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There are some nights where i dream of this girl trying to kill me. Sometimes when I wake up I feel as if she is there in my room. It gets hard to wake up some nights. What does this mean? Am I going crazy?
If this is a recurring dream, then it possibly means you subconsciously feel threatened in some way, such as worry about a relationship, your job, money, family problems, problems at work, etc.
Dreams are the brain's way of sorting through and 'filing' our emotions, problems, events, etc., and our subconscious way of dealing with them. Give some serious thought to the things going on in your life, and you will probably be able to understand what it is that you are worried about, even on a subconscious level. Once you can identify that, the dreams should stop
Hope this helps xx
do guys like it if girls masturbate? like.....
guy: do you masturbate?
girl: no
or
girl:yes
do they find it attractive or they don't care or they don't like it?
It all depends on the guy really, but the majority of guys find it hot. Many guys find it hot because society has made it seem like its a "bad" thing for women to do.They'd probably find it very arousing as men like women and their bodies and quite a few men like girl on girl action. So a girl exploring her own body in front of them to see would probably be pretty hot. Hope this helps xx
I'm 15/f and had a pilonidal cyst removed about 2 weeks ago. I was on medications to not get an infection but since it's on my tailbone, I can't see much. What are signs of an infection?
Sign of infection are,
Increased pain, swelling, redness, drainage, or bleeding from the area.
You develop a high temperature.
You develop muscle aches, dizziness, or a general ill feeling.
Contact your doctor immediately if any of these symptoms arise.
Hope this helps!!xx
im 16 and i had only done it once but when i did it i just bleed a little. my friends and i were tlakin about this today and they said that they bleed a lot? is it true? and they were saying that i might be still a virgin. so wait i dont get it!. em i still a virgin? or wat?.. and my boyfriend and i feel is time for to have sex. em i gonna bleed a lot this time or wat?... helpp me plizz!! ;)
Once you have committed the act of sex, which is the guy penetrating you. You are no longer a virgin. You hymen breaking is what causes the bleeding which is why it takes up the term "popping the cherry".
However, many young girls split their hymen doing strenuous sports, horse riding or using tampons etc without even realizing and so the initial first act of sex does not always cause bleeding.
Sometimes you may bleed a small amount which could be due to a small tear on your hymen and the next time you completely break the hymen which causes more blood. You don't bleed an awful lot but it is enough to cause a mess.
Inbox me if you have any more questions, Hope this helps!!xx
Okay, so I'm going to warn you... this is gross.
I've been having stool (poop) mucus/discharge. What can this mean? I am a white female, aged 19. I am sexually active, but with only one partner and I'm his only partner. My diet hasn't changed. My stress level hasn't changed. My environment hasn't changed. I highly doubt I am pregnant. I also highly doubt it is an STI/STD. That just... is very unlikely. I have slight allergies lately because of spring but I am not allergic to anything as far as I am aware.
What can this mean? Please give me more imput than just, "Go to your doctor." Has this happened to anyone?
Stool normally contains a small amount of mucus, but passing stools with visible amounts of mucus can be from a variety of causes. Mucus in the stool is a common symptom of irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and ulcerative colitis, and is seen to a lesser degree in Crohn's disease. A bacterial infection, anal fissure, or a bowel obstruction may also cause the passage of mucus.
Mucus is a clear, white, or yellow substance with the consistency of jelly that is produced by the mucus membrane of the large intestine. Mucus is also produced by other organs in the body, such as the lungs, where it helps to trap any foreign particles that are inhaled. In the intestine, mucus protects the inner lining and helps ease the passage of stool.
In ulcerative colitis, the mucus membrane of the intestine becomes inflamed and develops ulcers. These ulcers bleed and produce pus and mucus, which may be visible as they are passed in the stool. In IBS, there may be increased mucus production by the lining of the intestine, which is then passed. Mucus is more often associated with diarrhea-predominant IBS. Mucus is less frequent with Crohn's disease, but may be associated with the development of an anal fissure.
Bacterial infections, such as those from Campylobacter, Salmonella, Shigella, and Yersinia, may also cause mucus in the stool. A bacterial infection may also cause diarrhea, fever, and abdominal cramps. Some bacterial infections may resolve on their own without treatment, but some cases may be serious and require treatment with antibiotics.
