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I'm Rachel, I'm 20 and a Junior at Michigan State University! I've been with advicenators for a few years, and I enjoy coming on ever so often to help someone who needs it. I love giving advice, especially to people who have been in the same situation as I have. So ask away ;)
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Well there's this guy I loved. we went out for only 3 months but i really really loved him more than i loved anyone else. then he cheated on my. im still in love with him is that wrong or weird? cuz i cant get over him!!!! i know i shouldnt ever go out with him again but i kno if he wuz to ask me out id think about it...is me l0ving him wrong?
Hmm...are you the same girl because it's only been 1 second. lol sorry if you're not. Anyways, no it's not wrong because a couple exes down, I really loved. He was EVERYTHING, but he broke up with me (actually, he didn't do it. He told ym best friend to do it the jerk) and went out with my best friend. There's a saying, "First Love NEVER goes away." and it's true. There's nothing wrong with you being still in love with him because it's perfectly natural. But I don't think going out again might be the best idea. I can understand second chances, and if you really feel it's right, go ahead. Just remember that the world is full of cute/cool guys that are looking for a girlfriend. Who knows, that might be you. And they could be WAY better than your first love. =)
theres this really cute guy i like and my friend likes him too and we made a pact that whoever he likes, he likes and each of us wont get mad. but they flirt a lot and i want to let her know hes MINE not hers! its complicated but i like him like a lot and i want him to be mine but the problem is so does she. how do i get her out of the picture?
Okay, the SAME thing happened to me with one of my best friend's. Here's what happened: One year we liked the same guy but we made no pact like that. The guy ended up asking ME out and she got really jealous so what she did was, well, flirt with him. A lot. He ended up breaking up with me for her and that really hurt our friendship. I regretted what happened. The next year the same thing happened. We both liked a boy, we both tried for his attention. I finally decided to make a pact with her and the boy ended up asking me out. This time, she just accepted it and the next week another guy that she liked asked her out. What I'm saying is, you made a pact and you should keep it. There's no way to get her out of the picture because you promised her what would happen, would happen. It seems like you guys both like him a lot but who do you think HE likes? Guys aren't worth hurting relationships with your friends. There are PLENTY of guys out there looking for the right girl and hey, you might be one of them! If this is really bothering you, I suggest maybe talking to her but don't say anything to threaten her. (ie, do not say "Ryan is SO mine! Get away from him you dirty looking skank!") If he seems more into her, just accept it. It may hurt but there are so many other cute guys worth dating, and you might be the girl of his dreams. =)
Heres my problem:
9th grade I talked and all but not to o much and was sorta shy and now schools starting again and im in 10th grade I just dont wanna be shy nemore and I know that its gonna be hard and all because Ive tried before to stop but it didnt help that much and like what will I talk to the people about I dont just wanna be like oh hey whats up even though I dont know you like in my english class what do I saw to the person by me and all so if neone can help me w my problem and actually my problem please answer back w some advice niot just stupid answers please thanks!
Yeah same for me to but eventualy I broke out of my shell. just find something little to say and you'll work your way up toa conversation. usually compliments work best. If you see they're wearing a certain band, singer, or TV Show or something that you like too on their shirt then just go up to them and say, "Do you like _______? I do too, I love it!" Or tell them that they have a nice shirt. or ask where they got their shoes. friends usually turn up through small talk. Hope it works out ;-)
how do u get rid of blackheads on ur nose without using any of those products that u buy at the store? something like a home-made remedy
Hmmm...I use store bought products but i heard that toothpaste or mouthwash (prefereably listerine) works pretty good for pimples.
how do you make out? what do i do with my tongue? please explain in detail....i do not understand...this sounds to diffulcult
Don't worry, it's not hard at all. Just let everything go with the flow. Don't just leave your tongue limp, move it around and stuff. I guess you could say 'explore.' use your tongue to play with theirs. Everything will just fall into place.It's really natural and you will be really suprised at how easy it is. ;D If you need more help feel free to ask me. =)