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i told my friend i fancy this boy and now she flirts with him all the time. but only scince i told her i did fancy him. shes having a party and is inviting him and me and says she going to set her best friend up with him and then says whats wrong like she doesn't know. i really hate her when she is like this please help me...

hey, talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. If she's a real friend, she wouldn't be doing this to you. tell her that you feel like she's flirting with the guy you like ever since you told her. tell her what you just asked us. Don't tell her that you hate her when she is like that. just tell her nicely that it would be nice if she stopped. just make her understand what she's putting you through. good luck, and hope i helped!

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ok sry for the length but i need help...

i have this ex-boyfriend that i like alot still i dont know why..we've broke up a million times but i can seem to get over him..we my friends are telling me we should go back out because they say hes changed and stuff but my problem is my best friend doesnt want me going back out with him..he said if i go back out with him then he'll never talk to me ever again...and i dont know what to do help plz

Hey, this is your love life. NOT your best friends. Yeah..sure it's okay if you get her input,but don't let her decide for you. If you can't get over him, then it seems apparent that you still really like him. Don't give up on him because of something your friend thinks is right. follow your heart

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Hi, I'm in 8th grade and about to graduate, I really like this boy and I wanted him to ask me to our last dance. Every time I'm around him I can never get the nerve to talk to him. What should I do?

hey, I think you should just try to talk to him. If you want him to ask you to the dance...how is he supposed to ask you, if you two don't talk to each other? Just walk up to him and give him a friendly greeting. Good luck 'n hope I helped!

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