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ask me anything thats what i`m here for! don`t hold back..i`m very straightfoward and honest giving my advice. it might not be the best or maybe you dont like it but sometimes people need to hear the truth once in their life. so rate me whatever you like. my name is alexxa my friends call my lex or lav and i`m 13 years old. i`m going into my 8th grade year at school and with that comes a lot of drama. i have the most best; best friend in the world! her name is julia and we are inseperable. i`m not exactely sure what "clique" i`m in, but most of my friends are pretty cool. im sort of a prep but i don`t like to get dressed up too often..jeans and a tank is good enough for me. my favorite stores are aeropostle and american eagle. i play basketball, softball, soccer, and run track and corss country. i`m don`t play an instrument because i`m not cordinated enought to. i`m really irish so dont diss the green. i live in south buffalo, new york where almost everyone is irish and if your not your well..not cool. i`m also polish, and scotish. i`m sort of a music whore but whatever..i love greenday, the click five, fall out boy, all-american rejects, and lifehouse, gwen stefeni, will smith, DMT,. some of my favorite songs are: just the girl, be my escape, cool, wake me up when september ends, american idoit, sugar we're going down, drop it like its hot, and golddigger. i love to travel also, i`ve been to sao paulo, brazil -laguna beach, california -hong kong, china and a bunch of other places. i`d love to go to ireland, paris, wales, england, and york someday. i love getting questions in my inbox so go ahead and ask. i`m better with the lovelife, friendships advisory but ask me anything you`d like. i perfer longer questions to short ones but will answer any if you just ask. i love decriptive questions..takes a load off my back. they are easier to answer too..so please if you need advice..ask me. [Attention Columnists..if you are rad and add me as one of your favs..i`ll return the compliment =D] if you need to im me, my screename is ixi l0ve y0u x0o. EVERYONE PLEASE PRAY FOR THE PEOPLE IN NEW ORLEANS AND ALL THE OTHER PLACES HURRICANE KATRINA HIT! THEY NEED YOUR PRAYERS!--->xOxO
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Alright im 13/f and im about 5'3 and i weigh 123 pounds. Do i need to lose weight?
dear asker,
that is about average..you could, if you felt you needed to without danger, but i dont think you need to. if you do however decide to..dont go on those "model" diets where all you eat is salads..because trust me, from expeirience it doesnt make a difference.
best wishes; xoxo
alexxa marie
OK my grampa just passed away friday and so far it hasn't really hit me that he was gone so I didn't cry right away. Everyone was saying "I'm so sorry.." and stuff. But then the kid I think I love told me that he was so sorry about what happened on my away message( we haven't talked for about 2 weeks) and once I saw that I just started balling my eyes out. I don't know why i particularly did it when he said it. Also, my mom is REALLY strssed out. A year ago on august 28th my aunt died. My moms birthday is august 29th. My grampa (her dad) died the 30th.
So my questions are: How can I make this less strssful for my mom and why did I start crying when he said that he was so sorry about my grampa?? thank you sooo much.
dear asker,
i know how you feel..my grandma died right around my birthday and this year my moms best friend died that week so my mother is always sad around my birthday which isnt fun...anyway back to your question.
the only thing i can tell you is that you should comfort your mother..assure her that they are in a better place now, help her out as much as you can.
your next question: i think you recovered over the shock when you saw your crush sorry for you because it was then that you relized that your grampa had died. you were in shock that you just kept thinking that the next time you went to see him, he'd be there becuase of all the times you'd done that before..its normal to have a shock for a while until someone you care about breaks that shock.
if you need any addional advice IM me at ixi l0v3 y0u x0o.
best wishes; xoxo
alexxa marie
i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend
dear two-split friend,
the best thing i can tell you to do is to TALK.
conversation helps solve most conflicts, and im guessing you would like to be her friend and be friends with your others girls. i understand completely. just tell her that you have other friends and that you have to hang out with them for a while. hope everything works out. IM me if you need additional advice. ixi l0v3 y0u x0o.
best wishes; xoxo
alexxa marie