCELLENT webhost, follow this link and read the page:
http://kim.wehostfree.net/freehosting.htm
If my answer does not satisfy you... (It's an actual site, click it =b)
http://www.justfuckinggoogleit.com
i have this friend tht i have known for years and she always seems to beat me at everything music grades, instrumentsand she is better at everything than me such as sports (netball) snd she thinks tht ts a competition. should i dump her as a friend or tell her how i feel?
You already asked me this. Next time, don't bother dropping me an inbox if you're going to ask everyone else as well.
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=357200
OK.. so i know.. online romances are dangerous.. but this is different. Hes my friends cousins friend! Ive never met him personally but I talk to him online and hes sooo sweet. Hes always telling me how nice i am and that he wished i lived in his town. We joke around and when i talk to him im so happy. we're both 14, and i dont know what to think. we were talking and he said i wish i could see u right now so said me too.. lets run away.. (this whole running away thing was just a fantasy for BOTH of us.. we're not really gunna do it).. and we said we were going to vegas together. and we both plan to go to collage in FL, and if we go to the ones we both want, we'll be kinda close.. miami and tampa. and i really really want that. but idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel?.. if i should .. how do i do it?.. im usually very outgoing.. but with this im kinda shy. and wow.. so please just give me your honest opinion on the whole situation. I rate high for advice I like, and i dont rate at all if i dont like it.. i dont like lowering peoples ratings for one question. Thanks in advance!
Phew, for a second I thought this was one of those stupid and dangerous online romance questions. I'm glad you agree. At least yours isn't concerning one of those guys that live in Alaska and you have no idea about.
Let me just say...be ready for some disappointment. Even if it never comes, still you have to be ready for the worst. Don't let yourself get your hopes up.
Sounds like he's a great guy and you two would be great together, but just remember this is still someone you've never met. Someone that could already have a secret girlfriend, or someone else he has his eye on, or someone that's just looking for a little fun online, etc.
Please read this for my opinion on online relationsihps:
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=339867
Crushes are great, but that's all they are sometimes. Just remember that even relationships where people have known each other for years and have known each other in person don't always work out, let alone a relationship with a guy you meet online.
Anyway, if you're still going to go for it, you should ask your friend's cousin to set up a meeting date face to face sometime.
Stay safe, don't get your hopes up, and good luck!
I know i give advice but this time i need help. i am 11 and i weigh 64 pounds and people at my school call me anorexic.. i am deff not! its so funny cause i win eating contests at my summer camp i go to! and to make it all worse i just got my braces and i dont know if you had them but for about a week its hard to chew and for me to swallow so i didnt really eat and at school for lunch people wud be like LOOK SHE ISNT EATING and they wud pressure me into eating even though i couldnt, i dont know what to do! I will Rate HIGH if you give me adivce plesase dont delte this its urgent!
Just explain to them you just got braces! Easy as that. If they don't get it, tell them how much it aches and hurts to eat with new braces. Better yet, you can also get someone else that has braces to help your friends see you're not trying to be anorexic. And pack soft foods like jello, mashed potatoes, soup, tender meat, etc so you can still eat but it won't hurt as much to eat. Good luck!
me and my mate both like to do the same things like music, netball (sports) but whenever i do these things with her she always beats me at them and i think tht she thinks tht its a competition and it gets on my nerves but i dont no weva to dump her as a friend cuz it upsets me weneva i find out she has beaten me at sumthing i feel like cryin (sumtimes i do) so should i dump her as a friend?
First off, I must state the obvious. Look dear, you CAN'T dump a friend JUST because she beats you at "everything".
You guys have a lot in common as you said. You like to do the same things. And you called her your friend, or your mate. By the sounds of that I think you guys have a lot to go for. The only thing you need to do now is to work out your little problem with her.
If you look at the second sentence I have written up there, you will see I put "everything" in quotation marks. Why? Because how do you know she beats you at EVERYTHING? Have you tried new things she might not be good at? You could also practice more so you could be even better than her in something.
