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About a week ago, i had a severe allergic reaction to the benzoyl (sp?) peroxide in an acne medication i just started using. i went to the doctors and since it was pretty serious, i had to use prescription benedryl(spelling? again :P) to make the swelling go down. this week its finally all gone, but now i'm back to the original problem : my acne ! Its ridiculous, i feel like i never have a moment when i DON'T have moderate//more severe acne. I'm thinking of taking a pill, but i don't know where to start. What are the side effects? Should i risk it,if the side effects are bad? Have you taken pills for acne? If so, was it worth it? Gah, any advice will do! (Please don't tell me about any acne washes/medicines, i've pretty much tried them all) Thanks soooo much! 16/f (link)
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well, drinking alot of water and watching what you eat can help.
Other than that, talk to your doctor, they should have all the information about side effects and any other questions you have.
i myself have never taken pills for acne, and most acne washes/medicines dont work for me. so i pretty much have the same problem.
so my only advice is talk to your doctor, im sure they will be able to help you!
Good luck!
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hi im 15 male and im gay my boyfriend is also 15 weve been together just over 6 months i love him a lot and the other day we were in his room we were making out and we nearly got caught by his mom and i freaked out a little we havent told anyone yet i dont think i want to tell anyone yet im not sure how to tell my parents about it or anyone else im worried about what they will think
should talk them or wait? (link)
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well, there's a couple different options.
I myself am bi, but i'm not telling my parents. but my aunts are lesbians, and one of my really good friends is gay. so i do have a bit of knowledge about this.
here are the options i have for you, and you decide what you think is best.
1. You could straight out tell them, if they love you, it wont matter to them that you are gay.
2. Wait a while and tell them,(if you are afraid of how they will react, watch what they do, like, their thoughts on gay people. do they have any friends that are gay? or what? if so, that will help, because they are ok with gay. then again, there are those very religious people who are anti-gay, if your parents are like that, then my advice would be not tell them now)
3. You could not tell them, and try to hide it, but this i wouldn't choose that as your first choice, because eventually they will keep asking you why you don't have a girlfriend. (but this CAN work with people at your school, if when you go to college, you move away from where you live.)
4. you could totally shock them and bring home your boyfriend and say "parents, i just want you to know, i have a boyfriend"
It really just depends on your parents thoughts of gay people.
Also, if you are going to tell them and they don't really like gay people, i think you should wait until you are about to move out. like... 17 or 18 years old, because i have heard storys of people getting thrown out because their parents disown them for being gay.
It could go either way, and im sorry if my answer was at all confusing. if you have any more questions, just ask me, because i am here for you. Really, if you need anything, just ask!
I hope i helped, and good luck.
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15/male and my penis is not that big im really worried ive never had a girlfriend will it grow?
am i normal? (link)
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your probably just a "late bloomer".
its normal. you will hopefully grow.
also, when you get a girlfriend, they shouldnt care about your penis size. seriously, if they do care that much about it, then they dont like you for you.
I hope i helped, and dont worry, everything will be fine!
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If i tried getting my vagina to be cleaner by putting listerine on it? (link)
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it would burn. alot. and i dont think it would help cleaning it.
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so two nights ago, i had sex. i actually had my period but i noticed it was kind of gone so i just had sex anyway. the condom didnt break cause like he held it up after and nothing came out..but for some reason im just really nervous. well anyways, i got my period last wednesday. usually my period lasts about a week..well okay so i got my period back the morning after i had sex. but today, its just brown discharge..that doesnt mean im pregnant right? im hoping maybe its just because its the light days of my period since i got it on wednesday..but i dont know.
please help (link)
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I dont think your pregnant. Brown discharge is normal for a light, end of period.
Hope i helped!
