well me and one of mi best friends like the same guy and im pretty sure the guy likes me but i dont know and i wouldnt go out with him because that would hurt my friends feelings and i would not want to do that and i dont want her mad at me either so what do i do i really really like this kid but so does my friend...should i back off or go for it i dont want to do anything to hurt her though...i need help!!!thanx!
well a good friend would back off. usally at this age people wont stay with there boyfriends. amnd marrythem. let your friend go out with them. n let her get over him. afer she does then you can go outwith him bc hes all up for grabs.! trust me if yu go otu with him it will just cause drama. n i dout yu want drama. ((been there done that))just give it sum time. as i told other people.... love doesnt take 5 minutes it takes days
hoped i helped
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well my best friend is a guy and me and him are really close hes like my brother...i have really liked him for a while now and i never thought of him as more than my friend but now i kinda do. it feels like i like him enough to go out with him but theres a problem hes a very popular kid and im not gonna lie hes extrememly hot and girls are always all over him and im not saying hes the one flirting but im not saying he dosent flirt. but theres also something else im scared that if we do go out that if and when we break up it might ruin our friendship abd i definetly dont wanna do that. so do i tell him how i feel and that i like him or do i just let it go and ignore it and keep him as my best friend? libby i need help babe and i no ur really good at this kind of crap so thanx for taking tha time to answwer back...bi the way its Kailan..hehe love ya!
well life is about takin chances. n i think you gotta take a chance. dont confront him bc usally guys dont liek grls that tell them thye liek them. se ifhe liesk you. try to see if you flirt with other guys or go out with other guys.. see if thet makes him mad. if it doenst then he miht not liek you. n yu might just embares yourlsef for tellin him that you liek him. try to play it low for a little while. n try to find out if he likes you. if he does then try to make hi8m want you. n try to pla hard to get. ((it works :])) !! hoped i helped!
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LiBBY,
ARE YUU BECOMiNG A SYCiATRiSTiST??
WOW MY LiTTLE liBBY iS GROWiNG UP =[
iM REALLY PROUD OF YUU.. YUR USiNG EXPiRiENCE TO GiVE BACK iN SOME OTHER PEOPLES LiFE.. THATS REALLY NiCCE OF YUU.. WOW..
WELL WE NEED TO HANG OUT SOON.. iLL TALK TO YUU BOUT PROBLEMS iN PRiVATE.. DONT GOT ANY RiGHT NOW =]
hahah who is that???? but damn who ever it is .. must have sum love for me!! hehe
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alright well i've known this guy for about a year or so but i just started really talking to him recently. we talked on the phone constantly and i saw him pretty much everyday. over the week that we REALLY got to know each other, he told me he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he thought he was in love. of course, being a girl, i thought it was the sweetest thing and i loved it.he asked me out and i told him to let me think about it and stuff. i promised him i would tell him the next day whether i would go out with him or not. well the next day i went over to my friend's house where we met up with her boyfriend. i went upstairs to grab something and while i was gone my guy called me to see what the answer was. my friend's boyfriend answered and my guy asked to speak to me and my friends b/f said that he was my boyfriend. then he said just joking and handed the phone to my friend. well my guy thought it was me and he said " well whats the answer?" my friend, being a total retard, said " i need another day." and hung up the phone. when i got back downstairs i tried called him back but there was no answer. he hasnt called me since. its been about a week or so since that happened. i really miss him and i do want to go out with him. i wish my friends wouldnt have answered the phone. all i want my guy to do is just call me so we can get everything sorted out. what should i do? help please
well you need to call him up on a different number that he doesnt kno. befor sayin anything tell him that its you n that you love him. aslo tell him just to hear you out n not hang up. tlk to him about it. tel him everything that happend. n trust me he wont be mad at you.tell him that yu knew the asner n it was yes.also tell him that the week not tlkin to him rele mad you relizre thatyou loved him. if he wont tlk to you on the pohne or he just hangs out try to tlk to him in person. it is alot harder to get away form someone whose talking. DONT GIVE UP!!! thats the main thing. aslo u can make up an sn. that he doesnt kno n then typew the WHOOLLE story n then send it to him so that he doesnt have time to block you wihtout you tell the whoel story. trust me everything wil turn out okay
hoped i helped
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So, there's this boy..and he's perfect for me. I've had a crush on him for a while now, but I've always been kind of shy about flirting, and letting my intentions be known. And then there's my best friend, who is the complete opposite. She's outgoing, and loud, and cute, and flirty, and has the added advantage of having been friends with him for years. She's not that into him, but he's completely in love with her.
Now, you're probably thinking, 'well, she needs to talk to her best friend, and then she needs to talk to the boy.' That would be wonderful advice, if my best friend and I were still as close as we used to be, but she's going to Catholic school next year for Highschool, and so we've sort of drifted apart.