You said you THINK she thinks everything is a competition. You didn't say you KNEW. This is the major problem here of the situation. You need to talk to her.
Since she beats you at some things, you know what you could do? You could ask her to teach you how to be better. Having someone better than you is not a bad thing. They teach you how to make yourself better. They can help you. This is where that whole "talking" thing comes in again. You have to ask and TALK to her or nothing will ever change.
As for the competition thing...that's not a bad thing either. Competition makes you work harder. It keeps you on your toes. If you had no competition I doubt you would work as hard as when you had competition. Even rivals in a field like sports can be friends. Even if you're playing against each other doesn't mean you have to hate the person on the other team.
I understand you want to cry when she beats you. It feels bad to lose to someone else at something you love doing. The thing is, there will always be someone better than us. Kind of sad to realize, but there's a good side to it as well. That means there's always someone WORSE than you as well! So you see? Everyone has their own level. Although you're not the best, you can always be better than someone else and that proves you are at least trying and your hard work paid off.
Don't dump a friend for a stupid reason. Work it out first and if your friend refuses to work it out with you, THEN you can dump that friend. And even if you dump that friend, never forget that they help you to improve by making you work harder.
my dad i really care for him but he dosnt no my b-day or anything about me he left when i was i was three have not seen in a year or two i relly care for and i still love even tho he has a alcolo probmelm and drugs and many more my mom has a oder of precettion and i can only see him when someone else is there what should i do i relly miss him and i dont no if him loves me please help me
xoxxo
girlygirl4real
Don't listen to anyone that says "He loves you and it's going to be okay!" because how do they really know how YOUR father feels and how do they know everything will be okay? You don't even know if your father loves you, let alone strangers on the internet.
I'm going to be BRUTALLY honest here. You wanted advice right? Don't read on if you don't think you can handle it.
There are TWO perspectives. You must see both and not just the good perspective. It will help you see the truth better and it will keep you from getting your hopes up.
1) Your father may love you, but the drugs and alcohols might be keeping him from actually show that he loves you. Alcohol and drugs can TOTALLY change your actions and judgement. If this is the case you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him anything that has been on your mind. If he really does care for you he WILL try to stop his bad habits, so try and help him snap back into reality.
2) He might not love you. Think about it. If he did love you why would he have not even visited you in 1 or 2 years? Has he been at LEAST writing letters to you? Hmm. If he really loved you he would at least try to stop being a drug/alcohol addict. Not only is he hurting himself but it's hurting his family.
You may ALWAYS love this man just because he's your father, but if he doesn't love you back or doesn't take the time to visit you or at least do something thoughtful for you he isn't worth it. I know it's hard, but you need to understand that not everyone is able to care for you the way you care for them. And when that happens, you may have to let them go because you will only end up in pain and disappointment.
Don't be sad. I know this is almost IMPOSSIBLE, but at least try. There are other people that love and care for you so much. Don't let one man get you down. If something in your life doesn't work out, you move on and live life!
how do i tell my mom about my first kiss?
That's awesome you want to tell your mom about your "secrets"! You could start off by asking her about HER first kiss and eventually tell her about yours.
so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f
FYI, I'm 15, not 16. I think it's kind of rude to exlude everyone 15 and under. Don't take my advice if you don't think I'm not old enough then.
First of all, it's just a break. Stop making it sound like a big deal. Sorry for being harsh, but you need to understand that a break is ESSENTIAL in a lot of relationships and in this case I think it's essential in yours.
A break doesn't mean it's OVER. A break is when you give it time to cool off or it can be a time for you to decide whether this is the person you want to be with or not. Would you rather have him take a break or would you rather break up with him? You said you love him so a break is better.
Please take a look at this link:
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=353362
Maybe you can better understand WHY people take breaks.
And of course, talk to him. You KNOW this already I'm sure. But once in a while everyone needs to actually DO it, not just know it. And obviously you haven't talked to him ENOUGH since you're asking us for advice. So sit him down and don't let him get up until you both settle EVERYTHING together.
Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?
