I did what you said, Lauren. I prayed to God and asked my friend why he was going to run away. He answered and I talked him out of it. He is still a little mad, but all I can do now is pray for him, right?
yes, playing is a very good thing to do...but if you are still unsure about whether he is still gonna do it or not...talk to him about it. tell him the consequinces that could happen...his life will be even worse if he runs away!
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this is from the same person w/ the friend troubles--and this is for lauren again too.
we don't get into fights any more, but it just feels like we're kind of holding back. like the fights we had a long time ago destructed some part of our friendship that can't be restored. i don't want to talk about it with her because she might get mad at me again for bringing it up. should i just wait it out to see what happens or should i really try to talk about it with her?
its lauren
the best thing to do is talk to her in person. she will eventually give in because she probably feels the same way you do. if you rly feel like your friendship isnt strong, definately talk to her about it...if she gets mad write back to me and tell me what happened. :)
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What do you do when your friend wants to run away. I have tried to tell them not to, but they ignore me. Lauren, should I just pray and ask God?
its lauren
ask them why they even think about doing that? how will they live? ask them thattell them they have a great life and tell them how great God is
write back with concerns
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im not mad at him rly i am just jealous...and it makes me mad but we are stll rly good friends...and we do talk...but still i think i like him and then i think i dont...
p.s. same person as the friend..what do i do thing
what are you jealous about? i say you just enjoy him as a friend because relationships do come to an end...and then yall could hate eachother for a while and it wont be the same! write back if you have any concerns!
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i have a friend that gets herself into my business all the time and she tries to get herself invited to wher im goin if im going somewhere with some of my guy friends how do i tell her to back off nicely without hurting her feelings?
its lauren
just be like lets go somewhere fun tomorrow...maybe if that doesnt work you just need to sit down with her and explain to her how u feel about it...if that doesnt work write back to me
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this is the same person from the question with her boyfriend. well what if you don't see him a lot and only talk on aim. im totally confused on how to do it! i haven't ever broken up with a guy b4!
-confusedd-
ok well, it is possible to do it on im. just make sure its really the guy. you could also try email or maybe calling him. whatever works for you and will make it easiest
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i am 13 years old, and i am a girl but all i can seem to crush is younger guys. i know its horrible, but i can't help it. everyone thinks i am totally desperate. also, i keep switching crushes, i cannot seem to decide on one guy. please help me!
-rushed to crush
go for whatever guys you want! don't worry about it...but also remember you dont need a guy in your life...some could be mean!! guys will come and go! don't think you need a crush every minute of your life...i havent even had one for a long time! but if you think a younger guy is cute or hott, thats just a thought...its fine...but dont over-obsess on guys a lot! write back if you need any more advice
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this one is for lauren-
ok so me and my friend got in a few fights a while back. and it's not like the kind where you just get over it, and pretend like it never happened. i've asked a few people about this, and they all seemed to say that same thing; but when i tried to talk to my friend about it, she would never listen to me. and now that we're friends again it feels weird b/c like it kinda seems like there's something missing in our friendship. do u think it has something to do w/ the fact that we got in fights a while ago? if so, what can i do to get our friendship back to how it was before we fought?
-confused
this is lauren
ok...yes i do think you probably do feel weird. it is because of the foughts yall got in. i have gone through this before. to get your friendship back, the right hing is do do what you have been doing and just talk to them about it and ask her if she feels the same...i think they will eventually talk it through with you. if they reject it just wait a while...if it seems weird, write back to me and i will help you. also, how wierd does it feel? do yall still get in fights sometimes? the best thing to do is talk to her in person about it...write back if you have any more questions! i hope yall work it out!
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idk laura asked me to do this
well there i a wierdo and he is ryl bothering me
he is alwasy at my house and cant get away from him
he always fallows me and does stuff with me
love him and hate him at the same time
plz help me
p.s. he is my younger brother
well, sadly, there's not much you can do about ur brothers and sisters. if he likes hanging out with you, try maybe setting out an hour or so a day to be with him, then make sure he understands that after that time its your time and he should respect that.
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i want to break up with my boyfriend, but i just can't do it..what do i do?
well, when i broke up with guys in the past, ive either written a note or had someone do it for me. just tell the guy that you really liked it better and were more comfortable when you were just friends. hopefully he'll understand.
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what do i do if i like someone but they only think of me as a friend?
well, actually, im goin throught that now. at first your probably mad at the person they do like, but thats a bad idea because its not they're fault. i would say to just continue being just their friend, but talk to them as much as you can (and have actual conversations) get to know them better, and they may start to like you too.
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Hey! im not sure if people are prentending to be my friend or if i actually have friends..which is it?
ok well, if you hang out with them and talk to them and they just seem like they're havin a good time they're probably your friends, but if they seem to not enjoy talking to you and spending time with you, well, you should find ppl that appreciate you or get to know these "friends" a little better.
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I just got back from Sky Ranch (a Christian camp) and I told one of my friends that I rededicated myself to Christ. He said I was stupid and that I changed. What do I do?
ok well its great that you did that, but dont let this "friend" make you change your mind about God. try to explain the purpose of God in your life and help him, and if it doesnt work, let him think the wrong thing and dont talk to him about it, but try to keep your friendship if its that important to you.
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Yes can u tell me that 1
~fat boy jinkens
they're stupid and have nothing beter to do with they're lives.
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How do u get a friend back?
it depends, what happened?
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i was having sex yesterday and i was wondering is it good for u i love it alot but idk if its good for me i really need to lower my colestral waht do i do keep on having sex or not?
~fat boy jinkens
ok STOP! and just a word for everyone--dont ask us about sex!
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