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hey ok well people say i give good advice i am 13 years old so thnx for rating me

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ok i have this friend and she tells me im so called her "best friend". yeah well she asks me stuff like just personal questions like about the guy i like and stuff.the thing is when i tell her she has no reaction. but if one of her other friends or cousins tell her she makes leik a big deal out of it like she actually has reactions and tells them things. i m not sure if you understand what im saying but if you dont tell me

what do i do?

oh yeah ps im in 9th grade

okay she probaly doesnt make a big deal out of it when you say it cause your her best friend and she doesnt want to lose you idk you can ask her.
hope i helped!!

okay. i'm a freshman in high school. and like a week ago the guy i like told me that he liked me and i was like aww!! i like you too. and everything like that. but now he won't like talk to me. or he will tell me to call but he won't pick up his phone. i only call him like once. i don't keep trying to call back. like i'm trying to give him "room" [i guess lol] but i dunno what to do he keeps telling ALL of his/my friends that he's gonna ask me out and everything but he won't talk to me or anything. it's weird. please help.

ok him could just be shy and think that you only said you liked him because you didnt want him to feel bad idk but you should ask him out or ask him in school or something why dont you talk to me any more see what he says.
hope i helped!!

okay.. i have this one friend and shes not in my class ( im in 5th grade ) and ALL my friends and my ex-friends are in that ONE class. And i dont hang out with my ex-friends anymore! So i hang out with my new friends they're so nice! But one of them always always always talks trash about my ex-friends and im like i know but then at lunch and everything she sits with them and at art and at gym and ALL the other subjects! My friends sit near them sometimes and she says my friend is telling them everything i say and they are talking about me! my friend says thats not true! and she pinky swear that shes not friends with two of them ( out of three ) but like she talks to them ALL the time! and i was walking bye them and one of them said shes TAKING OVER YOUR LIFE she=me! and im not im sooooooooo mad i dont know what to do and im soo upset i think shes my friend but i dont even know! Shes sleeping over on friday!!!!!!!

PLZ HELP ME =( xoxo!

over the phone or something ask her why people are saying you talk about me to my ex friends and if she says she doesnt ask her why she talks about your ex friend to you when you hang out with them.. jst keep asking her more and more questions.
hope i helped!!

me and my best friend have been always together last yuear hanging out and all this year we fight all the time and im really getting mad about it cause i hate to fight with a friend plus i do not like being mean to anyone what do i do im so confused what to do about this

this is happening to me just like say something funny to her or how ever you make your friends do it the same way to her,
hope i helped!!

ok so there is this guy and idk if he likes me or not my best friend told him that i like him and all he was like i new it and his face turned red and today he didnt talk to me at all and we usually talk all the time my friend also asked him if he would ever go out witht his girl and he was like no way then she asked if he would ever go out with me and he didnt say anything and he left what so you thinkdoes he like me or no and idk what i should do around him anymore =(

ok he could try to be nice and just not to say anything cause you like him and also if he said he wouldnt go out with you your friend would tell you he probaly knows that just talk to him instead of waiting for him to talk to you be like hi if he doesnt talk to you maybe he doesnt like you but if you say hi and he says something back he probaly likes you and was just shy about it if he is a shy person it probaly cause of that shyness.
hope i helped!!

k. theres a guy. im friends with him but he used to be in love with my best friend. like really in love. they never went out but they were together. now that they're not together nemore, i talk to him a lot. and i think im starting to like him. :\ what should i do?. i don't want to hurt my best friend?

-confused.

ask your best friend cause if she doesnt want you to go and date him than i wouldnt since she has been your best friend so probaly a while and why ever they broke up it could happen to you before you do any of that make sure you are sure he likes you.

hope i helped!!

okay. well theres this guy that i don't really know but ive talked to before. my older sister knows him and he seems really sweet and nice. my sister said she would never let me date him becuase hes such a player. i don't know if thats true. i never see him though becuase hes in high school. how can i try to get close to him but not make my sister mad?