If it's your girlfriend, you don't need to ask. She's probably been wanting to kiss. And even if she didn't want to kiss I think you would be able to tell and then step back.
If it's a new girl, yes, it'd be a good idea to ask first. But don't just ask a random girl or a girl you don't even know very well if you can kiss her. That would be weird and she might think you're joking around.
this is for the guys out there with good advice : whats the best way for a girl to let a guy know that shes ready to kiss him. because me & my bf have been goin out for almost 2 and a half months and we never kissed but i think he oesnt want to kiss me because he thinks i dont want to kiss him. help please.
I've answered questions about kissing before...if you'd like to read up on them check out these links:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=308815
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=329286
Good luck!
ok whenever i go number 2 its been hurting and there is even blood when i wipe..and sometimes even in the toilet. trust me , this is not my period. this didnt just happen once or twice, its been happening for awhile.
whats hemroids? is that what i have because doesnt it have to do with something like this?
what are the dangers if i dont tell anyone (it would be mortifying if i had to go to a doctor and have him look at me because im not 10 anymore, im 17.
has anyone had this problem before or known someoen with this problem?
what should i do?
If you REALLY don't want to go to the doctor make sure you drink LOTS of water (to soften it up) and eats lots of food with fiber (like eating salads). If you have trouble having bowel movements try getting a laxative pill. If it doesn't get better, DO go to the doctor no matter how embarrassing. If you're very uncomfortable maybe you can get a female doctor (I'm assuming you're female). Think about it. Isn't it better to get it treated now when it's nothing serious than when you have to go to the hospital for something just because you were embarrassed? It's embarrassing, but just remember other people have had it and they deal with patients everyday, not just you.
For more information check out this website:
http://www.vh.org/adult/patient/familymedicine/studenthealth/bloodystool.html
Hey all, i have a few quesions... So, me and my boyfriend want to have sex. Hes 15, and i am 14, and please, dont say we are too young. I am a gymnast and have gymnastics every wednesday. We are going to use a condom and even doing gymnastics, could I still get pregnant? I do every event plus conditioning. Is it possible? I am getting the condom. I dont want a box, just one or two. Where can i buy them and do you have to be a certain age? Where could I hide them so my mom would not fine them? Any help is GREATLY appreciated...
NOTHING can prevent you from becoming pregnant. NOTHING. Gymnastics? That doesn't even make your chances of becoming pregnant 1% less.
Here are the risks of sex and the benefits of waiting until after marriage:
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=355321
Read this about STDS:
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=353478
If you don't know much about sex and protection and you have to HIDE condoms from your mom, you are not ready. GUARANTEED. But you know, it's your life. No, I'm not trying to tell you what to do. But I AM making you aware of what you're getting yourself into. Only because I care. If I didn't care I wouldn't bother posting and I'd just hope you got into trouble.
what does it mean when a guy is uncircumsized?
does it have any disadvantages or effect anything?
It means they have foreskin on their penis. Some people are circumsized and some aren't. Most people do it when they're newborns. For more info go here:
http://www.ababyresource.com/Newborn/Circumcision/
ok well im 13f i have aproblem their are two guys that i like im dating one but the other is just a little more than a friend i was wondering one his name is rob and hes soo sweet and the other bobi and hes soooooooo protective of me and he hates rob i love that hes giving me boundries b/c that shows he cares but i cant be happy b/c i think about him and why hes always mad at me the other guy rob is always sweet to me but that worrys me b/c i like having a bf that gives me boundries and i know that he wouldnt what do i do helppppppp plz
If you think you love 2 people at once then you don't love either enough. - Micaela Logan
I strongly believe in this quote. Only one guy deserves to be loved (or in your case, liked) by you.
You can't date someone and like someone else at the same time. So decide now. Liking two guys at the same time shows that you don't care about either as much as you thought. So choose now. Chances are, if you aren't sure who you like more you probably don't like either enough.
Seriously, no one can EVER help you pick who YOU like more, let alone people you don't even know. You haven't even told us much about these guys. So I guarantee you NO ONE will be able to help you in choosing.