A bowel obstruction is associated with constipation, severe cramps, abdominal distention, and vomiting as well as the passage of mucus. A bowel obstruction can be from a variety of causes and is typically treated in the hospital, with surgery being necessary in some cases.
The passage of mucus in the stool in the setting of IBS or ulcerative colitis is not necessarily a cause for alarm, but should be mentioned to a physician. Mucus without an underlying cause, such as a pre-existing condition, should be reported to a physician IMMEDIATELY.
Hope this helps!! Good Luck xx
I really love the claddagh ring. I used to have a silver one with a blue jewel as the heart.
(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claddagh_ring)
It was really inexpensive, under $20. I want to get another one, but everywhere I look, they're ranging from $50-200. Aren't there any regular sterling silver ones with jewels that aren't that expensive? If you have one, where did you get yours? Thanks!
You can definitely get claddagh rings for under $40 on Ebay, from a trusted seller too. You can also try Amazon? These websites offer pretty much anything you like for an affordable price. Hope this helps!!xx
Here's a Link to the one's on Ebay:
http://shop.ebay.com/i.html?rt=nc&LH_BIN=1&_nkw=claddagh+ring&_trksid=p3286.c0.m301
Here's a Link to the one's on Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=sr_nr_scat_3367581_ln?rh=n%3A3367581%2Ck%3Acladdagh+ring&keywords=claddagh+ring&ie=UTF8&qid=1303750235&scn=3367581&h=1dd38fd97c1aa90764726b3c817ccbb21d028559#/ref=sr_st?keywords=claddagh+ring&qid=1303750256&rh=n%3A3367581%2Ck%3Acladdagh+ring&sort=price
Hi I'm a 16 year old girl, and recently an issue came up while fooling around with my boyfriend that I'm a little concerned about.
Well, we were making out on my bed, one thing led to another, blah blah blah. He ended up fingering me. He might have been a little rough at one point, but it was not unpleasant. I didn't feel any pain except when he tried to put another finger in.
The problem was, when he was done, he noticed blood on his hand and then on my sheets and all over my thighs. I felt wetter than usual, but this was the first time I've had any sort of outside attention down there in a long time. So I didn't think anything of it until seeing the blood.
At first I thought I had gotten my period. I was completely embarrassed, but that was that. I figured it'd be gone in a week, and we could continue on happily. I noticed the blood was brighter than usual, but I dismissed it.
Then about an hour later, after showering and taking care of business, I noticed that the pad I had on was almost completely clean except for a few tiny smears of blood. I changed it anyway for the night and went to bed. This morning, I woke up and checked... nothing but a few tiny smears of blood. Normally when my period comes, it makes itself known, and I have to change constantly. So if the bleeding wasn't my period, what could it have been? Or could it still be my period, just gone all wonky?
I had a similar incident three years ago with my first boyfriend the second time we had vaginal sex, only it was right after my period ended. I bled when he fingered me, and it was the same bright red. There was more blood before, but it went away about an hour after, same as this time.
I'm really confused as to what the problem could be because I can pleasure myself without any problem and have been doing so ever since I broke up with my first boyfriend.
I've toyed with the idea that it could be an STD, but I find that very unlikely because this was my first sexual experience with my current boyfriend and my only other partner was a virgin.
Maybe I could be stressed out? Please help!
From what you've said here I don't think it is an STI or an STD what I think it is, is you "popping your cherry" as its called. When your boyfriend fingered you he most probably broke your hymen which explains the bright red blood. And also explains the reason why you didnt bleed for that long. What could have happened is that the first time it bled, it was only torn partially, and now maybe it was fully broken. Your hymen is a piece of tissue, and this is perfectly normal. Hope this helps, inbox me if you need more help xx
what are those little brown dots on your nose, their not blackheads or anything, so what are they? im a teen by the way.
Your wrong, they are indeed blackheads, and using a blackhead scrub they can decrease in number or simply dissapear. Hope this helps xx
The font on my hotmail account has become too tiny to read my emails. I never changed any settings and am not sure how to change it back...