-confused. :\

well he could be a playa just tell your sister you and him arent going to be so serious and when you do huck up with him i wouldnt be so serious with him cause if he is a playa you wont get so hurt.

hope i helped!!

theres this guy that i like ATON ive liked him for like a year n he always hits me on the butt n stuff with a ball and trys to get me to chase him n i think he likes me but then again wenever i come over to ride horses at his barn he runs off??? i dont know if he likes me or not..and idk what to do..

please help,thanks

it could be because he doesnt want his family or who ever is with him there to know about you ask him why he does that.
hope i helped!!

ok i really like this guy and he is so adorable but i dont think that he likes me and what if he doesnt what do i do plzzzz help and can ya answer my question back at xoyours xo truly

on
aim plzz what should i do??

ok i know you told me to anwser it back on your aim screen name but you werent on you can just tell him that you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way than there a lot of other guys that i am sure would like to date you if you are shy write him a letter saying that but i would tell him as soon as you can before he finds someone else and you never know until you ask maybe he does like you but hes shy. I would just start flirting see what he does
hope i helped!!

okay well me & my ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago . i still realyyyyyyyyyyy like him & supposevly he still likes me alot but less than he did before . but now my little step sister is going out with his little brother & idk what to think . &its a little less than a week away & i want to get him something but i don't know what because i never see him . he is in the next school up . i normally see him on friday nights at interskate91 . but he's grounded .he has gotten all of his pac sun cloths taken away, his cell phone, his computer & his skates . help me PLEASE . =[ ♥♥

you want to get him what something for christmas well you can go over his house or tell your little step sister when ever she goes on the phone with her boyfriend or what ever ask her when shes done if you can talk to your ex boyfriend plan something with him like ask if you want to go to the movies as friends or something like that and maybe you two will talk more and stuff now about that gift if that was part of your question you can get him some cloths since he got them taken away or his skates just what he likes you know since you use to date him..
hope i helped!!

Me and my sister are pretty close. She tells me everything, I tell her everything. I'm 15 and she's 17 almost 18. My sister had a boyfriend for almost 3 years. He's completly rude. I never liked him one bit. He pushed my sister into a chair AT OUR HOUSE and she started crying and he ran off. Like..left our house. He always cussed at her and they almost argued everyday. They broke up 11 months ago. Once they broke up, he got another girlfriend , and my sister went balistic on him and he threatened to call the police on her. Again, that was 11 months ago..And they haven't spoken since..

My sister met this one guy who is gorgeous. He's really sweet and i think he's good for her. They've been "talking". I like him and i think she deserves a guy like this.

Two days ago, my sister went to a party and saw her ex there. Near the end of the party, he pulled her over and started asking how she was and all that. When she told me this i got soo mad. She practically said "I hate the way i'm always running to him!"

I don't want her running back to him. Chasing him and then having him make her feel like crap. I think that the new guy that she met is good for her. She realizes it. But after her ex through a couple of pretty words to her, she's wanting to hang out with him. I know i should let my sister do whatever she wants, its her life not mine. But i don't want my sister ending up hurt or anything! I really want her to realize that if she goes back to him, she'll get hurt again. What can i say to her to make her realize that he isn't good for her? Please help me. My family doesn't like him and neither do I. At first, my sister thought he was crap for her, but after she talked to him, she thinks they are going to go out. Please help me.

you can remind her about all the things hes done to her and tell her that you really like this new guy and the whole family hates the other guy well doesnt like him very much. maybe you can plan something nice for your sister and her new boyfriend. hope i helped!!

ok, see theres this boy,mat,and he has a girlfriend that hes been going out with for 6-7 months! and i really really really like this kid like woah. Were in some classes together and the thing is hes always flirting with so ofcourse i flirt back. he has no idea (well at least i dont think so)that i really like him and i dont wanna tell him either bcuz i noe he rather be with his girlfriend and bcuz i dont feel like getting jumped by his g/f friends....so yea please help, thanks so much! kaytee-[13/f/stl]

you can just try and not to flirt back with him cause the more you do the more you start to like him and next time when you like someone dont wait to tell them how you feel cause they might feel the same about you but than might get a girl friend before you can tell them but for right now just try and find someone else. hope i helped!!

Okay me and my boyfriend like each other alot..
but we never hug,kiss. but he buys me stuff, But i want to go onto the next level with him. but his best friend and my best friend are always around & so i cant ever talk to him. What should i say to him, with out getting made fun of by his bff & my bff?!?!

