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i broke up with my boyfriend of two years because i found out he was cheating on me for the last 4 or so months of it. then he went out of his way to turn people against me and break me down with all my weaknesses he knew, it was hell. but now his mom is in the hospital and not getting better. i was tryin to be nice and tell him shel get better n itl be ok and all. he went off on me, it just hurts i went out of my way to try and help them but now im hurt again.. how do i just give up on him? i love his family i dont want any thing to happen to any of them. what do i do? (link)
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First, as if you already weren't aware, this guy has major issues. From what you've stated he's incredibly jealous and insecure with himself. The best thing you can do for you is to cut him off. Cold turkey. No if's and's or but's. Not even a maybe. It will hurt, but in the long run it's for your sanity and you'll feel happier doing so.
Secondly, I understand that you love his family and care greatly about their health, but do NOT involve yourself in someone else's family matters. This might seem cold-hearted, but in theory, you're no relation to them and it can seem like you're meddling in someone else's business. It can also add onto the stress they're already dealing with. Those are private affairs.
If you want to wish his mom better or exchange a few nice gestures, send her a card.
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I went to a new youth group tonight with my friend from school and I realized her brother is amazingly gorgeous! I feel like sometimes, he was flirting with me, he would go to the door to watch for a friend coming and he would brush my shoulder or when I looked at him, he'd fix his hair and smile. I want to get to know him, I don't want to start anything romantic before I get to know him. But first, I want him to notice me. I want to be something different to him, make him approach me first. So, what do I do to look cute to him that he would come to me and start talking instead of me going to him? Thanks! (link)
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This is the best piece of advice when it comes to attracting men: if he's interested, he will come up to you. He will engage you in conversation. There's probably not a single thing you could do (at least to provoke interest in him for the right reasons) besides being yourself, and being confident with who you are.
With that said, if he was really flirting with you, he'll approach you in his own time. If you want him to notice you however, the best thing for you to do would be to talk to him.
Meanwhile don't allow yourself to analyze every step he makes.
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