Hmm, well there is the option of zooming in on the page which can be done by holding down CTRL and pressing the + sign till you can see the writing, and the way to zoom out would obviously be to hold down CTRL and press the - sign until it is at the required size. Alternatively, instead of using the + and - buttons to zoom you could just use the scroll button on your mouse. Hope this helps!!xx
i am wondering if any one can tell me what are the signs you are about to start puberty
Usually, puberty starts between ages 8 and 13 in girls and ages 10 and 15 in boys. This wide range in ages may help explain why some of your friends still look like young kids whereas others look more like adults
For boys, the hormones travel through the blood and tell the testes, the two egg-shaped glands in the scrotum (the sac that hangs under the penis), to begin making testosterone and sperm. Testosterone is the hormone that causes most of the changes in a boy's body during puberty, and men need sperm to be able to reproduce (be the father of a baby).
In girls, these hormones target the two ovaries, which contain eggs that have been in the girl's body since she was born. The hormones cause the ovaries to start making another hormone, called estrogen. Together, these hormones prepare a girl's body to start her periods and be able to become pregnant someday.
Boys and girls both begin to grow hair under their arms and their pubic areas (on and around the genitals). It starts out looking light and thin. Then, as kids go through puberty, it becomes longer, thicker, heavier, curlier, and darker. Eventually, boys also start to grow hair on their faces
When you go through puberty, it might seem like your sleeves are always getting shorter and your pants are creeping up your legs. That's because you're having a growth spurt that lasts for about 2 to 3 years. When that growth spurt is at its peak, some kids grow 4 or more inches (10 or more centimeters) in a year! At the end of your growth spurt, you'll have reached your adult height — or just about.
But your height isn't the only thing that changes during puberty.
With all this quick growth, it can seem like one part of your body — your feet, for instance — are growing faster than everything else. This can make you feel clumsy or awkward. This is normal, too! The rest of your body will eventually fill out and shape up, and you'll feel less klutzy
Your body also fills out and changes shape during puberty. A boy's shoulders will grow wider and his body will become more muscular. He may notice a bit of breast growth on his chest. Don't worry, this is normal and it goes away for most boys by the end of puberty.
In addition, boys' voices crack and eventually become deeper, their penises grow longer and wider, and their testes get bigger. All of these changes mean that their bodies are developing as they should during puberty.
Girls' bodies usually become curvier. Their hips get wider and their breasts develop, starting with just a little swelling under the nipples. Sometimes one breast grows more quickly than the other, but most of the time they even out. Girls may start wearing bras around this time, especially if they are involved in sports or exercise classes.
One question a girl will have is: When will I get my first period? This usually happens about 2 years after her breasts start to develop. The menstrual period, or monthly cycle, is when blood is released through the vagina. That may sound alarming, but it's normal and it signals that a girl is growing up and her body is preparing so that she can have a baby someday.
Hope this helps, xx
my earrings wont come out
My sister had ths problem with her piercings all the other one's would come out just fine but this one piercing just would not budge we tried oil we tried to see if there was gunk by washing her ear in warm salty water, tried twisting constanty to see if we could eventually twist off the back but none of it would work in the end she got it off but with pure brute force of pulling it out of her ear. It did hurt quite badly form her reaction but it only lasts a couple of minutes. So i'm sorry but your gonna have to pull it out there :/ i hope this helps good luck xx
Hey(:
So Im Sixteen.
And Ive Never Given A Handjob Before.
Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For A Year And We Want To Have Sex. So, Due To That Decision, We Have Been Getting To Know Each Others Bodies A Little Better. The Other Night, He Was In Town And We Hung Out At My Friends Place.
We Were Fooling Around In Her Room.
Now, Me And My Boyfriend Are Like BEST FRIENDS. So Nothing Is Ever Awkward Between Us. And We Can Laugh About Everything Together(:
So He Was Just Messing Around And Somehow His Boxers Came Off? Haha
And Then We Were Still Fooling Around And I Like, Touched It A Lot, But It Wasnt A HandJob.
Since Ive Never Given One Before, Im Not Sure How I Should Do It. Should I Grasp It Tightly And Go Slow, Or Lightly And Go Fast. And How Tight Is Too Tight? Thanks(:
HAND JOB: Most definately use a libricant! What works with one guy may not be good for another, and often the best way to find out is by asking! Encourage him to show you how he pleasures himself, then take the lead and be creative. As a basic starting point, however, grip his penis gently with your hand/s and slowly stroke it up and down. Be sensitive to the way he responds, and you'll soon find the confidence to try out different techniques. Ultimately, the only limit is your imagination, so here are a few ideas to get you thinking;
The Ring of Pleasure
Instead of using your hand around his shaft, form a donut ring with your thumb and forefinger and get a rhythm going just under the glands at the top of his penis.
