I hope to help those in need in life lessons, love, friendships, and hardships.
It's a tough life to live for anyone, either in their work world, love life, their children, their money...."There is always Hope"....and I aim to help those find that hope and successfully get passed the woes of the world :-)
I carry a degree in Information Technology, but have also taken previous courses in Child Psychology and General Psychology to gather an understanding of our emotions and how we deal with them as humans.
I also have my own travel business EGVacations.com and I care for my 4yr old son, (I have 4 children; 18, 16, 12, and 4) so the range in ages allows me to see all aspects of what children are going through. Whew!!
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so my boyfriend was over yesterday, and i have my period so i was wearing a tampon
we got into an intense "dry humping" session, but today my vj hurts A LOT
like, it feels like a giant bruise
is this normal? (link)
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I'm gonna have to say it's pretty normal...Sexual activity gets pretty intense, u know? :-)
Just give it a day or two...pain should go away on it's own...
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ok, i'm 14 year old girl and i have a boyfriend, and i really like him, we spend lunch and break times together, hugging, we wait for each other to come out of lessons, hold hands and stuff. this is really typical, but it would help to know if he wanted to kiss me, not proper snogging, just a little one on the lips.
when we hug, he kisses me on the head (mostly because that it is the only part he can easily kiss with out leaning down, he is quite tall) and he brings me in for hugs all the time. he is also quite protective over me, and wont let people hit me over the head with water bottles etc. (ummm... yer, this one person seems to do it all the time... don't ask...) he is quite shy, the 9th of december is our one month, if that helps?
answers from boys would be helpful, but girls are welcome to give advise, like if he does want to kiss, which way do i go in, head tilt? kissing is a confusing business...
oh yer, i'm from England :) (link)
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This is the cutest thing....I so remember my first kiss and it was a disaster!!! We butted Noses...too cute for that first kiss at 14.
Well, let's see what we got here....one big thing I know that's on your mind is your 1 month anniversary....perhaps it will be your most memorable if you get your first kiss then.
Of course it's cute to be kissed on the forehead, and a very sweet thing too...but if it's the right time, you wanna be ready.
Like most guys, they are not really sure what to do....they wonder for a while if it's ok to kiss you, cuz they don't want you to freak out...and diss them, u know?? But I have a feeling he's been ready, perhaps waiting on you...but let's get ya ready, just in case it comes before the 9th...
Since he's taller than you, you have a great advantage. If he tends to pull you in for hugs directly in front of him, you can simply look up straight at him, and he would be the one to tilt his head. No pressure on you....Good luck!!!
I so want to know how this goes!!
Please keep me posted!!
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Okay so my best friend since... ever and me are fighting, well sorta. I'll give you the story it may be long but it is essential to knowing my problem:
Okay so yeah we have been best friends for six years {sophmores}. And now he is changing! It is horrible, his parents are seperating he is moving away, in a year!!! I feel so bad for him! However he has treated me like crap! He won't text me or anything! I txted him one day and asked him something. When he didn't answer i got my cousins phone and txted him, and he replied to him!!!!
When I asked him why he wouldn't talk to me he says he forgot to! Also he only likes to talk to me or be my partner, or eat lunch with me when no one else in the world is around! Its like he is so into being popular now.
He has changed his looks, wears different clothes, and he flirts with sluts. I know that sounds bad, but its true. He used to like descent people and now he talks to girls who will just use him!! But what can i say to him??? Nothing , its his life. But its eating away at me watching him change. Also his grades are dropping. And why is it he can talk about anything to someone he doens't know, yet me his friend, can't even have a conversation!
What should I do, after he didn't txt me a week ago tomrorow i got mad at him, and have been ever since! But i miss him i guess... he doesn't even care i am mad at him!! He doesn't even CARE>>>>>>>>>>> ugh.
Is he my friend or what, what should I do. I don't wanna watch him change, but i guess i just don't have much a choice do i? :(
16/f
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It has to totally be driving you crazy that someone this close to you becomes distant and different towards you. You get so used to having him a certain way, and when that goes away, it kinda scares you and of course you want to know what's going on....