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So, i got two beautiful all white kittens about four months ago. My mom never really liked cats, but she let me get them. Ive always done everything she asked reguarding them, and cleaned the litter everyday. Since they were obviously still kittens they would get into stuff, and it would really get to my mom. She mentioned about getting rid of them quite a few times, but she always made a joke of it. Our agreement was, if i fail to clean the litter then she would get rid of them no questions asked. Well, last night she said something to me about how its a bad time to mention it but she has made a decison about the kittens. She said they are too much to handle and that i am never home (i work a lot) all i did was cry and walked outside.
This morning i woke up, about 20 minutes later i asked my mom where the kittens were. And she went "oh i took them to the shelter" I started freaking out and crying hysterically.
So, she took the kittens to the shelter when i was asleep. She didnt let me say goodbye, and didnt tell me she was taking them since we didnt really have a talk about them because i walked away.
I have never been more heartbroken in my life. Knowing that my own mother could hurt me in this way. I really dont know what to do, or how i can actually get over it. In my opinion it was extremely low of her to do so, knowing that i had them when they were 3 weeks old until now. I was extremely attached and she knew this. I plan on going to the shelter tomorrow in hopes to get them back. Why would she do this? How do i get over the worst pain of my life?
Any opinions on anything said above?
Thank you. (link)
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Well, first of all, yes that was VERY low of her. but she is your mom and you have to accept her decisions. I know you were attached to them, but trying to get them back will just make you and your mom angry at each other, and it wont end up pretty.
And i also think that she took them when you were asleep because she already decided she would take them, and because she probably thought that it would help you to not have to say goodbye.
Also i know that it is a terrible pain, but there are more painful things and the world. so be glad you dont have to deal with them.
I dont want to make it seem like im on your moms side, but i really am trying to help. and im sure the kittens will go to a great home.
I hope i helped, im sorry if i didnt, and good luck with dealing with your mom.
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i have a small room can you give me advise on where to put things i dont no n i have alot of stuff (link)
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well, your question doesnt give much information, but heres what i can say that might help.
organize things into different piles. things that go together. then put them into a box they can fit into. i dont kno what kind of things you have, but for an example art supply things/school supplys in one box, jewelry in another. and then when you are done, put the boxes under your bed, anywhere in your closet. anywhere you can fit it that it doesnt look stupid. =D
also i would advise you to get rid of anythign you dont use, or wear. its not doing you any good if you dont use it. you could give it to family, friends, good will, or just throw it away.
i hope i helped, and if you need anymore help, im here!
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help me! this person in my class is threating to kill me! he keeps saying dont tell any parents or he really will kill me, and when i try telling them they dont believe me! what should i do? (link)
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tell a teacher, or principle, but tell them if they talk to him, dont mention your name. make sure they know this and that you are really scared. if your parents dont believe you, start crying and everything to convince them that you are telling the truth and that you are really scared. even if he is kiding about kiling you, it is against school rules.
i hope i helped.
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Firstly, I am 15 and female. And my life is good right now, so I don't know why I would be sad but, anyways, this is my problem (please read, I know its long)...
I was looking through my previous questions from a couple years ago, and I realised I felt very sad at that period of time.
Then I went through a good phase, for more than a year.
Now I seem to be having the same feelings I had a couple years ago.
First was 7th grade, I was feeling lonely and depressed, next would've been the end of 8th grade, and now I am feeling the same in 10th grade.
It has come VERY sudden, A few weeks ago I was happy, now I have cried my self to sleep, held back tears when sad about nothing, hated my self and hated everyone and hated my life all in just a week.
The most recent sadness started about... last Thursday, then I was happy on the weekend (a bit angry, but happy), now I am sad again...
I am thinking it is school, but it feels like it might be a bit more serious.
Anyways, I heard that when u are depressed u get sad for a while, then you go happy, then sad, and it coninues for the rest of you life.
Do you think I have depression, or its just a sad time in my life, or its hormones?