The Comb Over
On every other 'upswing' or so, take your thumb and rub it over the top of his penis head before bringing your hand down again.
The Pastry Worm
Sandwich his penis between the flat of both hands, then roll one hand forward and the other back. Repeat the motion back and forth as if you were playing with pastry, and not trying to light a fire with sticks. Aim to extend your attention to the head of his penis as well as his testicles - two very sensitive areas of the male genitalia. Rubbing your thumb around the rim of his bell end and/or gently cupping his balls while you work is guaranteed to make his toes curl with pleasure.
Hope this helps!!xx
Hi. I am 11 and i have been experiancing the following for a week or so: having to go to the bathroom alot, being thirsty all the time, loosing 10 ponds in a week, and stomach pains. I was wondering if this is serious and if i should contact a doctor or what those could be signs of. Thanks please write back as soon as possible:)
This sounds like it could be a UTI or diabetes to me which is quite serious and needs medical attention straight away for your to be diagnosed properly, I suggest you see a doctor ASAP as this sounds quite serious. Hope this helps, good luck xx
Well it's Saturday and I had sex last Saturday so that's one week!!! Um.. I am supposed to get my period two days after ihad sex and I haven't so I am scared that there is a chance i could be pregnant!! My question is, how long should I wait till I buy a pregnancy test, I want it to be accurate. Thanks.
The waiting time is normally about 2-3 weeks to show a negative or positive reading. Hope this helps, good luck xx
Edit: saw your feedback what i meant was you just have to wait 2/3 weeks to take a pregnancy test because if you take it any earlier the test will most probably be negative which will cause you complications in the future, hope this helps, sorry for the confusion!xx
My boyfriend chats with this other girl while we are talking and I'm not stupid I can see they are talking but he doesn't tell me. It feels like a knife in my stomach and I start shaking so I end up telling him good night and going to bed where I lay awake for hours crying. Now I know that is probably pathetic crying over a guy and all. But this is stupid. Why can't he just be honest with me and TELL me that he is talking to this girl or something. I hate her already. I've already talked to him about it last time when he said I was over reacting and I asked him to PLEASE tell me if he talking to her instead of letting me FIGURE IT OUT. Idk what to say to him today, I'm .... in a very bad mood.... should I avoid him or not... this is so messed up. He loves to say that "well I can be friends with whomever I want" I KNOW THAT OKAY GOD I KNOW!!!! But what if that girl is KILLING ME ON THE INSIDE... geez
ADVICE PEOPLE PLEASE!!!!
He's right, he can be friends with whom ever he wants. I think you are over reacting, he's talking to the girl! not kissing or, or anything else. What's the problem? There's no need to cry yourself to sleep over him talking to somebody else. If him going about it in a secret way is bothering you then talk to him about that and say, I don't like how your keeping things from me because then it leads me to think that your doing other things. Something like that? which will then lead him to allowing you further into everything he does. What you need to do is take a step back and calm down because your over reacting, and this problem can be easily solved by a simple calm sit down talk. He could just not be telling you that hes talking to this girl because he can see that it hurts you so he wants to keep it away from you, or the fact that you react like this to him talking to someone else could be making him keep this from you. Go talk to your man, apologise for how you reacted and just be honest with how you feel about what he's doing.
Hope this helps, good luck xx
does ANYBODY know how to seriously get rid of stretch marks. i know this may not be possible.i know they eventually go away because a few years ago they were red and now their like white or silver. i just need some remedy or an ingredient to look for in sunscreen or something. also, laser removal is out of the question. help please!
Bio-Oil® is a specialist skincare product that helps improve the appearance of scars, stretch marks and uneven skin tone. Its advanced formulation, which contains the breakthrough ingredient PurCellin Oil™, also makes it highly effective for numerous other skin concerns, including aging skin and dehydrated skin.
Bio-Oil is highly effective in helping to improve the appearance of existing stretch marks. Bio-Oil helps to increase the elasticity of the skin, thereby the possibility of new stretch marks forming is reduced.