I really want to be with this guy, but I don't know how to make him see me, and not just my friend, without completely becoming her. Which I refuse to do. Help please??
well i think you should tlk to him more. not about how you liek him just baout anything. try to becume closer in friends, adn see wat happens from there. while your becumin friends with him you need to kinda show that you liek him n that you have intrest in him((by flirting)) you might be shy buyt your goin to have to have the gut to do it bc i dont think you want oyur best friend n your crush to go out. aslo you sed you dont want to tlk to your bff about it bc your driftin and all taht but you have to. tell her that you rele liek him n that he lieks her. tell her that it would devistate you to see them go out. if she was your best friend shell understand
hoped that helped
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LIBBY!!!!!!!!!!I LOVE YOU BABEY UR AUH-MAZIN!
BTW, its EMILY
wow emily i love you too!!
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ok. im 12. somewhat skinny, and 100 lbs. i havent eatn in about 6 days,but i drink water a lot. i want to eat, but then i feel bad and ill just make myself throw up. i geuss im afraid to eat or gain weight. i keep passing out and only a few ppl know why. help anyone?
oMG you need to get help as fast as yu can!!! i kno people with kind of the same problem. just not as advanced as you!! YOU RELE NEED TO EAT! serously if yu dont then you could die n i dout you want that to ahppen. 100 lb is nothin! trust me!! you should feel good abotu your wieght! this gcould cause damage not just physicaly but mentally!!!! yur only 12 right now and are hain this problems think when your liek twicew your age ((24_)) yu rele need to get help with this!! this is rele serous, and just readin your question amkes me wanna help you more n more. i hope u get help n i hope you eat!!!
****((thANKS ASHlEy FoR HELPiN ME REpLY THIS mESSAGE.. i DiDNt KNo ALot OF thInGS ABouT tHIS BUT yU HElpED oUT ALoT!!
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Last weekend I fingered my girlfriend, ate her out, and suck her boobs. She gave me a handjob,head,and fingered me up the asshole. My girlfriend dosen't think that I really love her she thinks that I might just be going out with her to get action. Thats partially true but if I want to continue to get action what should I do to make her think that I love her??
GRILLO YOUR A FAGG!! heeh
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ok i get your advice but i think me and joey have more in common its just that this new guys i guess its just sumthing new and exciting and i cant see myself without joey like hes my world.but ever since he broke up with me that one time and asked me back out it seems like i couldnt never lover him as much as i used to im seriously bout to break down cus im soo confused!!!i mean I WANT THE BOTH!but i dont believe in one girl one guy you kno!HELP!
-yours old bff
okay well stay wityh your bf. if you truley love him, then you cant just dump him for the new guy bc he would be on your mind liek all the time. see wat happens. see if yu start to lose intrest or gain intrest. ive had the same feelin where i didnt kno who to pick, my bf or the new guy. n i got screwed bc my bf fouind out that i liekd him n then he broke up with me. then i went out with my crush. but the first couple weeks iwas goin out with him i woudl still think about my X. yu just gotta give it sum time. dont worry everything will turn out okay. trust me God is here for you n so am i...
i hoped that helped you:)
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i jsut broke up with my b/f and i want to go out with someone esle but i don't want my x b/f to know b/c that will hurt his feelings
haha lib.. its anuh ha
well wait sum time so then your bf wont get mad liek why is she over our relationship liek that?? after a couple of weeks go bak out with sumone else. haha anuh u make me laugh
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My penis hurts really bad and I have no clue why! I really want it to stop and I heard that receiving head will relieve pain. However, I have no one to give me head. Can you help?
umm ask sumone else with more "experience" hahahahh
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ok well this guy and me were goin out but he broke up with me and in the weekend he brok eup with me i started hangout with this one kid and im absolutly head over heels for him and he told me he likes me,,well that night the guy that had broken up with me((that i still liked)) asked me back out and i said yes,,now i cant get the new guy otta my head..i relle like both of them..but since me and the one guy are going back out i dont think i will ever love him as much as i did..and it hurts.what should i do about it???
well i think yu need to get to kno the new guy better. yu need to see who u liek more. tlk to your b.f n your crush n see who has more in commin wiht yu if your b.f broke your heart once. who seys he isnt goin to do it again. yu need to find out witch one would be a better n loyaler boyfriend. think about it for a while. it isnt goin to cum to you liek THAT. its goin to tak sum time.
i hoped that helped
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okay well i really like this guy...but he doesn't like me...and i keep trying to make him notice me but he only thinks of me as either a friend OR a little sister...what do i do?
well i think you should try to hang out with him more. try to make him look at you more then a friend. i dont rele kno awt to say bc i need more description about it. so ask me again but tell me more details
k thanks
i hoped it helped
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I have to remember a poem for school. Any tricks to help me memorize it? It's pretty long.