I really hope I don't have depression, please help and dont hold back the truth :)
Thanks,
-Nat (link)
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well it could just be hormones, but it sounds like your bi polar. when your bi polar you are sad for long periods of time then happy other periods oof time. there is medicine you can take for it that can help.
maybe you should go get it checked out by a doctor or something. because depression and bi polar arent just emotions, its a medical desiese (im sorry, im having spelling issues at the moment)
good luck. i hope i helped!
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Does anyone know where i can download or buy the song "part of your world" by chely wright? i looked on frostwire and i cant find it. thanks. (link)
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You can try going to (type this into google) bresso mp3 search, and type it in there. i have good luck getting music from there! and its free!
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So I was just thinking, and I'm getting kinda worried... Is it true that when you enroll for school, they give out locker numbers out in order? Do you know what I mean? (I'm a freshman in high school by the way.) Like if one person enrolls and gets locker #387, would the person right after them get locker #388? Is it true that if you enroll before or after (or on the same day) with your friend(s) you'll have lockers close to them or right by them? Maybe it depends on the school, but I'm just curious. I think I'm enrolling on the last day possible and this is not giving me a good feeling. I really don't want a 'bad' locker or anything. Can anyone give me any info on this? Sorry if this was confusing! (link)
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well... your question was confusing, and my answer might be too... haha
ok, so at my school, its by alphabetical order.. but you keep the same locker all throughout high school, so even if its alphabetical order, its really not, because when seniors leave, they put the freshman in those lockers... and they do alphabetical through the open lockers... if that makes sense. i hope it does.
if not i will try to explain it a better way. ok?
hope i helped!
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13/m
ok so i went out with this girl for about 2 months but since the holidays i thought she was avoiding me cause everytime i talked to her or texted her if she wanted to go to the movies she said she was busy so i assumed she didnt like me anymore so the day back to school we broke up and its been about 2 or 3 weeks since we broke up and its really akward because we're in the same class and before we were going out we were pretty close but we only have known each other since the start of the year but everytime i say hi or what's up to her in class she says nothing and just walks away or stops talking and when i talk to her friends (which are also in my class) they do basically the same but sometimes we have short conversations so how long does it usually last until we start talking and hanging out and stuff again? (link)
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well did you just assume she didnt like you or ask her?
you have to remember, communication is important. she might have been really busy, or have had other things on her mind, like family issues or something. she might just be really sad that you broke up with her (believe me, i know how much it hurts to get your heart broken, and you do crazy stuff and never want to see the guy again, so you just ignore them)
but then again she might have liked someone else, or just not liked you anymore and didnt know how to break up. and she might just be a snob.
but try to ask her when her friends arent around. thry to get her to talk to you. if she doesnt, i think you just need to give her time, and you may be friends in the future, and you might not. if you are meant to be friends, it will happen.
i hope i helped and good luck!
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15/f
okay. so i like this guy a lot. and i think he likes me, but im not sure. i went to this party the other night and he was there. and i got his attention because he texted me 20 minutes after the party ended. so we have been texting each other off and on for the past few weeks, and sometimes he will just stop answering me. which is weird since he texts me first. and whenever i mention hanging out he says either alright or cool? what does that mean. im getting mixed signals. HELP PLEASE :) (link)
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well it sounds like he does, but doesnt know how to show it.
when you mention hanging out and he says alright or cool, i think hes trying to sound cool but isnt. and maybe when he quits texting you, either something came up (like parents yelling at him to do chores or something) or maybe just doesnt know what to say to you, and doesnt want you to think hes stupid or something.
maybe try talking to him about it. i find when you just tell a guy you like them, or ask them, they either tell you yes or no, (if they say maybe, either they arent sure or it is a yes they just dont wanna say it).
or ask who they like, and if they dont tell you, get them to tell you clues and see if you fit the clues.
i hope i helped and good luck! just remember be yourself and just talk to him about it!
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i like these 2 guys. aaron and ryan. they are both
soooo sweet and nice to me. but i dont know which one to pick. i need advice on which guy to pick. (link)
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listen to what your heart tells you.. if that doesnt work (though it should)
make a list of everything that makes you happy about each one. all of the good things.
then make a list about the bad things of each one.
then the one that has the less bad and most good is the one you should pick.
but first try to listen to your heart, which on makes you happier?
i hope i helped and good luck!