Bio-Oil should be massaged in a circular motion into the stretch marks and surrounding skin, twice daily, for a minimum of 3 months.
You can get Bio-oil from any cosmetic/drug/pharmacy store and even some big chain supermarkets.
Hope this helps, good luck xx
last week my boyfriend and i were having sex. we used a condom spermicide gel but during intercourse intercourse the condom came off but he kept going anyways. i realized that it felt different so i told him to stop because i didnt want to do it without a condom. do you think i might pregnant?
No matter what you use there's always the slightest possible chance of becoming pregnant through birth control but in 99% of the cases they always work.
Because in your case the condom came off and your man kept going yes there could be a chance that you are pregnant simply because of a thing called pre-cum. Pre-cum is pre-ejaculatory semen. It is the fluid that ejaculates from a man before the "Big Bang." Pre-cum is pre-ejaculate is the clear lubricating fluid that is issued from a man's penis when he is aroused. Which means him pulling out doesn't really prevent anything.
If your really worried I suggest waiting two weeks from the time you had this sex session till you can take a pregnancy test as this is the time you must wait for anything to show up on the test.
Hope this helps, good luck xx
i'll try to keep it short: i'm 21, female, and i currently weigh 170 i believe.
i used to be 120 something, then it went up to around 140 something, now the scale is telling me i'm 170!!!!!!!! i gained most of my weight after meeting my boyfriend and now it just seems like i can't stop gaining weight. why am i all of a sudden gaining so much weight and how can i shed it off quickly? thank you all.
Physical attraction plays a huge part in your relationship compatibility – it’s one of the reasons why you were attracted as a whole to each other in the first place. And you probably put a lot of effort into your looks when you first started dating. But once you start celebrating month or year anniversaries, chances are that you’re so comfortable in your relationship that impressing your partner isn’t always your first priority anymore.
When you’re single and looking for love, you probably take more care of your appearance by eating healthier and exercising more – you want to impress future love matches after all. You may cook healthy meals at home for yourself and you have more time and interest in running or going to the gym. Once you finally hook up and fall in love, you don’t feel as motivated to look good because you’ve already hooked him. Love has a way of making you feel special, no matter how much weight you gain, especially if your boyfriend doesn’t acknowledge your body’s changes.
Your friends and family can certainly tempt you to stray from healthy eating habits, and your partner is no different. Besides, eating with someone is always more fun, and you don’t feel as guilty about indulging in fatty foods because someone else is too. A lot of men aren’t the healthiest eaters to begin with, and you may start to inherit your guy’s pizza and beer diet as a way to bond or because it’s an easy solution to dinner. If your boyfriend isn’t regularly active, it might be difficult for you to get up for that run when he’s pulling you back on the couch to cuddle. It’s always more of a challenge to remain healthy in the face of temptation.
You love him, you want him, you have to have him – every single moment of the day. New couples tend to spend a lot of time together, forgoing the activities they did when they were single. Your alone time becomes your couple time, especially if you have a busy schedule with work or other priorities. Visits to the gym and those solo after-work walks around the neighborhood get put on the back burner in favor of spending time with your partner. Women are also the caretakers in the relationships, so they’re more prone to put their needs, healthy and otherwise, last on the list.
What’s to stress about when you’re in a loving, fun relationship? Good, stress, known as eustress, can actually fuel your relationship weight gain. Even happy, euphoric feelings can make you turn to the fridge in almost a celebration mentality. However, you’re sure to experience the bad kind of stress when your relationship hits some bumps in the road, and one of the most common ways people deal with stress is to try and eat it away, which you know backfires.
When your honey suggests a Sunday matinee and early dinner, counter offer with an outdoor hike and a picnic packed with fresh fruits, hummus and other low-fat foods. Exercising together is one of the most motivating tools for weight loss, and also one of the most effective.
It may be cute when your mate dangles a Twix bar over your mouth and proceeds to devour it without gaining a millimeter in his waist, but if you can’t resist temptation, simply ask your guy to stop tempting you. Out of sight, out of mind just may help in your fight against relationship weight
You resolve to order the salad at dinner, but your boyfriend goes for the large pizza and finagles you into eating half of it. If you’re going to give in to him, at least go 60/40. A common mistake women typically make is splitting a meal down the middle, when in fact, you’ll be the one to gain more weight than he will. Men have a higher caloric intake and can eat more without gaining weight. So just because your appetite matches his doesn’t mean your portions should.
