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... I'm always down for a good time..
i absolutly love to have fun.
laughing is my favorite thing to do.
seeing other people laugh makes me laugh even if its not funny..

My friends are the most amazing people around they're one of a kind...
Living in the moment is def. a must.
overall i'm a pretty laid back person.. i'm up for anything.

When it comes to music.. basically i like anything that will make me get up and dance :]
dancing just makes my day..
i love dancing in the rain. And dancing in the streets.
I love thunderstorms.

summer is my ultime favorite. time to party and meet new people.
i absolutly love going on vacation especially with friends.
I love the feeling of sand in my toes.

Sometimes i say the wrong thing at the wrong time.
I'm usually pretty random with things.
Everything happens for a reason.
There is no such thing as perfect.

advice

ok so im having a party. And i would consider all my friends to have different interests in music. mostly r&b, rap, hip hop,pop,techno, LOVE songs, and a few rock. My question is i want all different kinds of music playing like all different types so i can make everyone happy:] do you have any ideas? Can you list a few songs//websites that you might like just too get a taste of all different kinds of music

I like almost everything when it comes to music so hopefully i can help you. Here's a few ideas:

*Don't Matter by Akon
*Bet That by Trick Daddy
*Make it Rain by Fat Joe
*Best of Me by Starting Line
*Zoom by Lil' Bossie
*We Fly High by Jim Jones
*Wanna be a Balla by Lil' Troy
*Top Back by T.I.
*Step Up by Samantha Jade
*Space Between by Dave Mathew's Band
*Crash Into Me by Dave Mathew's Band
*Show Stoppin' by Danity Kane
*Runaway Love by Mary J. Blige & Ludacris
*Lips of an Angel by Hinder
*Ice Box by Omarion
*Here (In Your Arms) by HelloGoodbye
*Gallery by Mario Vazquez
*Erretime by Nelly

They're a little more hip-hop & rap.
Let me know if you want more like "Love songs" i have a lot of good ones for that topic!

Hope it helps!!

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I'm small and.. lacking 'meat' in areas. I'm 15. 5'0 ft. 85 pounds. No eating disorders.

I want my clothes to fit me better but I have no idea where to go? Sometimes 'Small' is.. still big.

Two questions:

How do I gain weight? [high metabolism, folks]
Suggest some foods? [Healthy please] I don't usually eat meat.

And

What stores carry small sizes? [websites please]

None of my clothes fit me in the right places until about a year or two after I bought it.
I've seen many small girls rock their clothes but they have beautiful curves and weigh more than me. I do have curves but I'm just 'skin and bones'

Any help? :/

I dont know much about gaining weight, i suggest seeing a nutritionist.

As far as clothes, my cousin is very tiny, just like you're describing yourself, and she def. goes to Abercrombie Kids, they have the cute "in" clothes, sort of preppy but cute, and they have pretty small sizes and it's not to expensive.

Try that, let me know if it helps!

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when i get sweat stains in school, is there any to get rid of themm quickly?


and i sweat alot! whats a really strong deoderant. i heard that mens spray deodernt works well. does anyone use thatt?



thanksss [:

I used to have the exact same problem. It sometimes depends on the fabrics wear and how many layers you wear, but if its pretty bad, ask your doctor, it might be embarassing but they can provide you something, its like a "dabber" that you put on at night and it sorta drys up the idk what you call em' like pores under your arms and you won't sweat there! it's really great!

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i'm pretty tall & i have a hard time findingg good jeans.
all my jeans end up getting pretty baggy & stretch out. i want them to be tight & long & sorta flare [ but not be like totally hippy bellbottoms haha ]. but i really cant find any jeans that are like.. under 40$ maybe? that fit this description.

i'm 14/f, 5'6'' inches tall, jean size: [ i think ] juniors 3Long

where can i find good jeanss? =/
thanks!

I have the same exact problem im 16 and 5'7'' and i have sorta long legs. I usually try American Eagle. I'm a 2 Long they fit absolutly perfect, what i also do is on the bottom to give it a little more flare like around the shoe.. is cut the inside (or outiside) of the pant leg right next to the seem about 2 inches up, it makes them seem longer and a little more flare!!

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i am looking into buying some perfume. but it cant be too strong, i dont want people to smell it miles away, but if i hug someone than i want them to smell it. what is some nice smelling perfume that is not too strong?

ps i dont really care how long it lasts. btw im 16 if that helps

My favorite is the perfume from Abercrombie Kids, it's the one in the red box. I get so many compliments on it, especially from guys! haha

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I just started indoor tanning. How often a week should I tan??

I go about 3 times a week. Usually when you start you want to make sure to go for no more than like 11 min. and work your way up to the full time.

Make sure to use lotion it always helps you not burn, but once you burn you might want to wait a good week before you go again or your skin will get really dry and it won't be comfortable.

Also, if you really want like your arms or stomach to get tan, try laying on your stomach, it might feel weird at frist, but try it, it usually helps tan your front side better cause you're right next to the lights!

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heyyyy everyone!! well, i'm 14/f, and i have long brown hair. i always have it down because of 3 reasons. 1 reason is i don't know of any good ways to make my hair look cute. 2nd reason is because i seem to never have time in the mornings, but i'm sure i can make time. and the 3rd reason is because i don't want the same ones as the girls at school have. and also, i don't want the hair styles to be to time consuming. i want ones that take 5-10 min, but can still be cute. i would eaither like to know of some from your personal hair styles, or websites would be great! thank ya all!!!

I have think long blonde hair.. i have the same exact problem everyday. i dont want to take much time but still be really cute.

I just got it cut and i absolutly love it.
I would do a side part either side doesn't matter, and then get the side bangs and just a lot of layers.. that way it can just fall around your face.. and give it volume and like a fun look but still very simple.

Try searching for like you're favorite celeb. hairstyles online and see if you can find somewhat of what you would like and bring it in when you get it cut

hope it helps!!

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Hey. For my sweet sixteen party I'd like to have a slideshow showing pictures of my family and friends. The thing is, I really want some good songs that would go with a slideshow and are meaningful. Maybe about family or friends or growing up. Good songs too. So my question is, does anyone have any good ideas? Thanks so much in advance =).

*Bring it on Home by Little Big Town
sorta slow one but greattt song
*My Little Girl by Tim McGraw
*Better With You by Five Times August
*Good Riddance by Green Day
*Sweet 16 by Hillary Duff
*Feels like Home by Chantel Kreviazuk
*I'll be there for you by the remembrants
def. a GREAT one. its the theme song from friends
*My Wish by Rascal Flatts


If you like these and you need more let me know i def. have other ideas that would work too!!

Good Luck.
Happy Sweet 16!

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okay well yeah i am african american so i do have thick hair
but at the time its not very thick
i am about to wash it
and if you african american hair too i'd really like your advice
when i get out what should i do to it
blow dry
air dry then straightener
what?

or just straight to straightener
but the thing is i want my hair to grow
and i heard by using straightener it can make your hair fall out by putting to much heat on it
but that is like the only way to get my hair straight
so yeah,
advice :]

I'd suggest blow drying it as straight as possible with a brush, but remember to keep the air blowing down the hair from the roots, so like on top of your head pointing down. That way it won't get frizzy. Once you get pretty close to dry, then let it air dry the rest of the way. After its dry, to straighten it somemore, i recommend using a straightener with the gold type inside, it's a lot healthy for the hair and doesnt fry it. I've been using it for a year now and my hair is still amazingly smooth and not burnt!

try it. i hope it helps!

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is playing with your clitoris to orgasm technically masturbating or no?

Yes. It's masturbating.

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