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i am 13 and i am trying to find a job that pays pretty good money. i live in pa. any ideas of places like restaurants that you can think of? (link)
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I dont live in PA, but im pretty sure that like Indiana, you cant work at many places at that age. even mcdonalds doesnt hire until your 15, and then you have to have a job permit.
Some ways to make money, would be (if their is something like a blueberry farm or anything around you, you could ask them if they hire 13 year olds.
Also you could do stuff that you wouldnt need to work at a work place, such as mow peoples lawn, baby sit, clean houses.
im 16 and i make pretty good money cleaning houses and mowing the lawn. (i get 120 a month for cleaning one house. i only clean one house though. one day a week. so 30 dollars a week. but you have to see what people are willing to pay you.)
I hope i helped and good luck on finding a job!
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i share a room with my little sister right now. i am 13 which means i am a teen now and i need my own room. it would give me more privacy and some peace and quiet. i need someone to tell me how to ask my parents into letting me have my own room. (link)
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First of all, is there a room for you to have?
then you have to think of all the good things about having a room. make a list. like it would give you peace and quiet, and even think of how it would help your parents (if you and your sister fight alot, you could tell them that you and your sister would be less likely to fight if you dont have the same room) just make a list of all the ways it would help you and the whole family and then tell them to your parents to support your arguement of getting a room.
if your parents still say no, respect their decision and dont make a giant deal about it, because if you can take them saying no, you will be more likely to get what you want in the future. Does that make sense??
I hope I helped and good luck. if you need any more help, feel free to ask me!
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I really want to stop drinking soda but I'm having a really hard time doing so. Usually I'll have 5-6 sodas a week and 99% of the time it's when I'm out. It's really not that much, but soda is so unhealthy for you and I'm trying to get a grip on my diet. Sometimes my dad keeps a 2 liter in the fridge so it's very tempting to have 'just a cup' and ending up drinking 2 more during the day. I don't want to switch to diet sodas either because they're worse for you and 0 calorie drinks like crystal lite contain aspartame which is a fake sweetener that causes a lot of health issues. Any ideas on how to stop? oh & I'm 17/f. (link)
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The only thing i can say is, drink milk and water. those are healthy for you. i know it is hard to stop drinking pop, but you just have to have your mind set. Ask your dad if he can put the pop somewhere where you cant see it (like out of the fridge somewhere and just use ice in it, or in a different fridge that you dont look in as much) you can also try flavored water, because alot of that is carbonated so it is pop-like, and it doesnt have many bad things in it.
good luck and hope i helped!
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Im a guy im 15 my girlfriend is as well and recently she said she wants to see my penis
im worried about it my penis is not that big
im not sure if she want to still be with me
do girls care much about penis size? (link)
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not normally they dont. some slutty bitches care, but you know, if she cares what size it is, you shouldnt be with her. She should like you for you, not ur penis size! Most girls dont care. she shouldnt if she really likes you.
I hope i helped! =D
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Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?
People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?
I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.
Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned. (link)
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He was definately the king of pop. i am a fan of his music, and was a definite fan of him. I wasnt born when he was extremely popular, but i remember all of the stuff about his accused molestations and i thought it was unfair the way he was treated.
I will definately miss him. and i am also really hurt that he is dead.
RIP michael
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usually for breakfast i have a fruit shake and a half a cup of oatmeal.
in my fruit shake i usually put about 15 blueberries, and 15 rasberries, about 4 strawberries and 2 cups of milk. a teaspoon of flaxeed and a teaspoon of wheat germ. also about a tablespoon of protein powder.
how many calories do you think is in my breakfast?
is this a good breakfast? (link)
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i dont know about the calories, but i dont think it is much.
I think it is good and healthy!
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