As the woman in your relationship, you have more influence over your couple habits than your guy does. That’s because women tend to do more of the grocery shopping and cooking, and tend to incorporate fresher, healthier foods into their diet in general. So take the power back and set the tone for a healthy and happy relationship.
Hope this helps, good luck!!
when do you go through puberty
Usually, puberty starts between ages 8 and 13 in girls and ages 10 and 15 in boys. This wide range in ages may help explain why some of your friends still look like young kids whereas others look more like adults
For boys, the hormones travel through the blood and tell the testes, the two egg-shaped glands in the scrotum (the sac that hangs under the penis), to begin making testosterone and sperm. Testosterone is the hormone that causes most of the changes in a boy's body during puberty, and men need sperm to be able to reproduce (be the father of a baby).
In girls, these hormones target the two ovaries, which contain eggs that have been in the girl's body since she was born. The hormones cause the ovaries to start making another hormone, called estrogen. Together, these hormones prepare a girl's body to start her periods and be able to become pregnant someday.
Boys and girls both begin to grow hair under their arms and their pubic areas (on and around the genitals). It starts out looking light and thin. Then, as kids go through puberty, it becomes longer, thicker, heavier, curlier, and darker. Eventually, boys also start to grow hair on their faces
When you go through puberty, it might seem like your sleeves are always getting shorter and your pants are creeping up your legs. That's because you're having a growth spurt that lasts for about 2 to 3 years. When that growth spurt is at its peak, some kids grow 4 or more inches (10 or more centimeters) in a year! At the end of your growth spurt, you'll have reached your adult height — or just about.
But your height isn't the only thing that changes during puberty.
With all this quick growth, it can seem like one part of your body — your feet, for instance — are growing faster than everything else. This can make you feel clumsy or awkward. This is normal, too! The rest of your body will eventually fill out and shape up, and you'll feel less klutzy
Your body also fills out and changes shape during puberty. A boy's shoulders will grow wider and his body will become more muscular. He may notice a bit of breast growth on his chest. Don't worry, this is normal — and it goes away for most boys by the end of puberty.
In addition, boys' voices crack and eventually become deeper, their penises grow longer and wider, and their testes get bigger. All of these changes mean that their bodies are developing as they should during puberty.
Girls' bodies usually become curvier. Their hips get wider and their breasts develop, starting with just a little swelling under the nipples. Sometimes one breast grows more quickly than the other, but most of the time they even out. Girls may start wearing bras around this time, especially if they are involved in sports or exercise classes.
One question a girl will have is: When will I get my first period? This usually happens about 2 years after her breasts start to develop. The menstrual period, or monthly cycle, is when blood is released through the vagina. That may sound alarming, but it's normal and it signals that a girl is growing up and her body is preparing so that she can have a baby someday.
Hope this helps, xx
can girls have sex when theyhave their periods?
Sex during menstruation doesn't pose any additional health risk to you or your partner. If either of you have a sexually transmittable infection, the blood can make it easier to transmit. However, there would always be a chance of transmission even if you weren't having your period. If this is at all a concern for you, you should be using a condom -- menstrual cycle or not!
Remember that just because you're having your period doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. Be sure to continue using birth control unless you are trying to become pregnant.
Of course, sex during a woman's period is a little messier. Many couples, however, take great pleasure in the extra lubrication and "earthiness" of it. About the only "precaution" you need to take is putting down a towel first if you are worried about staining the sheets (and maybe having a few moist towels laying around for use afterwards). But beyond that, and the caveat about infections such as HIV, there's no other reason to be concerned.
And many women find sex eases the cramps that sometimes come with menstruation. It seems to be the orgasms that do it: Studies have shown that many women report that an orgasm or two -- with or without intercourse -- works better than any drug in alleviating the cramps associated with their menstrual cycle. Of course, having sex also gives you a great distraction from the painful cramps!
So feel free to have all the sex you want during your period. In fact, if it helps your cramps, then you can even say, "Doctor's orders!"
Hope this helps, good luck xx