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i have this mate called curtis archer.
hes really cool. we used to always hang out and mess around. He used to always say to me oh you fancy me you wanna kiss me you wanna hug me.
and i would always laugh until one day i started falling for his charms.
my sister nicole told him on msn that i liked him. and he replied i like her as a mate i did fancy her but that changed when she hung out with that boy alex buren.It broke my heart to see what he wrote because i always liked him. we used to go upstairs and chuck eggs out at people that walked passed but,then he went to high school and had lots of boy mates and now he chucks eggs at me and my 6 year old cousin called hollie. i really like him and i think he still likes me but i don't know i really wanna find out.
please help me. :(
signed love at first site
maybe you should talk to him. explain to him that you don't like this alex buren boy, you like curtis. see what he says :) if he liked you before theres a good chance he still likes you and even if he doesnt theres a good chance you can get him to start liking you again. good luck!
15/f
My best guy friend just told me that he liked me on istant messanger. Then i told him i just liked him as a friend because that's all the feelings i have toward him. Then he got offline and i felt really bad. I figured i hurt his feelings and he didn't want to talk to me anymore. What do i do? What should i say next time i talk to him? Or should i say anything? Thanks!
just tell him you feel really bad. is there any way you would think of giving him a chance? like maybe you could try it and see how it works out.. if not, then what you're telling him is good. just tell him you want to be just friends. but tell him you don't want things to be awkward from him telling you this. you don't want to lose him as a friend =)
What are some gift ideas for my boyfriend?
He's 18, senior in high school, not really into sports or anything. He likes music but gets it all online for free. We're been going out for about 7 months. I already got him a hoodie but out of ideas...wanna get him something he really wants, not just a typical gift like cologne.
Any and all ideas will be appreciated.
yeah this is a hard one..
the hoodie was a good idea. i'll try to think of some others..
- photo album w/ pictures of you two
- picture frame w/ a picture of the two of you
- cologne isn't always that typical.. he'll know if he wears the cologne you bought him you'll always like how he smells (so that's good for you too.. if you get to pick a smell you like) haha
- maybe you could buy him a favorite movie or something.. so you guys can watch it together =)
- giftcard to one of his favorite stores
- his favorite candy
just like stuff like that. that shows you know what he likes and shows that you care. you can use a few of these ideas.. that would be cute =)
this was my first time ever giving a handjob and im scared because once he cam i stopped...we were both wearing clothes so is it possible to me to get pregnant?
also ...are you suppose to stop after they cum? or keep going? cause like he was wearing pants my hand was just down them and i didn't want him to get cum all over his pants
any advice?
okay there's like the smallest chance in the world that you can get pregnant when you have your clothes on and you give a guy a handjob. unless the cum is like on your hands and then you put your hand in your pants and the sperm like magically gets inside of you then there's like no chance. haha.
but after they cum STOP. it hurts them if you keep going after that.
JOBROLOVER
Recommend it?
Thanks
i have it and i love it. the only bad thing is i text a lot and it holds like an unlimited amount of texts but once it gets to like a really high number it starts freezing when you open the texts. so you have to delete them. other than that, i really like it :)
JOBROLOVER
do you put eyelinear on your top eye and mascara on your bottom eye lash? does it look good? or is it too much?
i put eyeliner on the top and bottom of my eyes. i put mascara on only my top eye lashes, but you can put it on your bottom eye lash too. it looks good. if you don't like a lot of make up i would suggest just putting eye liner in a thin line on the bottom and only putting mascara on your top eye lashes.
JOBROLOVER
i have thick hair but it's really flat...i straighten my hair alot because it doesn't really curl but what can i do to it to give it more volume?
you can blow dry it.
JOBROLOVER
so i love to use words like fresh and legit.
what are some other words like that?
besides like bogus or something.
what exactly does legit mean anyways?
why would you use the word legit if you don't even know what it means?
legit is short for legitimate,
which means according to law.
im 13/f And i used to be overweight and now im skinny i worked it out really hard and i pushed myself so hard and lost SO UMCH weight. and im proud of myself for it, but i havnt gotton my period for a month and a half and its almost 2 months, i hear that its cuz i dropped weight so my body is just changing and i have to wait for it to come back but its normal if it doesnt come this month right, i guess its just cause my body changed and it went from overweight to skinny, thanks :) :)
yeah that definitely is why you haven't gotten it. that happened to one of my friends too. it's normal if it doesn't come this month. but if it doesn't come for like something ridiculous like 7 months then i would talk to your doctor about it. good job and good luck :)
So theres this boy thats new to my high school and a year younger than me and i think he is really cute. one of my friends already told him i thought he was cute but i need to talk to him myself. i no he plays basketball and i do too (plus volleyball) should i talk to him about that? how should i approach him so i dont come off as creepy. Thank u advice is much needed ! :)
you probably won't come off as creepy. most younger guys would be honored to have an older girl come up to them and start talking. just go up to him and talk to him about basketball or something. ask him how it's going, if they won their last game, etc.
good luck :)
Okay,
So latley i've been getting this feeling like i miss some one.
And i think its weird,becasue i really can't think of anyone i could miss.
What does this mean?
A friend told me its not that i miss someone but that i "need" some one.
Do you think this is true?
Help ...please
yeah i think your friend is right. you might be one of those people that need close relationships all the time. that's not bad or anything btw. but yeah maybe you've been drifting from a friend or something without noticing? anyways, just try to make your friendships and relationships with your family stronger and you should feel better :)
maybe you're just having an off day/week/(however long this has been going on)
Do the actors/actress only stay on the show, or do they do anything else to? Like I think Darcy(whoever acts her idk names!) is on 90210. But it seems like Emma has grown up on the show. Also, you know the kid that is in the wheel chair, Jimmy, did he actually in real life get paralized or is it just for the show?
some of them do other things to.
