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I love helping others. I may be young & to be honest I have NOT experienced everything there is to experience, but nonetheless I am a good listener. I am creative & intelligent, so I can hopefully give you some helpful advice. =]
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well i know this is late but i don't know what to get my bf for x-mas...does anybody have ideas..rate high for good answers
gift certificates are always good...does he have an ipod? they sell itunes gift certificates! if not, maybe you can buy him a cd he likes! or a gift certificate to borders or barnes and noble. or maybe he wants a new watch? talk to him about it too. i'm not sure how much you are looking to spend though! does he do any sports? maybe he would like something to do with that! hope i helped!
How do i get rid of stretch marks? i have them on my legs i guess at my thighs this is embarrassing tho. anyway to get rid of them? maybe something i can make at home ? ive used cocoa butter but its not helpin very well.THANKS!!
hey, i read this on a health site:
The good news is, you are not the only girl who is experiencing stretch marks. During puberty, many girls get them on their breasts, on their hips and thighs and even on their buttocks. The marks are caused because you are growing so fast that your skin can't keep up with the changes and in your body and has to stretch to accommodate the increase in size. The bad news is that there really isn't anything you can do to make them go away. What will happen over time, is that they will begin to fade and eventually you will hardly see them. No creams, etc., can make them go away! You can also use body make-up to try to camouflage the lines if they show through your clothing.
sorry there isn't much more i can do to help, but i'd try using make-up like they suggested! i just wanted you to hear the truth...there isn't anything you can do to make them suddenly disappear. good luck though!!!!
Ok, so i have this friend named *ang* and she was my friend the whole sumer. I was either talk to her on the phone, she was over, i was over her house, or she was at the pool with me. Ok so when school came, this friendship went down, she turned into a wana be popular girl, anging out with them, and turned into a backstabber. We still stayed friends. So i decided to take dance with *ang* and she was so happy and so was I! So tonight is our dance recitle, and she hates me. She caleld me a bitch, she gets into my email account, but then, after, she just comes back to me. and me being to soft harted i accept her apoligy. If i doont, she gets totaly mad and starts spreading bad rumors. ive told my parents, and ive told teachers, and en talked to her, nothing has worked. please help me solve this problem.
you should not be friends with someone who treats you like that. if she still spreads rumors, etc., just don't pay attention, you don't need to lower yourself down to her level. if it gets to a point where you can't deal with it, you need to speak to an authoritative figure. i know you said you already spoke to adults, but you need someone who can step in & talk to her as well. maybe you can sit down with her & a teacher or parent all together. good luck & i hope that she stops!!
Hey im in journalism and its my first year. Finals are here already.. and were making a year book in that class, so far im doing pretty good but i need quotes.. for like sports,graduation, prom and stuff like that for a year book type.
Does anyone know any websites i can go to, to get really good quotes for the year book?
http://www.famous-quotes-and-quotations.com/graduation-quotes.html
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/prom.html
http://ktornado.tripod.com/khs/id13.html
hope i helped, good luck!
I work at a large department store. I usually work the night shift, from 5 until 10. Well there is this girl that I have been working with. She's normally really nice, but tonight she called me a fucking bitch because I got to leave an hour before she did.
I would NEVER call one of my coworkers what she said. She wasnt joking about it either.
Should I say anything or just try to let it go?
i'd go to work like normal, and act your pleasant self. if she is still being mean, i would ask her directly about it. be nice, and certainly don't answer her back in the way she talked to you! if she continues to be rude, you should probably talk to your boss (if you really feel she is verbally abusing you).
Hey all.
I got this hair curling mouse, and the thing is, I dunno how to use it. I tried 2 times to do 'something' but I ended up with my usual normal hair.
Can you tell me how to curl it?...
Thanks loads.