Establishing what's been happening in his world lately, he maybe escaping his own realm. His world is about to change, and you know he has no idea what his life will be like after that change. Perhaps he is running from you now, only fearing that he will have to anyway if he has to move.
I know the saying, you hurt the ones you love, but surely, you dont want to give up in finding out what you can do to get this closeness back.
All in all, you have to let him know you care about what's happening to him and let him know you are there for him, in listening, or whatever it is he might need. But don't push the issue either. Note to him some how that he is affecting you and it is hurting you that he's pushing away and his actions are just not normal.
He has to be given that space, unfortunately, to give him that time to come back to the real world.
All that negative attention he's getting from those other people are only temporary...he will see that on his own.
I hope this helps. I know it hurts to lose a forever friend. Been there...
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What are 3 good things about our world? (link)
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Why only look for 3, when for some there are so many other good things.
1. Love is first, because we all are looking for Love, to be loved, to love someone and be appreciated for all you do for that person.
2. Our Children. Our children come from our Love, some lust, I know, but some from love. And those children have an unconditional love for their mom and dad. Love your children like no other as they will be the ones to care for you when you are old and grey.
3. The beauty of the earth. It is a great thing that in every season, there are great things to look at in our world. The blue sky, the clouds, the mountains, the flowers, the rainbows...all those little things that can bring a smile to our face and warmth our to hearts.
Are these good things to start with??
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please dont judge me but im 17 and living in new jersey... is there any way i can get an abortion without telling my parents? and how expensive are then? They'd kill me if they found out... (link)
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I do know that abortions cost some serious money for a 17 year old to come up with...like in the $500 range.
I am an adopted child...every thought of this....
my mother left her home to live with her sister while she was pregnant and then went back home after she had me. She went back home like nothing had happened, and her family never found out about me.
It's only an option, but if you are head strong on the abortion, please pray about it and do what you feel is necessary.
Hope it all works out.
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Ok so i have a gf. Btw 14/m
I wanna hang out with her at like my house or her house. She doesn't want to hang out at her house for w/e reason in not totally sure. So she asked if she could come over sometime. I said yes. But im jw is it normal for me to not want her to come meet my parents because idk how they would act and it would be first time i had a gf over. Also i don't really like how my house looks like because idk i didn't pick out how it should look inside is this normal too? (link)
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Both of your concerns are very normal. You're 14 and it's kind of cool that you even bother to have these concerns.
It might be a good idea to let your parents know that you have this girl you like at school and you want to invite her over for dinner. See how your parents react. It would be good to see how they'd feel about it before you move on to other plans... like her coming over for a movie or whatever.
As for the house, if she's allowed to come over, show your parents you are trying to impress this young lady and try picking up around the house ;-)
Lemme know how it works out :-)
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I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder a couple months ago. I'm on an antidepressant and things were going wonderful and I was finally happy up until a month ago. I started going back to how I used to be (drinking, etc.). I also have ADD so I'm very restless/impulsive all the time and that's what the result is I guess. I don't want to slip back into my old ways. I'm trying so hard not to. It's just everyone my age makes it so difficult. I really need to focus on school and just getting myself better again. It's just that everytime I do I start slipping again. Help? How can I stick with this for once? (link)
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Well, it's obvious this is not something you can take lightly, because as one shies away from the world in their depressive state, they create their own bubble of solitude and sadness.
Unfortunately, we turn to those chemically engineered Wonder Drugs to help us escape. True they work in their wonderfully unquestionable ways, but heaven forbid we should lose those drugs and have a panic attack.
Let's see what you can do to focus on not slipping back into those old ways.
What about the things in your life that make you happy?? Or the mere fact that we are all given this one chance at life, and surely we have to believe that we were not put here on Earth to be unhappy.
If anything, I would love to help you find the positive things in your life. The things that you have to look forward to, like graduating school and where that will take you....
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