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Ok well I just turned 12 and now thats its summer I dont see my boyfriend much anymore. I'm kinda shy though is my problem. I'm afraid to call him cuz I dont think his parents know that were going out. And I would feel weird callin him. I get real nevous and talk to fast. And I really really like him and he likes me and I just want to see him more often. The last time I seen him was like June 16 and at my one game a few days ago. ( Just because he had all star practice).

PLEASE HELP! p.s please dont give me just answers like to go to his house or somethin like that.

Yours truley,
Shy but in love

I'm kind of "phone shy", too. If it is much easier for you, you may want to try talking to him on AIM(or any other instant messaging program). If you still want to try talking to him over the telephone, you can ask your bf when he will be home and when he would like you to call him so that you'll know that he will pick up the phone. If anybody other than your bf picks up the phone, just stay calm, and tell them your name and whom you would like to talk to.
I hope I helped a little bit.

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I am 13 5feet 7inches and 170lbs. all my friends are under 120. tell me ways to loss weight or give me websites...i will love yous so much!

Just because you weigh 170lbs does not mean that you are "fat" or overweight! Your friends are probably not as tall as you.

If you really would like to lose weight, you can drink a lot of water. You can also eat healthier.(EXP: replacing a bag of chips with a fruit salad or something). If you exercise vigorously 3 times a week, you should be good. Hope I helped.

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hi
i am 16/f/uk
i used to cut last yr then i stopped cos things got a bit better in my life
but since about feb this yr i ave bn really depressed i cry my self to sleep every nite i ave started to cut again over the most stupid things. i cant find another way to let it all out. its like an addiction, when i get angry or upset i have an urge to cut.
my parents ave split up n i wanna be with my best boy mate hu is leavin to live in aussie and i wanna tell him how i feel i also hate the way i look i am over weight i have spots and i am just so low at the moment i dont want to see any doctors i just want some one to listen and not judge me
can some one tell me why im feeling and doing these things?
sorry its so long

I can't tell you why you cut yourself, because everybody cuts for a different reason. However, I can help you stop, by replacing the cutting with other things.
Instead of cutting you can....
*read
*draw a picture
*Write about your feelings;keeping a journal can be rather helpfu
*Squeeze ice in your hand
*Call a friend
Etc, etc, etc

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hi, my website is http://www.freewebs.com/locoreality and I really need to know how to get a guestbook on your site where people can leave messages. My shoutboxes are too small. So does anyone know a site that I can get a guestbook on?

-Johanna (twistedsister17)

Guest City is a really good site to get Guest Books. It is free and very easy to use, as well.

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