Kay
i am not sure, but i think you are trying to scrunch your hair (let me know if i'm wrong). make sure your hair is wet-not soaking, just damp. then squeeze the gel in your hands and rub them together. now put your hands in your hair and scrunch it. (it's like grabbing pieces, squeezing it, etc.) keep doing this all around! i hope i helped, sorry if this isn't what your looking for! (also if you have really straight hair, you are probably going to need a stronger product).
how do you get 12 friends on myspace?
you invite 12 people pr they invite you
For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?!
i heard you should try looking in between the eyes...like right above the nose. this way it looks as though you are looking into his eyes, but in reality your not & you won't be embarassed! i haven't tried this yet, but i heard it somewhere! if you try it, let me know if it works smilez132@comcast.net
good luck!
Does anyone know any songs about lost friendships? I'm kinda going through something right now, and I'd like a song to relate. Thanks!
Mary J. Blige - "Friends"
Christina Vidal - "Thought That We Were Friends"
Ill Nino-"Two (Vaya Con Dios)"
Char - "Girlfriend"
Jimi Hendrix - "My Friend"
Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?
♥ Thanks.
although i am disagree with almost everyoen elses answer, i honestly don't think a gift card is the best idea. when you get a gift card you are showing the person how much you spent. unless you & your friend decided on a specific amount to spenf on each other, i don't think it's appropriate to give her that. if you absolutley have no idea what to give her it's fine, but seeing as she's your best friend, you should probaably kow her enough to thnk of something she might like! and incase she doesn't, include a gift recit so she can return it & buy something she does like!
hey my mom said i can choose any kind of car for my 2nd car. my last one i wrecked. since ill be getting a new one when i graduate. i want to get just a nice car now. and be able to get a fucking sweet car then. what would you get. ps im a 16 girl. so a girl car.
I am a 16 year old girl too! I have a 2006 Honda CRV and I LOVE it! It's a small SUV, so it is higher off the ground, but it's not to big to back up & you don't feel like your driving a truck! I love the Honda CRV and it has gotten really good reviews with safety & reliability too! I hope I helped!
help me!
I have a cousin who is liek my sister and she signed up for something online but her email is visible... she is under 13 and I dont think she is prepared to stop someone bad from harming her through internet ya know?
so what am I supposed to do to get her email off there? I dont know her password and everytime I introduce her 2 a new thing inlien she wants 2 sign up for cuz she asks me, I always tell her no personal info so i tihnk she'll get mad at me if I keep doing it.
PLEEEEEASE WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?
hey maybe you should tell her to make up a fake e-mail address to use for those things. also, don't tell her about anything (don't introduce her to anything!) also tell her how you feel. if it's a serious problem talk to an adult (your or her parents)
Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!
Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.
I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.
At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.
What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.
It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much!
my sister went through the same thing. eventually my sister decided to just tell her friend that she knew she was going through a hard time & if she wanted to talk about it, she was there for her. her friend still didn't love to talk about it, but sometimes my sister would ask a question. if your friend gets mad or upset, just explain to her you were just making sure she was okay, and that you care about her alot. i know its tough, but good luck!
ok i need some help NOW! 5s 5s 5s! OK NO LISTEN! im really lazy and i blame myself for that. but now down to bisness! what do i do when i have an F in math class and my teacher is going to call any minute to tell your parents! and you told your parents that you already turned in all of your late work! so what should i do! fast! please!
tell your parents what is going on before the teacher calls. this wya, you might get yelled at, but probbly not as much as you would if your teacher told them this instead of you. good luck with this & with school!