DARCY- her real name is Shenae Grimes is also on 90210. she was on naturally sadie (a disney channel show) too.
EMMA- her real name is miriam mcdonald.. she was in some other canadian tv shows and stuff i think. she was in the movie she's too young. she also guest starred on naturally sadie.
MANNY- cassie steele.. she's been in some movies too like my super sweet 16: the movie. she was also in the best years, full court miracle, and instant star which are all tv shows.
jimmy isn't paralyzed in real life, it's just for the show :)
if you want info about more of the people just type their names into google, but most of them appear in movies or other tv shows
ok so theres a dance coming up and my boyfriend goes to a different school but i wanna bring him and its 10$ to get it...ill pay for myself but would it be wrong to have him pay for himself because im taking him...idk just confused on how it all works
any advice?
thankss
i would just bring $20 in case and see how it goes. typically the guy pays for stuff or you each pay for yourself, but since it's at your school he might be thinking you're gonna pay for him. just see how it goes. if he pays for himself then cool but if he seems like he's waiting for you to pay for him then you'll have $10 just in case :)
how long will it take for a hickey to go away?
a few days usually.
just cover it up with make up
and ice it because that helps :)
There's a guy that I've liked for awhile... ever since like 7th grade actually, and I'm a junior now. Well, since we've been in high school, he and I have gotten closer, mostly because we're in the same group of friends now because his friend asked me out last year but we broke up after three months (it was a happy ending though :)) So I'm curious, would it be a bad thing for me to try and start something with the guy I like because he's so close with my ex?
i don't think it's really that big of a deal. you're young and friends end up going out with the same boy/girl. you said it was a happy ending though so that helps a lot too. if it was a bad ending then he might get mad at his friend. i think you should be okay going for the guy you like now :) but if your ex seems to be getting pissed at the guy you like you might want to lay off for a little longer.
good luckk
16/f
I have this huge crush on this one guy and I don't know what to do about it. People tell me that they think he likes me, but I don't really know for sure. He doesn't go to my school, but we talk online and stuff almost everyday. How can I hint to him that I like him more than a friend? Would asking him to go a movie be too forward of me? Or should i wait for him to ask me? I'm not sure of what i should do.
you can just ask him to hang out or something. then flirt with him a lot when you hang out and see how he reacts. if he flirts back a lot you'll know he probably likes you too :)
this isnt me, im just wondering, so if you were adopted and you adopted parents adopt another guy, and is it wrong to marry and love him? and he lvoes you back? i mean we're both adopted! (not me) just wondering
haha i'm guessing it is you since you said 'we're' but it's okay. that's why you ask things like this on this site. no one knows who you are so it doesn't matter what you say :) you can feel comfortable here.
anyways, to answer your question it isn't wrong because you aren't blood related, but legally he is your brother since you're both adopted so i would try to stay out of that type of situation. but if it's really a problem i would wait a little while before you let it out into the open because you're probably just a teenager and the chances of you still loving him like that when you're older are not very much. maybe you're misinterpreting the type of love. maybe you love him like a brother, not in a sexual way. anyways, good luck :)
my girlfriend is comeing over in about an hour and she has a sore throat and she doesnt want to get me sick, but il do anythig for her to makeout again, that was the best night of my life. what can i do to convince her its ok to?
she just cares about you. she doesn't want to get you sick. and i understand what you're saying, you would rather get sick and kiss her than not kiss her at all and be healthy, but she's just being caring and not letting you get sick :) you can try to convince her out of it.. just go up to her and kiss her.. but you can't guarantee she'll be okay with that. she might even get mad. maybe you could invite her over another time when she's not sick? :)
16/f
i play volleyball and i have been for a long time. like 8 years. I'm on my schools varsity team and its my first year on it. I also play on an elite junior olympic team. so basically i can just say i play the sport all year round. I only get about a month off of it. so my question is... i'm not sure if i want to keep playing the sport. I mean i love the sport and i always will. its just that i never look forward to practices, and sometimes i even cry after practices or games. Since i'm new on my high school team i dont get any playing time but i know for sure that next year i will be a starter until i'm a senior. I've already decided that when i go to college i dont want to play volleyball then. but I'm not sure if i should quit now. because sometimes i love it, but sometimes i don't. and my mom has always said that if i don't enjoy something then whats the point of doing it. and honestly, sometimes it feels like a HUGE waste of time and instead i could be doing something better. so i need help on deciding what to do now. maybe i just need a break because i have been playing for so long. but i'm not sure.... help!!
well you have to ask yourself this:
do you feel like it's a bigger waste of time if you stop now and let all the hard work you put into the sport go to waste or keep continuing the sport when you could be doing other things?
good luck :)
16/f. I was sort of thinking of getting my hair redone. I'd like to dye it lighter, but i dont know if it would look good. Here is a picture of me: http://i35.tinypic.com/30csrwm.jpg I'd also like to get a new style. Can anyone tell me what'd look good on me? Please send pictures. I'm open to any colors, and any styles. Thanks!
hmm personally, i think you should dye your hair darker. i tried going lighter with mine (my hair was a similar color to yours) and it didn't look so good with my face. i think darker would be better for you too. :)
but if you really want to go lighter i would just do a few carmelish highlights.. nothing too blonde.
i think you would look good with bangs too.
good luck :)