If you finally pick only one guy, you need to spend more time with him. Get to know him even better and get that other guy COMPLETLY out of your head. That's the least you can do for him. And even then, if you decide you still don't totally LIKE your boyfriend, it's time to break up with him. Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find someone that's for you.
And like I said, the minute you find out he's not the one you truely have strong feelings for, you need to break up with him and save him more heart ache. But if you do decide he is the one that gets ALL of your love, get the other guy out of your head and spend more time with your sweetie.
I hate it when I lose teeth, and then it just feels so empty, my tongue is touching a hole in my mouth that's never been there, and it just feels so weird! I'm asking this because i just lost another tooth and it's pissin me off so much: what can I do about this?
Basically there's nothing you can do. Seriously, don't get "pissed off" at something so small. Not trying to be mean here, but it's reality. It could be worse, you could have gum disease, have to get your wisdom teeth out, your jaw could be broken, you could have had a cross bite. There are a lot of things people are suffering from. Losing a baby tooth is nothing to get worked up about it. Everyone goes through it. A tooth will grow in soon and it'll feel normal again.
is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)
I don't wear my glasses for anything other than for looking at the board or reading far away things and stuff like that. But I have worn them before when I kissed my boyfriend. They're not a problem at all.
When people kiss they tilt their heads and it's not like their eyes are touching, so the glasses won't get in the way. As long as you guys don't get so passionate and accidentally poke his eye out somehow, lol. But by then you'd probably want to take your glasses off anyway.
why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big?
I answered a question about it here:
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=355321
ok i know im not ready to have sex NOW but i dont know if i want to wait until marriage either..i mean what do you guys think?
a part of me says
"hey who knows if your husband will even be a virgin..then its kind of pointless that you waited..and besides if you wait until your married, thats the only guy your going to have sex with .."
then again anothher part of me says "sex would be more special if you waited to have it with your husband"
any input?
Yes, I'm waiting till after marriage.
- You get to avoid all the risks of pregnancy and diseases of sex. There is NO 100% guarantee that you are safe from any risks other than by not having sex. You may know this already, but if you get HIV/AIDS you can NOT be cured from it. Many people with it suffer horribly and die young. You can't exactly "cure" yourself of being pregnant either. If you have a baby before you are stable and have someone dependable by your side, the baby will be your responsibility for LIFE, which will ruin your education, your future, and you won't get to have sex once you're too occupied with a baby. And even if you got an abortion, you will still always have the memory of killing your baby just because you were irresponsible. If you got genital herpes, your sex life in the future will be affected. You can't have sex when you have painful herpes on your genitals can you?
- If you save it for marriage, you wouldn't have to take birth controls in the meantime. Birth controls are not natural. Maybe you're okay with it, but I don't feel comfortable with it. Plus, they don't even give you "full blown birth control" before you're actually an adult because they'd be horrible on your body! They just regulate your period.
- If you save it for marriage, it shows you have respect for yourself and self discipline.
- Also, you are saving it for your spouse...so it's special. Wouldn't you like to give your virginity to the sweetie you're going to marry?
- Just because people think you're in love now doesn't mean it will last forever. I don't think you'd want to have lost your virginity to your ex when you think about it.
- And even if you're not having sex because you "love" someone, but because you just have crazy hormones, is this really what you want to do? Just have sex with anyone because you're horny?
- How will you be able to tell if people love you for you or if they are just using you or staying with you for sex?
- It's kind of nasty to know the person you're going to marry has already banged other people...
- When you marry someone, it should be the person you really LOVE, right? So that would be the perfect person to have sex with. Sex could be the one special thing ONLY you and your husband can share.
- It's true you may gain more sexual knowledge and experience by sleeping around with others, but why can't you and your spouse learn together? If sex in a marriage sucks, you can always learn how to get better together. And if a marriage falls apart just because of sex, it wasn't all that great to begin with.
No one said you had to listen to me, I'm just hoping my advice will help guide you. And even if it doesn't, at least you will be able to see different perspectives of things.
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