divide it up. so make liek sections. and then learn each section. do the first section. then when u have ir memorized learn the second. after you have the second memerized add the first oen . so then say the first one n then the second one. then keep on doing that by addin the thirt n forth n so on. also asy it outloud it helps!!!
hope u get a good grade or watever you have to recite the poem for
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How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love?
ive thought i was in love serveral times, but we would break up n i woudl go out with sumone else n relize that i wasnt rele in love with my boyfriend. youll kno when your in love. everytime your with him ull get butterflys. he'll be the only thing on yuor mind. love is a greart feeling. btu when it ends. n if he breaks your heart. fuck then love sucks. dont worry youl no when your in love, u just gotta think n think hard. n youllsee if youare or arnt. u cant rele explain love. its a wried but good feeling.
hoped that helpd
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Alright on sunday my boyfriend fingered me, and this was the first time I've ever been fingered. It hurt a lot, and afterwards I bled a little. Now when I pee it burns and hurts a lot...
Is it normal for it to hurt or bleed the first time? And if he scratched me could it get infected?
Thanks
ive herd its normal for it to hurt but not for it to bleed. but htats just wat i herd
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okay well i've had a really weird life, my school is nothing i want to deal with, and my childhood i want to forget about with me being the biggest loser, well i've been BEST FRiENDS with these girls in all but sometimes its been all weird i mean not weird but making me sad and making me wanna cry, when we were BFFFLs tight as can be it seems like they were not liking somtimes , or like they were using me and im not kidding, they would do stuff and leave me out and i got so pissed off, they both went up somewhere and then told me i had to go and bring sumthing of mine so i was horrified they would always do this, someone told me i had to start making new friends right away and i did, im best friends with the funniest most unexplainable people and they really are amazing and they are BEAUTiFUL, they always want to be with me and invite me over whenever ive been having tough times! even if there not the boys most wanna be with in the school they always make my day! but i still do sports and after school stuff with the girls i used to hangout with and when im with them i start thinking and thinking and sometimes i think that i really want to be friends again but then when im with them its horrible at times because its them talking and telling eachother secrets not me and sometimes i can even swear there talking about me! well now that im with my new best friends i really get scared that my life is in a positions it has never been in before, i hangout the other girls that were my best friends but then the next second i leave there with eachother i mean i still love them but my new ones seem more real to me then anyone ever has, i dont know what to do. i mean idk if this is a question to you or not, just tell me something about it
well i kno who this is n im in love with you!! eekkk heheh!1 well anyways if your best friends leave you out ther not your best frineds. best friensd include u!! n trust me whereever i go yu dont need an invite you can just cum.. ask me gotta do is ask when n where. trust me im always goin to be here for you!!!!i understand that u still love your best friends but sumtimes your life is goin to change. mine has this year liek no other!!! n idk wat i would wihtout my friends. you mostly helped me in my darkest times!! n yu never turned your bak. yu dont deserve to be left out.. im always goin to be here for u!! ILOVE YOU!
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she just called me a bitch on msn i don't think she is scared for me
well just tell your teacher that she is the one that told you about cutting! she isnt a true friend trust me!!! mroe liek a bake stabiin whore!! if yu tell your spanish teacher the truth then youll have less punishment and the other grl will hasve more! i dont want to be mean. but im huge in believin in carma((wat cums around goes around.) n damn its cumin bak n goin to bit her in the ass. tell me wat happens tom. after school if u tell. i rele hope u keep askin me ? bc i liek answerin them n helpin yu out! you need to get new friends. or just hang out with your other friends. block that one grl outta your life. trust me everything wil turn out okay!
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im having a little trouble with make up .I have (medium) brown straight hair and brown eyes.
I wanna wear make up but not look like a circus clown. any ideas on what to do or any product ideas???
well get a mascra but when yu put it on dont make it TOOOO THICKK!!! also get some bronzer n lip gloss. make sure yu have the right bronzer so that yu wont look liek wayy to orange!! alsso get eye liner. but only wear eye liner at night. you can get black eye-liner for teh gnith and tehn during the day wear brown eye liner. if yu have any other ? about make up just ask! n ill try to help
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yeah but the person that said that tole me it would relive it (cutting) was the one that told my spanish teacher
well that grl is a little bitch!!!!! honestly knowin me i would tell your spanish teacher that she was teh one tat told you about it. tell her how shes the one hat told you it would relieve you. u mgiht be introuble for doing it butshe will too. im sorry but who ever that was is a bitch!! i just dont get why shold woudl tell on you!! but i do have another question. did she stop n how many timse did she cut herself???? maybe she stoped n felt scared about you doin it. maybe she aws scared that you woudl get rele hurt. before you tell yourt spanish teacher. i think u nedd to tlk to her baout it. n then tell her abouthow your goin to tell the spanihs teacher. its not fair for sumone to make hell on your life.. i hope things turn out okauy
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