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Q: my friend is moving soon and i avoided her for a while because i was really sad that shes moving but when we talk a little and when i say bye i hug her so tight like shes leaving tommrow and she says"dont worry im not going anywhere yet...." and next day i talked to her a lil bit and i was gonna hug her like as we always do but she just turned around and refused to hug me and slowly stopped talking to me after this what do you guys think about this situation?

awwww i am sorry....

i believe that you should tell her that yes you are sad that she is moving but she doesnt want to see you go so that you were advoiding her becuase you want her to leave without her seeing you sad.
I have had this happen, but i told her that i couldn't see her moving truck pulling away so we spent the whole day before having nothing but fun liek we used too when we were little... lol

i hope that this advice works... please comment and rate me!!! Thank you

Q: 15/f

Theres this one girl, at my school who is amazinnggg, she is like sooo popular, and so pretty, i mean shes absoulty gorgeous, and shes so nice, unlike all of her friends, but still. and were kinda friends, kinda. but shes just soo nice. i mean for her birthday, her mom bought her all this stuff, and then gave her like 5000 dollars, and she went to the mall and like bought all these clothes, and gave them to the poor! shes always thinking of others, and she just so sweet! i just want to be just like her. i mean honestly, i dont know how she can be the way she is. i mean shes like the richest girl in our town, and she doesnt act like it at all, shes always thinking of others. and shes really smart, and i mean, i just want to be like her. how can i? shes like a freaking saint, she doesnt talk behind anyones back, shes not stuck up, bbut thne yet she has so much confidence in herself in everything she does.

I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE HER.
how?

wow... she must sound really nice

but i am just curious... why do you want to be like her?? I know that she is pretty, nice, smart, and caring but she is her own person. So I think that you should be your own person too!

I am not sure if this help you but seriously I really think that EVERYONE needs to be different in their own ways. But part of being unique is making your own desicions. So if you really want to do this if i were you i would show this to her. It may sound weird but trust me she would love it. But do it in a letter and dont let her "friends"see it!

i hope this advice worked. Please rate me and comment me... Thank you

Q: Does anyone know of any sites with really cute undies and bra sets that are also really comfy?

Thanks.

Two words:

VICTORIA'S SECRET

;)

Q: Hey guys. Ok so my friends and I wanted to throw a huge party this summer and invite like 30 or so kids. We were supposed to do it at my friend Melissa's house because she has a pool but now it looks like we can't so we'd have to have it at my friend Rachel's and she has a big backyard but no pool. So my question is, how do you entertain 30 kids? Sure there would be like music and stuff but a pool is the only big thing we could think of. We wanted to do one of those big water slides but I don't think rentacenter has them. Does anyone have any ideas?

13/F ♥

Hmmm.... that is a tough one...

how about:
volleyball, beachballs, water balloons,bonfire, music/dj, dancing, spin the bottle (lol)

just fun stuff like that,,,

or you can ask your guest what they would like to do and see if the can vote

p.s. i hoped that this advice was helpful...please email me back leaving comments whether they are good or bad i dont care!

Q: where can I purchase the AINHOA makeup set that is Toronto, Canada?

I am not sure how much help I will be but I thought that i should give it a try. i have never heard of this make-up before but I went online to try to help you and this is the sight

http://www.aloette.com/Tools_and_Accessories?cty=ca

there you go.... check it out

ps... i really would like you to email me saying if I was a help.... please take consideration to commenet on anything

Q: Where can you get those thin sequin headbands I see softball players wearing these days?

i want one like taryne Mowatt Has here but in black or orange

http://images.sportsline.com/u/photos/img10216454.jpg

its a headband that wraps all the way around her head and I would say its about an inch thick!

hey,

I think that I have solved your problem....
In your picture that you supplied I couldn't fin the exact one but similar ones:
have you ever heard of Wet Seal? Well it is a really cute store in malls.... check out these pics.:

http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1600&size=&style=37891503&color=10&token=

http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1600&size=&style=37885601&color=640&token=

If you want to look at more than go to wetseal.com

Q: So is it possible to get std's without having any form of sex with another person? Because my penis sometimes gets reddened and the tip gets sore after masturbation. this isn't a problem right?

Okay... this is going to sound really weird but some sexual transmission disease are passed down from your parents.... but dont worry, they are not bad and your partner can not get them. And if I scared you about the genes passed down dotn sweat it.

And as for the other thing... sorry can't help you there! I am a lady... HAHAHA

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I am 13 and am in 8th grade! I love giving advice. I also love it when people rate and comment me! I am 110% dedicated to the Lord! I am a christian!!! I am also in love with someone right now!! *You know who you are*