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Theres this new kid this year. Hes a sophmore and im a freshmen. Well i kinda really like him .. a lot. Hes on my bus, in 2 study halls, language, science, and 4 outta 6 lunches. Well i liked him. And im like really shy around him but usually im really outgoing. Only today in lunch .. i was like .. Hey yooh, got a pen ? .. he sits at the table next to me =) Like .. next to me ! Hehe .. but anyway. I like him and I really dont know what to say to him. The only things hes said to me was answering something i asked my friend and he asked what my name was . Ya .. so like .. i have study hall with him monday .. and me and my friend might go up to him ( he sits alone in that study hall) and be like .. You look lonely , want us to sit with you ? IS that a good idea ? Well im sorta frieds with this girl who he sits with / i guess theyre friends.. but i go to a lot of sports games like volley ball and so does she. Do you think i should tell her i like him so she can tell him to go to the games? and then we can hang out outside of school. Becasue lots of people go to sports so ya know . Ok well i dont know what else to say so any other tips or advice youve got id love to hear ..
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i think u should go sit with him, but don't say "YOU LOOK LONELY!" that's embarassing for him!
okay theres this guy i like alot
i was in the lunch room sitting waiting for school to start. and well he homes, unxeepectidly. and i was by myself and well he sat at the table i was at. it was wierd. then i was in the thearter for a welcome back to school assembly, but there was a empty seat next to me because i cant stand sitting by the wall. and so i just went into the second seat. and guess what. HE SITS NEXT TO ME! and we talked alot. like the assembly was atleast 1 hour long. and well we were talking the whole time
hes inn all of my classes and hes by my locker. if i have locker troubles he helps me.
he opens the door for me.
he sits by my lunch table like behind me and if i drop something he will pick it up.
do you think he likes me?
because i think we are really ment to be we have SO much in common i really need the answer becasue my friend is oging to ask him out for me tomorrow && he said he will sit with me in class or behind me.
what do you think? i need your opinion.
ill rate :)
from the way you describe it, it sounds like he could possibly like you. i can't give you an exact answer though, cuz i don't know him. but it sounds like he is sending u signals, or AT LEAST wants to be your friend. i hope it works out well!
Hi,
Today a friend of mine invited a guy i sorta like over to her house. He always says he likes me. But he is sort of a sexual guy...he said hes had sex about 3 times...
ok so were watching a movie and he moved in for a kiss... i kissed him and it lasted for a while. But while he was kissing me he sorta went half way up my shirt and then he started kissing my neck...
i had no idea how to kiss him i kind of messed up and he moved away, and then came back.
ifelt really extremely unconfertible....
and now hes askin me to be his gf...and i dont know what to say because what if we do go out and he always wants to touch me? i dont want to break his heart because i like him...but i really do feel unconfertible when we kissed.
what should i do, should i go out with him?
-toubled 13 year old
if you do want to go out with him let him know that you want to take things slower, and if he agrees to that then he is a good guy. do what you truly want, don't let him touch you if you don't want to be touched.
what do you think about white nail polish? is it cute, ugly, trashy, anything!! and please hurry!!! easy 5's for fast answers!
i think white nailpolish may look a little odd, but it isn't as bad as black! i think if you want a whitish look, give yourself a french manicure, that will make it look really nice!
i never did anything wroung teachers jude me before they get to kno me because of jason thats why i want to do good in skool to prove im me my own person i may look like jay but i dont act like him [all the time ] im me and im ganna prive that to anyone that doesnt belive me
all the teachers give me dirty looks in the halls just looking at me its like stomping on the only lil faith i have they point me out of the crowd of people as the trouble maker im ganna show the shuve it in there face that im diffrent and that i may be relatted but i love him and i cant change my family and i never would
should i realy prove to the teachers and plz tell me if its fare or not
just behave like you, not like jason. igonore the fact that you are being judged unfairly, but if it gets to be a real problem talk to those teachers or to a principal or to a guidance counsler. you are you & jason is jason...you are 2 different people & you deserve to be treated with respect. i know you love jason & wouldn't change him, but that doesn't mean you can't behave a little differently. be nice, do your work, participate in class & the teachers will realize you & jason are 2 completely different people.
last year i was bad not good but this year i wana be good but i dont want my bad friend to stop liking me so should i be good or bad
you shouldn't give into peer pressure, you should obviously be good. your friend is probably not a good influence, so i would rethink your friendship.