HELLPP MEE!!!

you can wait until they get sick or if you have a class with him and only him not your bff or his bff if you dont than you can ask your bff to take or make his bff away/busy if she is your bff i dont she will make fun of you for asking someone you like out hopfully she'll understand you can also try to call him or im him. hope i helped!!

ok well you see, this is really a problem so here goes,

i slept over my boyfriends house, and obviously not to make it weird, i slept in his sisters room, she was the one that invited me in the first place, so we were talkin then pretended we were gay we kept talkin then she stripped, and to tell you the truth i didnt mind it, and so i stripped and she sed she wasnt pretending and i felt normal too, so we tossed the salad all night long and i loved it! but how do i tell my bf i dont like him, i like his sister?

-Confused

I would break up with him but if you dont want to you dont really need to tell him about what happened with you and his sister he might find out though but just tell him that you think you are a lesbian and thats it.. hope i helped!!

this year im really confused about what i should ask for, for christmas i dont really have any ideas so please help me think of some stuff thanks

callie 14/f/stl

here are just some of my random ideas..

-shoes
-cell phone
-ipod
-dvd player
-tv
-movies

hope i helped!!

Hey all.
I got this hair curling mouse, and the thing is, I dunno how to use it. I tried 2 times to do 'something' but I ended up with my usual normal hair.
Can you tell me how to curl it?...

Thanks loads.
Kay

ok well take a shower have your hair damp cause if it to wet all it will do is drip out put some in your hand rub it around and sqeeze it til your whole hair is full of it maybe a little hair spray.

hope i helped!!

my brother (older by a year) says if I dont get bf IM a loser, his geeky friend on the bus even got one before I did and my little sis did before me too and my lil bro might get one before me too and I have never had my first kiss ither and I really want one too.and I need to know if I want to start a conversation with a guy and how to flirt keep on talking to him.

okay well since you want a boyfriend try to go up to any guy you like and say hey keep the conversation going on for a while and be like ok well i have to go but if you want we can sit together at lunch or i'll see you after school maybe. hope i helped!!

I have 6 friends to buy Christmas presents for, and I know I have at least 100$ to spend, but I don't want to spend ALL that!! Can you help me think of gifts to buy for each of them that are under 10$? I'll tell you a little about each person...
Kaylee- Likes sparkles, but is sporty, and lovesss good movies!
Rachael- Very girly, and loves pink!
Scotlyn- Somewhat girly, and likes glitter, etc.
Summer- Loves to READ! She loved the book "Blue is for Nightmares".. If you've read it, that's the kind of books she likes!
Hannah- Girly.. likes makeup!
Kassy- Likes tinkerbell and monkies, and frogs.

I need to buy them each something 10$ or under! Please help me!

I'm also not sure what to get my mom. I don't really have a price limit on her, but I know I'm getting her a candle and a snowglobe. I'm just not sure what else to get her!

ok you can get Kaylee a movie or a sparkly sporty pillow like a baseball or what ever sport she likes the most... Rachael a pink slippers pjs robe anything else she likes but in pink...Scotlyn what ever her favorite color is and get some glittery bracelet or necklace nailpolish...Summer a book thats some what like blue is for nightmares sorry i dont know any book thats like that cause i never read that book...Hannah a makeup kit or just put different makeup together and make one yourself...Kassy maybe pjs with one of them on it and a little stuff animal to go with it or something that shouldnt go over about 60$ for your mom go around your house see whats old or stuff that she looks at when she goes shopping and get her that...

Hope I Helped Merry Christmas

(I'm a girl)
I know my boyfriend got me a gift for chirstmas and he's really rich. I'm not poor but not loaded either. So, what do u think I should get him?

well you can make him a gift if you do maybe a picture of you two with a nice frame and you can probaly save up money or do chores around your house for money and buy what ever you think he would like. Merry Christmas

hope i helped!!

i feel sooo bad! my friend thinks shes soo amazing, and so talented, and she sings all the time. when she sings everyone either laughs or tells her to shut up. its.... really... really.. bad. i dont know what to tell her. i dont want to hurt her, but shes just embarassing herself! our school musical auditions just happened, and she was shooked when she didnt get called back from the lead. what can i do do help her :/ im 15/f is that helps at all. thank you!

well you can record what she is singing and play it for her ask her if she likes how it sounds or you can just let her keep singing if its something she likes to do it matters on what you think she would like either to tell her or not tell her.

hope i helped!!

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