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I know this is kind of gross, but is it weird to have hair growth on your stomache?? And what can I do to get rid of it?? Without waxing it, or lazor hair removal. And shaving is such a pain is there anything that will get rid of it for good???

Thanks.

one word for ya! lazer! i've got everything done and i am smooth as silk :D its abit costly but start with your problem areas first

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i'm moving next year and i'll just be starting highschool. i don't know what i'm going to do because i made a whole bunch of friends here and it's going to suck. i'm not good at making friends. on the first day of school everyone is going to have friends and i won't. :(
how could i make friends?

last summer.... i moved countries not schools. my friends were all over the globe and i was put in this new weired environment with potheads and the craziest types of people. the first day was sooo wacky i had no idea who was who or where was i. or what was funny and cool and what wasn't. i was stalled a year because my language requirements weren't up to par.
lets just say that the first day was going to be the most dreadful day of my new life. i didn't have any of my "cool" clothe (my luggages were lost :( ) didn't knw th language and had no idea what kids my age in this new culture wer like....

i wore the weirdest looking outfit i could combine. had nice perfume. wore one of my mum's diamond necklace and went to school. now i am an artist but i don't act that way usually. but i decided to exaggerate it and walk through those doors looking as confidant and normal as ever. smiling at everyone and even greeting the teachers i've meat when i first came to register. by lunch. my glowing attitude attracted, jude* and eliana*. two years later my two best friends (and just recently jude* my bf) :)

so i guess what i am saying is that if you have the attitude and the spirit it doesn't matter if you make friends the first day or the first period. you're good vibe will attract people in no time. just make sure you act confident (avoid clumsiness, saying something you don't mean or that would sound dumb (think) and make sure you smile and look people in the eye when you pass by)

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my best friend sam has had 2 babies and she is only eleven she is pregnet again now for 5 months my other friends say not to be her friend anymore but we have been friends since preschool she is the school slut and wears short skirts and low cut half shirts and she doesn't know who any of the dads are should i still be her friend?

my oh my..... where are her parents? and what did they do with the first two babies hun??

alright, so considering th age of both of you. i would suggest you talk to her first and see if she is in any kind of trouble. don't let it sound like you're all "adult-y" on her, that would only make her defensive and prone to hiding the truth. instead speak to her as a friend and someone who she won't feel threatened by. if it turns out to be something like rape or abuse or something like that. you TELL SOMEONE.

second, it sounds like you are judging her by how she looks. there are many people who dress "inappropriately" but surprisingly would be there for you in your time of need. so don't let that be a factor in judging who she is. in the same respect do not let her principles and values disrupt your own morals. you know what is right and what is wrong. if not you ask some one experienced.
if the girl, Sam, is nice to you then i don't see why you shouldn't be her friend. does she talk to you normally? no bitching, no cattiness or snobbery?

third, you need to tell some one about he pregnancy at least to make sure everything is alright with her and the baby.

hope this helped...

out of curiosity how old are the other two babies?

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